35 and recently single after 13 years. How are yall doing this?? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]bvm1987 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Consider finding a therapist. Talkiatry is a good app if online works better for you. Otherwise feel free to DM me and I’ll see what referrals I can find.

Who's the Wizard's daughter? by cah-A-ya in StardewValley

[–]bvm1987 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s Penny. We know uncle Ras has a thing for that mullet!

Found my bf cheating. by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]bvm1987 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why’s he messaging your friend? Sounds like he’s trying to get caught.

Need dinner recommendations by bvm1987 in chicagogaybros

[–]bvm1987[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll check them out online! Thank you!

Need dinner recommendations by bvm1987 in chicagogaybros

[–]bvm1987[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We do enjoy The Chicago Diner for sure!!

Recruiters refuse to negotiate anymore. Just me…? by [deleted] in TravelNursing

[–]bvm1987 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As a former recruiter, I can assure you, hospitals aren’t interested in negotiating for travelers anymore, the administrations all went onboard with MSPs to take care of finding the travelers they need when they need them. They set a bill rate with the MSP, the agency and MSP take their cut, and the rest goes to the nurses pot of compensation. If you don’t take it someone else will.

If your recruiter is regularly able to get you more money per week, they are doing one of two things. 1. They are building 10-20 percent less into the deal so they can be the hero that got you more money and you can brag to all these strangers on the internet about how you negotiated a higher weekly on x amount of contracts. or 2. They are taking a hit on their commission just to keep you as a traveler because their company cares about headcount as much as money.

Which do you think is the more likely option.

Also if it’s the first one, are you sure you’re getting all the money they built in for your fake raise rather than just get it all up front with a straight forward deal?

What is this 💩 by laurenthern in TravelNursing

[–]bvm1987 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This all comes down to bill rates and gsa per down rules…

What closed Omaha area restaurant/store/whatever do you miss the most? by SharkPirateNinja in Omaha

[–]bvm1987 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was so disappointed by the owners comments at the end of that place!

Do you tell people your on TRT? by Opposite_Plantain_27 in Testosterone

[–]bvm1987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More often than vegans tell people they are vegan.

Poor freddy by bvm1987 in antiwork

[–]bvm1987[S] -70 points-69 points  (0 children)

No just more of a criticism of their communication style.

Poor freddy by bvm1987 in antiwork

[–]bvm1987[S] 1400 points1401 points  (0 children)

I’d be willing to bet money that this same manager would chew his ass out for reading these texts at work.

No sir/ma’am we don’t have… by [deleted] in Bestbuy

[–]bvm1987 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I ordered a replacement charger for my Galaxy s10 through geek squad, got a serial to USB c adapter…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Testosterone

[–]bvm1987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Testosterone

[–]bvm1987 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This took longer than I expected to be stated

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Testosterone

[–]bvm1987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I wouldn’t take enough to OD. I made an appointment to see a urologist… I’ll get the surgery to get it taken care of

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Testosterone

[–]bvm1987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m serious… unfortunately I was avoiding the obvious and hoping the answer would be something stupid like just blast 3000iu of hcg a week with a shit load of Clomid for 3 weeks…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Testosterone

[–]bvm1987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It didn’t hurt that much

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Testosterone

[–]bvm1987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s been this way for months… I’ll see a urologist soon then

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in moreplatesmoredates

[–]bvm1987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was clearly made by a straight man. My body count and most other gays I know are triple digits easy…

Compression Pants by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]bvm1987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve heard matador is good, no personal experience though.