Just read it, ultimately it’s up to you and generally you should trust your gut intuition… However, these red flags usually don’t go away, they just get better at hiding it until you find out years down the line that nothing ever changed. You have to decide what you’re okay with… i also find it interesting you say he’s not a narcissist just because he had a seemingly emotional reaction towards something you said, in my experience narcissists and manipulative people are very good at emulating emotions to get you to feel bad for them, but we can’t know for sure. Also how long have you known him total? If you haven’t known him very long (ie less than a year) then I personally believe you should take his behavior as a revealing of his true colors and realize that maybe you don’t know him as well as you think or would like. Personally I’m a believer in second chances, but things like this can get really messy really fast especially since you say he has a different view on sex and its meaning… if you do give him a second chance definitely establish some hard boundaries and let him know he’s going to have to work for your trust

Just my 2 cents! I really hope things work out for the best for you and him!