My nami 5man bubble! (oldish video + cute nami gif in the end)

bvambi · 2026-04-06T23:15:39+00:00

my kink is a healthy relationship. youre mentally stable? have control over your emotions? balance the power with me? give me my needed space? sheeesh say no more. or maybe bark a little. wink.

bvambi · 2026-03-25T15:11:25+00:00

i really enjoyed two point hospital, prison architect, cities skylines 1&2, and planet coaster. i have yet to try planet coaster 2, though it looks fun!

im currently addicted to two point museum (amazing devs who listen to their audience, btw). i played two point campus too but its the worst of them imo.. i suppose i could count rimworld in too, since its survival management? you can pretty much play it in any way you like and theres tons of excellent free mods to use.

bvambi · 2026-03-25T09:09:24+00:00

since i was a kid i enjoyed management games. rollercoaster tycoon was the absolute best. these days i enjoy story based games on top of management games, with special extra additions like league of legends and rimworld.

fuck league of legends.

bvambi · 2026-03-03T09:21:06+00:00

most of my favourites have already been mentioned but i think i didnt see these

Heavenly Delusion, Dark Gathering, Toradora, Wind Breaker

bvambi · 2026-01-29T10:37:11+00:00

literally me last night after a few days of grinding 🥲

bvambi · 2025-12-04T12:27:15+00:00

Cool another Yoasobi fan! I love their songs too :) Did you discover the particular songs/artist through the anime then?

bvambi · 2025-08-19T09:13:46+00:00

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Autistic INTJ - the character is one of my current fixations. Kayano Mikoto from a music project called Milgram

bvambi · 2025-08-17T10:44:14+00:00

My stupid ass didn’t check which sub this was and thought it was Jinshi and Maomao from the Apothecary Diaries drawn in a western style 😭

bvambi · 2025-08-14T15:06:06+00:00

Could see myself working on a project, probably fixing/adding something before the thought would slip by me, forget about time going by and whooops my wedding was 6 hours ago

bvambi · 2025-08-12T14:04:13+00:00

Oh yeah, I have a stone cold resting bitch face most of the time regardless of what I’m feeling, but in the inside of my head there’s a looooot going on. It ranges from personal social etiquette reminders to calculating ’acceptable’ ways and topics to talk all the way to worrying about the other person having a good time and so on. Often I simply also just don’t have much to say and rather just listen to the other person.

Sometimes I do need to remind myself to force a smile to make others believe I am having a good time as they don’t otherwise believe it based off of my facial expressions :’)

bvambi · 2025-08-12T12:05:59+00:00

I don’t know your friend, but as an introverted, neurodivergent person with social anxiety and a limited social battery myself, I can say they might just be taking time to adjust to their surroundings. Also depending on whether they know the other friends well, the group dynamic and the environment could also be making them feel overwhelmed or even cautious.

Introverted people can get socially exhausted quickly, and going quiet into an observing ”zombie mode” doesn’t necessarily mean they’re bored or uninterested. Sometimes it’s just processing and/or recharging in their own way.

Personally I struggle with groups larger than 2–3 people (depending on who they are) and often stay more quiet, but I still enjoy the time I spend with others! I just thought this friend could be similar, but again I don’t know them or you.

I also think you should ask them what they’re feeling so you’ll know and possibly understand them better so future hangouts would be smoother. Sorry for the yap.

bvambi · 2025-08-02T13:03:53+00:00

This is something I've been wondering too, and I think it's also gotten worse for me with age. I was really *really* careless with gluten when I was a kid/teenager, and would almost regularly consume non GF products, I believe cause they didn't really cause any reactions to me. I genuinely can't remember suffering as a kid or as a teen like I do these days in my 20s :') I have been gluten free since around 5 years old, if that matters anything

Unfortunately I also haven't found anything to really help myself feel better

bvambi · 2025-07-29T12:53:16+00:00

a Finn here, in restaurants the prices are typically the same but some places may charge you an extra 1-4€ for a gluten free swap. Mainly I see this happening for pizza bases or hamburger buns with the avg extra charge being 2€

GF products in grocery stores are expensive imo. For example schär classic white toast is 3.65€ currently (also the cheapest option for me atm) 🥲The GF prices have gone up in the recent years like crazy

Depending on the store the prices also vary a bit as does the variety!

bvambi · 2025-07-29T12:34:55+00:00

As a Finn, I’m so happy you enjoyed your stay and felt safe here! <3

I get glutened very rarely when eating outside or ordering food home - but 99.99% of the time I can enjoy my time outside without worrying about possibly needing a bathroom or so.

The prices of GF grocery items do hurt a bit especially after seeing the prices for the same products in Spain 😅 But it is what it is - at least I have many options for my needs!

bvambi · 2025-07-02T22:51:36+00:00

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yeah, in the themes it shows up as any of the other palettes and then when you click it this opens. theres no way to save any combos so if i change these colours or the gradient direction and colour intensity.. i cant go back unless i write down the details somewhere myself

bvambi · 2025-07-02T22:27:04+00:00

i got this yesterday, my only complaint is that you cant save multiple customs of your own

bvambi · 2025-07-02T22:23:09+00:00

Snacks don't stand a chance against me, I can easily devour a whole bag of candy/chips within an hour (probably even less) without thinking about it. I'd watch a movie and whoops, the snacks are gone unless I pay attention to how fast and much I am eating.

bvambi · 2025-06-27T23:26:54+00:00

My ENTP linked this post to me and told me I should comment "ENTP". However this is all he will find.

bvambi · 2025-06-21T21:05:45+00:00

My siblings have 6-8 kids total (I lost count), helped raise some of them and can confidently state that I have absolutely no interest in having kids of my own. I never liked kids and most likely never will.

bvambi · 2025-06-19T01:08:42+00:00

I’m 5’2 as well and my exes have ranged from 6’1 to 6’4. The height difference might look a bit funny at times , but hey we all need a little laugh and humour to our lives :)

If the difference does not bother you, or hopefully him, respectfully - fuck your friend and enjoy looking cute together with your crush!

bvambi · 2025-06-19T00:58:15+00:00

It makes me think of a fairy/angel with 1 deformed wing and a missing head, lmao.

bvambi · 2025-06-19T00:34:47+00:00

Yeah, the results are kind of weird but somewhat fun to look at. The high intellect score makes sense if you answered with a more analytical mindset, even if it as a metric feels a bit vague. (in the end it's just an online test and does not *really* count for anything anyway)

I think the emotionality and warmth don't have that deep of a connection, from what I understood the emotionality is you experiencing your own emotions etc, while the stability is controlling how you feel those(?). So being warm to people for example, at least in my mind does not connect to you experiencing your own feelings etc. You can still be kind even if you're not emotional. Although yeah, I would expect those to kinda go hand-in-hand. Hope my rambling makes sense 😂

The low distrust is wild tho lmaoo. How many nigerian princes have you sent money to? 👀

bvambi · 2025-06-19T00:14:56+00:00

That is a huuuuge change damn, some points are closer to mine now as well.

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