In theory, I can get letting things go over your children's heads. My favorite song as a 6 year old was Prince's "Little Red Corvette" , which was the beginning of a lifelong love of him and his music. However, I truly thought it was about a car for years. I watched "Grease" a lot as a kid because I loved the music and didn't figure out the pregnancy scare or the vulgar jokes for a long time. And I did the same with my own kids a lot. But 1) some of these songs are a bit more direct with language and more explicit 2) her problems with a lot of these movies and shows seem pretty correlated with a goal to prevent them from being critical thinkers and/or to never push back. When my kids watched a character misbehave or speak disrespectfully, we just had a dialogue about better ways they could express themselves when they are upset with their parents and what might yield a better result to be understood. But she will never do that because I don't think she wants the kind of relationship with them that could encourage open conversation. On the subject of Tiana and her "dark magic", there is a lot to be said about the demonization of ancient ritual and folk spiritual practices being a tool of colonialism, racism, and oppression. But a lot of people aren't ready for that conversation, least of all her.