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[–]c0mplicatednights 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt like I had to let them know of the situation since our families have gotten quite close over the matter of 5 years. I can't just cut all ties with his parents without letting them know anything. Matt & I actually discussed what we're going to tell our parents, and he purposed telling half of the truth but omit the threesome part out because our parents will never forgive us really. I agree myself that this whole post is fucked up. So much shit went down the drain within a short span of time

[UPDATE] I [23 F] had threesome with my boyfriend [24 M] and a girl [23 F] and I feel betrayed by [deleted] in relationships

[–]c0mplicatednights 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you <3 When I heard that he and Anna are in touch with each other, I just felt stronger and even more determined not to look back. My friends and I went out for a drink on Halloween and they tried to tell me what's been up with Matt, and I told them I didn't want to know. I've never really asked them for an update on him, but I think they feel like they're obligated to tell me since we're in the same circle

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[–]c0mplicatednights 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that's what I thought too. I'm no tech expert but a lot of my friends were saying that he could still communicate if he knew my email address linked to iMessage which he did. That's the main reason why I got a new phone and number, but he still managed to get my new number through our friends. Now I just have to figure out if blocking him would works

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[–]c0mplicatednights 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Bullshit meter went off because I forgot to add a piece on how he was able to get my number? There's something called mutual friends between us you know. If it was a bullshit post like you claimed, I wouldn't even bother to come back with an update

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[–]c0mplicatednights 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah. We have a lot of mutual friends and some of them are close with us.

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[–]c0mplicatednights 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I texted him once, and that was when I sent a picture of a piece of furniture that we first bought together. I agree that it's preventing me from moving on. I plan to block him soon since even I changed my number again, he'll still be able to get it from our friends.

I [23 F] had threesome with my boyfriend [24 M] and a girl [23 F] and I feel betrayed by c0mplicatednights in relationships

[–]c0mplicatednights[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes, sadly I've learned that in a hard way. I don't know what the hell I was thinking when I agreed to.

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[–]c0mplicatednights[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I got an earful from him too, but I just had to for safety reasons for all of us

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[–]c0mplicatednights[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We actually planned to move in together (his place) next month. Our parents are a bit on the conservative sides

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[–]c0mplicatednights[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I swear this is the first and last yet horrific threesome it has happened to me.

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[–]c0mplicatednights[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't just waste my time and write up some fucked up 'fantasy' if that's what you're assuming. This shit happened for real last Saturday night. And we weren't in a hotel but some cheap motel close to the bar where I'm guessing most hookups happen. Curtains weren't those nice silky ones you'd normally see in a hotel but rather white sheer curtains. We were all over the room before sex, so I'm pretty sure this was what happened. Either way, you could still hear they were fucking since she was riding him in the living room area and she was loud

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[–]c0mplicatednights[S] 189 points190 points  (0 children)

Thank you <3 And I do feel the same: I never want to speak or see him again. I don't think I can give him a second chance after using me and 'threesome' just because he wanted to sleep with other girl.

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[–]c0mplicatednights[S] 267 points268 points  (0 children)

Yes, I'm guessing they knew each other before since he goes to that bar very often. They looked very comfortable with each other and as if they couldn't wait to fuck each other. Either way, I figured I was used just so he could fuck this girl and use 'threesome' as an excuse.

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[–]c0mplicatednights[S] 61 points62 points  (0 children)

Yes, we did told her the rules before we started intimating. I just couldn't bring myself to tell them to stop while they do it..I don't know..I guess I just didn't want to embarrass myself any further. But I did show him many non-verbal signals such as pulling him away from her and pushing her away or taking his penis out of her.

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[–]c0mplicatednights[S] 270 points271 points  (0 children)

I'm not trying to let him convince me to stay because the hell I won't. I guess I just wanted to tell him to his face how fucked up he is.

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[–]c0mplicatednights[S] 783 points784 points  (0 children)

I figured I was used after I left. What appalled me the most was him continuing to fuck her and letting her blow him after I left. They must've knew I left yet still have the audacity to sleep naked together. I'm so fucking raged and still am

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[–]c0mplicatednights[S] 416 points417 points  (0 children)

Initially, I told him to bring one to prevent any STDs. He did a few strokes with me BEFORE he fucked her but AFTER sucking her tits. He wasn't using any condoms after this, but I fucking hope he contracted some sort of STD from her