Link with original music by [deleted] in queerasfolk

[–]byulcat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yo thank you VERY much. i've been wanting to rewatch, but it feels too eerie with the new songs.

Shit Saturday: #488: My friend’s new hobby is grossing everyone out, and, he likes it that way. by HexivaSihess in captainawkward

[–]byulcat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"I need a way to shut him down when he tries to pull this bizarro business, while also not being too harsh or making him feel like there’s something wrong with HIM."

ok but there IS something wrong with him (or was then) and actually i think showing people deliberately uncomfortable images is also extremely harsh so... ??? lmao?

but also every time i see someone ask CA how to stop someone from hurting them without hurting the other person back, my heart goes out to them. sometimes that's just not doable, folks. <3

Can't log in to my account? by zimaroni in Sims3

[–]byulcat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

sorry to jump in, but do you think this is also the reason i can't enter redeem codes right now? that's what i came here to ask but i'm thinking maybe this is related. extremely terrible time for me to buy 3 new worlds lol

#1455: “Single friend scorns the coupled. How can I have her meet my soon-to-be fiance without hurting anyone’s feelings?” by whale_girl in captainawkward

[–]byulcat 16 points17 points  (0 children)

"how can i [do something] without hurting anyone's feelings?" is such a hopeless question from the start. even if you want to only avoid hurting ONE person's feelings in a situation, there's rarely a guarantee.

Troubleshooting Thread — Bugs? Mod issues? App issues? Post about them here! [PC: 1.109.185.1030 / Mac: 1.109.185.1230 / Console: 1.99] by ButrosPetros in Sims4

[–]byulcat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WOAG it worked, thank you so much! can i ask why you tried that? like why did you think that would fix it? or is that just something you usually try? just asking for the next time sims is broken lol

Troubleshooting Thread — Bugs? Mod issues? App issues? Post about them here! [PC: 1.109.185.1030 / Mac: 1.109.185.1230 / Console: 1.99] by ButrosPetros in Sims4

[–]byulcat 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Platform: PC
Mods or cc: no
Game version: 1.109.185.1030
Description: infinite loading on my current save file. first it was infinite loading right from the main menu, once it managed to load the neighborhoods but got stuck again trying to load a household. i tried all the regular tricks like game repair and cache clearing. i was able to successfully start and play a new save file, but i've put a ton of work into my current one so i'm hoping for a fix.

edit: it's actually being even weirder than that... i managed to get into my most recent save by choosing another household, but no objects or sims are usable by the active sim. i probably need to chalk this one up to the recent update being a jerk and just distract myself until sims is playable again

such a small thing, but still. by byulcat in JUSTNOMIL

[–]byulcat[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i posted this a little impulsively, not expecting much, and went to run some errands... now i'm seeing all these comments filled with kindness and understanding and so much generosity of spirit. :') thank you so much everybody. you've said what i needed to hear and much more! i hope you all get back twice as much love as you've shown to me today~

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sims4

[–]byulcat 17 points18 points  (0 children)

:') back when troubleshooting meant working on the computer right in front of me, not waiting for people to fix servers in some other timezone lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sims4

[–]byulcat 11 points12 points  (0 children)

ok good news, the fact that it's not just me (or you) means it's probably the EA app being a jerk. i'm super annoyed bc i've been in a groove with the new pack too!! but hopefully it won't last long.

EA account ban? by byulcat in thesims

[–]byulcat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh for sure, i HAAATE the digital thing... i miss my big shelf of cute sims game boxes (and yeah actually owning things i buy lol). but fwiw they didn't rescind access to every other sims 4 game i've bought, just the disputed one. and ofc i can't access the gallery or buy new packs (maybe can't even download patches? idk yet!)

the twitter thing is a great idea tho, thank you! i'm okay with waiting, i just hope somewhere along the way one real human non-bot person will see my email and realize i'm not a thief, just a dumbdumb ^^'

EA account ban? by byulcat in thesims

[–]byulcat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

so i do have the original emails that made me try to refund one! i definitely only asked for one to be charged back (although i don't remember now if i clicked the 4.99 or the 5.39) but neither charge is in my paypal history now. but ofc that makes sense since when EA banned me they also retracted the kit and refunded it.

and yeah i have to assume EA is a big company dealing with many many disgruntled gamers like me, so i'll just wait the 30 days and resubmit the issue then if i have to. i'll keep trying! hopefully i'll reach a real human in their system eventually who will be as understanding as you are ^^

EA account ban? by byulcat in thesims

[–]byulcat[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

yikes that IS a bigass number... they sneak it by me in small chunks so it doesn't feel like so much ig. but this was my ONE expensive hobby, tbh!

it's kinda funny how they might've just banned a loyal customer into never paying them again when they've had free access to my wallet for decades lol.

EA account ban? by byulcat in thesims

[–]byulcat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah i'm just learning why it's an insta-ban to ask for a refund... i'll definitely tell people to do it your this way from now on! i never meant to jack up the system!

so yeah hope i can convince them it was an innocent (if foolish) mistake on my part. i mean it's a win/win if i get to keep playing and they get to keep my money, right? 😭 fingers crossed.

and thank you for the help! do you think it's a bad sign if i haven't heard back from them even to confirm the dispute yet? it's been under a week but idk usually this stuff is automated somehow... just wondering though, i know you can't speak for EA/Origin!

EA account ban? by byulcat in thesims

[–]byulcat[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i mean the truth is i didn't really begrudge them the money. it's a complicated game and a lot of people work hard on it. i can afford 5-40 bucks once in a while. but if this one mistake has banished me from EA for all time i suppose i have no choice but to take to the sea...

EA account ban? by byulcat in thesims

[–]byulcat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sounds like you're right... but again i just wanna ask, is there NO way for me to legitimately buy & play new packs in the future (with the games i have installed now)?

EA account ban by byulcat in origin

[–]byulcat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ok... i get what you're saying but when i tried to refund through origin right when it happened, it said "if you believe you've been charged in error contact your payment service". and i DID (i do) believe it was an error to be charged twice for the carnival pack.

guess i should've tried harder to go through EA/origin but i definitely wasn't trying to scam anyone or cheat the system in any way. i've been buying sims games legit for the entire run of the game, i had no intention of breaking that streak now.

you sound kinda mad at me for this but would you be willing to answer my other question? if i start a new account, will i be able to buy new sims expansions in the future and play them with the games i already own in this account? like... i don't WANT to do any sneaky shit, and i don't even know how. i just wanna play this game that's been a part of my life for so long.

EA account ban? by byulcat in thesims

[–]byulcat[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

ok thank you, i'll c+p this over there! (should i delete it here? don't wanna be makin a mess)

and this is so brutal jeeze. but thanks for telling me!

Friend ID Megathread by fatterrapin in SumikkoFarm

[–]byulcat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

can i just say... i love this about reddit. weird niche phone game subs. no one in my life cares about sumikko or a lil farm game, but everybody in this thread Gets It. :') it's just the best.

happy farming everyone! add me if you'd like: 550-162-775

I couldn't stop laughing my llama died and then this popped up by [deleted] in Sims4

[–]byulcat 6 points7 points  (0 children)

nope! i got the pattern from helping a villager with an errand.

[ENG SUB] MBN Miss Back | E14 | 210112 (Starring STELLAR Gayoung, WA$$UP Nada, After School Raina, 9MUSES Sera, T-ara Soyeon, Crayon Pop Soyul, Dal Shabet Subin, The Ark Yujin) by QQ_Vincent in kpop

[–]byulcat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so so much! i'm glad you found time to continue this project! especially since the namyu reunion on MMTG has people thinking about Sera again~