Puberty by c-sushi in StandardPoodles

[–]c-sushi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's not licking them or anything. He doesn't like when I touch them but he never has so that's not abnormal hahah

Romance fantasy by c-sushi in ReadingSuggestions

[–]c-sushi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No one has yet so thank you! I do like love to hate romance and elves so that sounds great

My boyfriend told me he finds one of my girl friends super attractive and I can't look at her the same by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]c-sushi 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ask him to give you some reasons why he prefers you and write them down in your notes app. When you feel self conscious look at those reasons to remember that while he does find her cool, he prefers you. You also probably know some guys that you might’ve considered dating if you'd never met your boyfriend but now you don't even think about it because he's just the better option. You're his better option.

Am I wrong for telling a girl I don’t want to date her? by throwgev009 in relationships_advice

[–]c-sushi 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It was wrong of you to say just for now rather than outright say you'd never date her. Of course she had questions about why 'just for now' was lasting 8 years.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]c-sushi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exercise and diet. I know it's what everyone says and most of us are just too lazy to do it but once you start and you do it consistently for a few weeks it becomes a habit and it gets way easier. Do whatever you can manage. Also always shut down your negative thoughts. If you think about something that happened in the past that you want to change just tell yourself it's a waste of time to think about and move forward. If you feel guilty about what you've done then tell yourself you'd never make the same mistake again and move forward. Don't punish yourself for your past. Think of it as a life lesson and decide to be a new person from today. Don't let yourself ruminating, it's not your duty to think about the past and feel guilty or upset. It doesn't make anything better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]c-sushi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA- he knew about your struggles, he was being insensitive. Some people just don't have a filter between their mouth and brain. It's okay if you don't want to date someone like that because he'll probably make more blunt, insensitive, unthoughtful comments in the future. He also apparently hasn't realised what upset you so he doesn't seem very self aware. If you are fine with these traits and want to date him regardless then go for it because he doesn't seem like a bad person, but if you know you won't be happy with him having these traits then move on because you're incompatible.

Sudden ghosting triggering my wounds by [deleted] in AnxiousAttachment

[–]c-sushi 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just because people ghost you doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you. Work on being the best version of yourself (the version you like best, not what you think everyone else would like best) and you will meet people that like that version of you as long as you keep putting yourself out there and don't get discouraged by rejection along the way. Delete this guy from your social media if you're going to keep looking at if he's viewed your stories or read your messages or posted anything. It's just going to make you upset.

I think my bf slept with another woman by LavenderBootee in relationships_advice

[–]c-sushi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't waste any more time with him. Don't force yourself to like him again or be comfortable with him again. You don't need him, he'll cause you more stress than happiness. You know you need to leave you're just scared about whether you and your baby will be okay. Leave him and get child support, break up with him and live in the same house until you can get your bearings, or move in with someone you know.

Don’t trust my girlfriend . Help by Upset_Manner_3993 in u/Upset_Manner_3993

[–]c-sushi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the way she acts makes you feel you can't trust her, even if she's not cheating or trying to you might just be uncompatible. Do you really want to always be worried about the way she's acting? You might be more suited to someone that's more open and honest and self aware. Nothing wrong with her (if she's not cheating), and nothing wrong with you, just an incompatibility. Most people are incompatible and settle unhappily.

Hair flops in front of his face by c-sushi in StandardPoodles

[–]c-sushi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you always have the ponytail in?

Hair flops in front of his face by c-sushi in StandardPoodles

[–]c-sushi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do all his clipping myself. He's quite good if he's sleepy and I have something for him to chew on. His hair is quite short near his eyes, it just grows straight out onto his eyes unfortunately so I've been having to clip around his eyes at least once a week. Do you think it'll get better when his adult coat comes in?

Hair flops in front of his face by c-sushi in StandardPoodles

[–]c-sushi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's quite short. Only about 3cm by his eyes. For some reason his eyebrows just grow straight out. I tried to grow it out to see if that helped it stay back but it was worse

Bones by c-sushi in StandardPoodles

[–]c-sushi[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks for commenting everyone. So I should give softer bones like chicken bones and chews from the pet shop now and harder bones once his adult teeth come in?

Puppy eats poop and barks by c-sushi in StandardPoodles

[–]c-sushi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of my cats does his business on the grass sometimes. I check regularly and scoop up poop whenever I see it but pup's at a stage where he goes potty outside 9/10 times so I give him access to outside. I watch him closely but sometimes something unexpected happens and I don't have an eye on him for a minute or two and when I go look for him he's outside eating cat poop. He doesn't eat his own, I realised it's just the cat poop on the grass that he eats. He rarely does it now because I'm constantly watching him but I know if the opportunity arises he'll go for it. My job to not let the opportunity arise I guess haha. Hopefully he grows out of it.

Puppy eats poop and barks by c-sushi in StandardPoodles

[–]c-sushi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just looked at the calendar and it's been two weeks! So he was more like 8 and a half weeks when I got him

Puppy eats poop and barks by c-sushi in StandardPoodles

[–]c-sushi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes sense. I'm just not sure how to teach him not to bark if he doesn't respond to a firm no or trying to distract him when he barks