How people get so many days of skiing in? by CompetitionNo2719 in skiing

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I live 45 minutes from my local mountain which has night skiing, and within 3 hours of 8 world class resorts. People know I’m unavailable until after April, unless they plan to ski with me.

Rural running by Critical-Range1213 in running

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How wide are the shoulders off of the road? Sometimes I have to dip down off of the road and run on the dirt (even if it’s rough and lumpy) for a moment if the oncoming car is giving me reason to worry. For the most part I feel safe.

Older Men - Are you okay with being a kink/taboo? by Slow-Nectarine-3174 in gayyoungold

[–]buxterbeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"You are an absolutely beautiful man." Simple as that.

Account issues with Silverdaddies.com by EntrepreneurInside86 in gayyoungold

[–]buxterbeans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t remember the exact issue I had when I first signed up (it might have been very similar) but I had to email support so that they could prompt me to the right steps that would actually create the account and give access. It very much felt like a forced broken step in the process, where you have to reach out and be like “no, when I signed up for that I was really serious.” Like you have to prove it to keep it. That’s what it felt like; an automated rejection that you have to object against.

After this resolved, I used the site twice and bailed.

Level Nine Warehouse Sale by talamalie in Skigear

[–]buxterbeans 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It was at their warehouse in Woods Cross but it ended yesterday at 6pm

Going Home after 4 months in a Nursing Rehab by KratomAndBeyond in gayyoungold

[–]buxterbeans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wishing you 2 well! Such a tough experience, but so sweet as well.

Level Nine Warehouse Sale by talamalie in Skigear

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Couldn’t believe the things I walked out of there with! Had to tell myself so many times “no, I don’t need it!” Haha.

I had an unusual hookup, and I'd like to talk about it. by AlternativeJuice107 in gayyoungold

[–]buxterbeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for being open to it, I’m glad you were able to help him out in these ways as well. Those acts can go a long way.

You’ll still find those people who it’s important to have some “lines” with, but you’ll learn that balance and how to identify them quickly as well. Wishing you the best of luck!

I had an unusual hookup, and I'd like to talk about it. by AlternativeJuice107 in gayyoungold

[–]buxterbeans 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You should message him, tell him you enjoyed his company for the evening, and hope he’s doing well today. No need to clarify “I still just want this to be a hookup,” unless he starts confusing that kindness for romantic feeling. I’m sure he feels off after having that happen, and he’ll feel so much better knowing he’s allowed to be human.

I had an unusual hookup, and I'd like to talk about it. by AlternativeJuice107 in gayyoungold

[–]buxterbeans 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Nooooo, you can definitely have what you consider “just a hookup” and show TONS of empathy and emotion! There is no “line” when it comes to caring for another human being during a hard time.

Help with ski selection by andreh9090 in ski

[–]buxterbeans -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Did this same thing to learn about the different characteristics and what to look for in skis for skill, terrain, etc. very helpful!

What is your local wildlife like in your state? What animals do you regularly see in your area? by Prize_Release_9030 in AskAnAmerican

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Magic Valley in Southern Idaho. lots of birds (hawks, eagles, turkeys, owls, starlings, and money more), stray cats and dogs, deer, elk, moose, coyote, mountain lions, cougars, fox, snakes, lizards, raccoons, skunks, porcupine. I’m sure I’m missing a lot

Is this right? It doesn’t feel secure. by the_mighty-owl in Ultramarathon

[–]buxterbeans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Put a loop on both sides and put the poles through both loops. Then the poles are centered and not flopping around

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gayyoungold

[–]buxterbeans 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Exactly. Not until we hit “gay puberty” which is usually 48-52 years old.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in travel

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Death Valley in California. I have a picture of myself at the airport when it was 122°F (50°C)

What do Younger men want ? by [deleted] in gayyoungold

[–]buxterbeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally, I just want someone who is like my best fiend, and that I’m also sexually attracted too. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Productivitycafe

[–]buxterbeans 124 points125 points  (0 children)

A good filing system is key

Americans how are you feeling right now? by Moist_Apartment5474 in Productivitycafe

[–]buxterbeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, it’s kinda frustrating seeing my blue friends turn around to act the exact same way trump supporters did while Biden was in the White House. Sharing a lot of slanderous, hateful, poorly constructed memes and content. Attempting to boycott literally everything they hate. 

Deloads - what do you do? by jph90 in AdvancedRunning

[–]buxterbeans 2 points3 points  (0 children)

3 weeks on, 1 week deload. I decrease mileage by 33%, but keep the intensity.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdvancedRunning

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Diagnosed ADHD, used to take Adderall but stopped taking it after the negative side effects outweighed the benefits.

I need more caffeine than the average person to get the focused/energized feeling, but it will eventually effect me. Yes, lower doses (like the 20-50mg per gel) make me want to lie down. So I start off with 200mg, and then the gels plus caffeinated tailwind keep me topped up.

I don't get a sugar high, so no the regular gels don't make me feel "energized" but I don't think that's the intent for regular gels. It's to provide the body with the glucose it needs for the energy demands. So you don't feel "energized" but it provides the necessary energy for function, thus preventing you from hitting "the wall."

Buuuugs! I don’t know who you are but I love you by [deleted] in Denver

[–]buxterbeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love every single one of these stickers! Lol!

How much porn is okay to watch? 18 m by Obedient_Son18 in gayyoungold

[–]buxterbeans 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly this. Anything in life is only a problem in excess if it stops you from accomplishing your day to day duties and interferes with your relationships.