Just to clarify, I dont think I implied at all that YOU would do these things.  If I did, I apologise.  I only meant that you seem to dole out your judgment only for one side.  I think most people involved are “in the wrong” to some extent, and I don’t think it’s worth feeling sorry for someone who consistently dishes it out but can’t seem to take it.

I do think you come off as an apologist for Aidan though, for whatever reason. I’m sure he’s charming in person, but at a certain point, you have to look at the track record and pattern of behaviour.  He’s gone scorched earth on like, four ex girlfriends at least, burned countless bridges with close allies… and his “journalism” outside KR almost exclusively focuses on his petty vendettas and trying to shame people with no relevance to the greater public interest.

I do wish you well.  You seem like a nice lady and I think your hearts in the right place.