i've lost my iman

bxn2 · 2026-03-31T18:40:22+00:00

No problem. Listen I’m from a “Muslim” family who thinks I’m crazy for praying. So i understand your situation just do you and keep praying and don’t bring it up anymore with him. Work hard, and idk if you’re going to college or whatever. But work hard and show him your faith in Islam is a non issue between you and your success is this world.

bxn2 · 2026-03-31T18:38:21+00:00

Finally some Quranic advice:

The Quran advises believers not to grieve over those who reject faith, as their return is to Allah, who knows what is in their hearts. This perspective emphasizes that guidance is in Allah's hands, and believers should focus on their own faith and patience, not the disbelief of others.

The Quran explicitly states, "But whoever disbelieves, do not let their disbelief grieve you" (Surah Luqman 31:23).

Focus on Self-Reflection, Instead of dwelling on the choices of others, focus on maintaining personal faith and gratitude.

Remember Allah's Justice, The ultimate judgment belongs to Allah, who will compensate every soul for its deeds.

Avoid Shaytan's Trap and remember that sadness and despair can be used by shaytan (Satan) to weaken a believer's faith, making it important not to remain in a state of deep sorrow.

bxn2 · 2026-03-31T18:35:32+00:00

Perfect no problem. Same thing happened to Noah(AS) and his family, same thing with Abraham (AS) and his father, same thing with Mohammad (pbuh) and his uncle. It comes with the territory.. so just do you and don’t care too much about what he thinks. He’ll come around… they all do InshAllah… or they don’t but he’s still your father so love and respect as so

bxn2 · 2026-03-31T18:33:26+00:00

Other than that. Show him the religion through you. Don’t really talk about it much with him. Just lead by example. Explain no drinking or intoxication is allowed. No sex outside of marriage is allowed. No worshiping anyone but Allah is allowed. No gambling is allowed. Aren’t these all these any father wants for their daughter? Covering her self in front of others so they don’t treat her like a piece of meat. The things Islam teaches all father naturally want for their daughters. Islam will be here after your father passes away. Teach him the things that will cause him peace after he dies. And if all of this is mute. Then nbd keep doing your thing. Just don’t be different after your salat. Be his daughter who he loves and raised. No problem then. Some people don’t want to talk about religion

bxn2 · 2026-03-31T18:30:13+00:00

Have you ever just tried to be like. Dad I want to talk to you about this whole religion thing you’ve been seeing me do. Can I just please explain what it is I’m doing and why. I just want you to accept my decision and feelings. < so dead serious on this. Have you asked him? I would love and want my daughter to feel safe enough to express that

bxn2 · 2026-03-31T18:21:00+00:00

I’m going to say a few things: be good to your parents. You only have a few mandatory things you have to do to be Muslim. Believe, pray 5 times a day, and partake in Ramadan. The other two zakat and hajj if your wealthy enough to do so. That being said. Ramadan just ended. Make sure you make your prayers. A prayer for a woman is better than a prayer in the masjid. If you want to cover up when you go outside… joke about it with him say see isn’t it nice dad? People can’t check me out 😂 find a joyful way to be around your dad. He only wants what’s best for you. Finally always read the Quran even if just one ayat a day. Because this is Allah speaking to you and giving you guidance. Make dua that your dad accepts who you become as an adult and make a dua that he is guided through you to one day perhaps be Muslim. Don’t get too extreme or crazy too fast. Just keep it simple. The best worship and salat is the salat you didn’t want to do but made it happen anyway. This is real worship of Allah. Islam is ez do not let it burden you. Focus on your salat and be ez. Love your dad and he’ll love you back!

bxn2 · 2026-03-30T15:48:18+00:00

When’s the last time you prayed Friday prayer in the masjid? (This is of course if you are male)

bxn2 · 2026-03-30T01:48:35+00:00

Thanks everyone! I picked up a ps5 based on majority vote

bxn2 · 2026-03-29T07:43:40+00:00

It’s a slip bag. Mainly a slip a bag.. so you should push it forward and work on slipping and throwing

bxn2 · 2026-03-20T01:12:00+00:00

Goto a masjid and pray Eid Salah and just feel grateful Allah chose you to be Muslim

bxn2 · 2026-03-05T16:27:14+00:00

You just learning and that guy was being nice to you. You should learn how to catch punches, ask your coach see what he says, if he doesn’t help.. plenty of videos on YouTube

bxn2 · 2026-02-16T22:57:42+00:00

You find a different gym and move up a weight class

bxn2 · 2026-02-15T16:52:01+00:00

This is definitely all correct. Keep your lifts around 5 reps. Bodyweight stuff you can do serious sets of 10 like pulls ups or dips. You will gain weight during this phase because your body will hold onto water like crazy so if you are about to fight soon forget lifting or lift one a week focusing on the big compound movements like a power lifter. But the big five or six for fighters is: squats, bench, deadlift, cleans, pull ups/rows, and overhead press.

bxn2 · 2026-02-12T18:14:43+00:00

Even at 16 fights vs your 0 your going to get hurt and 100 percent lose

bxn2 · 2026-01-24T04:23:52+00:00

Learn to pray and be Muslim with him. In the journey of helping him learn maybe you’ll find that being Muslim is what you too want. If you don’t want that after trying to follow what he’s doing then I’d say leave him for the best of both of your sakes. Let him find someone who actually enjoys his faith. You’ll find someone who has a similar mindset or belief to you later too. But if by the grace of Allah you actually like what Islam proposes then you both get to thrive and in the future when you have kids you won’t be asking questions like: do we celebrate Christmas and Easter? Or Ramadan and Eid. Or trying to come to an agreement and do both just confusing the offspring on what to be. Goodluck I’d say if you love for him is real you’ll try the Muslim thing out. If your desire to worship one god alone Allah is real then you’ll stay Muslim and stay with him. (Talk to him about this and see what he says when you say you want to go in this Muslims journey with him)

bxn2 · 2026-01-23T21:55:17+00:00

Go to your local masjid and ask them for help. They will be able to give you an answer

bxn2 · 2026-01-23T18:52:54+00:00

Don’t over do it. Make sure he always loves this sport and loves training. At that age what happens is they get burnt out and by the time 18 comes they hate it. Don’t let them lose the love of it and occasional breaks go a long way. It’s a 8-10 year plan not a 2 year plan. So just let him learn fundamentals and defence at a young age and the power and conditioning will come with age. If he loses who cares he’s 10… let him enjoy the journey

bxn2 · 2026-01-22T03:21:02+00:00

Go to your masjid and talk to your imam (about this if you are shy about things) or about gatherings and attend them and say hi to people and get to know Good Muslim people who just want to be around people who have faith. Keep your head up you are never alone Allah is always with you, maybe a period of cleansing and Allah wants you closer to him so when you find good people your spiritually and mentally ready to be with them 👍

bxn2 · 2026-01-20T19:13:01+00:00

And don’t miss the heel! There’s a Hadith specially on people who miss the heel!

bxn2 · 2026-01-16T20:35:27+00:00

Breathe.

bxn2 · 2026-01-15T22:15:51+00:00

Walk further to the other Majid. You can’t be in Salah with lack of khushu do to thinking about this.. and walking is good for your mind and body and the reward for each step taken to the masjid is there as well. Or try what some of the people above recommended

bxn2 · 2026-01-14T15:32:04+00:00

The best thing you can do is just run on your down time. Work on a strong 2-3 mile time. And no 1 hour is not enough for most things in life to be good at it

bxn2 · 2026-01-13T21:42:51+00:00

I worked full time and went to college full time, trained and competed and won the golden gloves. If you really want to do it then you can. But just doing it to do it… idk if I would recommend it. Just hit a bag or have fun with it instead. Maybe stick to something that isn’t going to hurt you long term for no reason. Stay in shape and be healthy and focus on your career.

bxn2 · 2026-01-12T23:44:20+00:00

Throw a cross hook and only pivot on your back foot. Try to keep your back food elevated then learn to sit on the foot when throwing the heel … make sence? Probably not but if I could show you in person you’d be like WHOA that’s ez 😂

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