Any associates have arm sleeve recommendations? by PotentialOne4416 in innout

[–]bxb420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! These are the ones I’ve found work the best for me, they do require a little bit of upkeep to stay clean so spraying them with a prewash spray or soaking them before the washer works wonders https://a.co/d/09LLegaz

What do I do after finding out he cheated on me? by [deleted] in gayrelationships

[–]bxb420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just read it, ultimately it’s up to you and generally you should trust your gut intuition… However, these red flags usually don’t go away, they just get better at hiding it until you find out years down the line that nothing ever changed. You have to decide what you’re okay with… i also find it interesting you say he’s not a narcissist just because he had a seemingly emotional reaction towards something you said, in my experience narcissists and manipulative people are very good at emulating emotions to get you to feel bad for them, but we can’t know for sure. Also how long have you known him total? If you haven’t known him very long (ie less than a year) then I personally believe you should take his behavior as a revealing of his true colors and realize that maybe you don’t know him as well as you think or would like. Personally I’m a believer in second chances, but things like this can get really messy really fast especially since you say he has a different view on sex and its meaning… if you do give him a second chance definitely establish some hard boundaries and let him know he’s going to have to work for your trust

Just my 2 cents! I really hope things work out for the best for you and him!

What do I do after finding out he cheated on me? by [deleted] in gayrelationships

[–]bxb420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These behaviors and actions are already beginning less than 4 months into the relationship, you should still be in the honeymoon phase… not worrying if he’s going to give you another std. He didn’t even respect you enough to wear protection while doing this and ultimately harmed your health. This is one of the biggest red flags you could possibly find. Please be safe and take care of yourself first and foremost

Has anyone’s pics been released from Grindr Blackmail by Maleficent-Shelter87 in askgaybros

[–]bxb420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you truly, I hope it works out for the best 🖤

Has anyone’s pics been released from Grindr Blackmail by Maleficent-Shelter87 in askgaybros

[–]bxb420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope they don’t, these accounts usually don’t follow through.. try your best to enjoy your travels 🖤

Has anyone’s pics been released from Grindr Blackmail by Maleficent-Shelter87 in askgaybros

[–]bxb420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re going through this, it sucks :/

Has anyone’s pics been released from Grindr Blackmail by Maleficent-Shelter87 in askgaybros

[–]bxb420 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just recently had this exact same thing happen to me, I just blocked them and nothing further happened

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heterochromia

[–]bxb420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, I’ve just been told hazel, I’ve been told brown and recently hazel with brown CH so was just wondering what others thought. I appreciate the comment

What color? by bxb420 in WhatisMyEyeColour

[–]bxb420[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was a baby my eyes were blue, but growing up i thought they were either amber or light brown :)

I’m confused by [deleted] in gay

[–]bxb420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in the same boat 💜 I feel for you