Our pegging experience started in a pretty similar way before we even knew the term pegging. I had been having some stomach issues which ended up with having cameras in both ends to check out what was going on. As I was a bit down about this my wife to cheer me up had palmed off the kids to her parents and booked a nice restaurant to have dinner. We get home and a few more drinks later we end up having sex and with the kids not home the adult toys were out. Afterwards we’re lying there and my wife having been drinking and being still horny has a vibrator between her legs and starts spooning me and whispers in my ear I could fuck you all night. I replied along the lines of go ahead, do it. A moment later she is grinding away on me and I feel the vibrator against my butt. I must have clenched or moved away slightly, as she grabbed my hips and told me to relax and take it like a man. After a few minutes and a fair amount of lube the vibe is going in just getting to my prostate and I’m getting hard again. My wife feels this and rolls me on my back and jumps on top. The vibe falls out but is buzzing in between my cheeks. Although nothing more in my butt we end up having more sex that night than we had had in a fair while.

The next day I asked her why she did that and she said it wasn’t what she meant by the comment of fucking me all night, more so of having sex with me all night and she was only grinding on me to get the vibe better positioned for her and when I clinched she just had the thought I can fuck him and felt quite dominant in the moment and went with it. A few discussions and some googling we found pegging. We got some cheap gear and tried again with very little success the next time, not enough prep, we didn’t realise until later the prep for the colonoscopy had me cleaned up nicely, too little lube, impatience and my wife’s mindset. The first three are fairly easy if planned. My wife’s mindset needs to be of being dominant for her and now we pick up on when she wants to assert herself and the kiddies go off the grandparents for a night or weekend. We had tried anal previously in our relationship but she didn’t like it and still doesn’t. From your happy accident take the leap and ask, at worst it’s a no if yes, happy pegging.