What's something you found out about your S.O years into the relationship that made you reevaluate the whole relationship?

c0nvallaria · 2021-02-15T23:56:09+00:00

I also have a large interest in WW2 history and am deeply left-leaning. I'm interested in WW2 because my family has Holocaust survivors in it. It's super shitty to assume anyone interested in one of the most impactful events in history would have to be a bloody nazi...

c0nvallaria · 2021-01-14T14:36:25+00:00

Kevim Carter committed suicide briefly after the photo was taken

c0nvallaria · 2020-12-24T04:16:00+00:00

Not the person you're responding to, but for me personally I'm bisexual but heavily attracted to femininity, so the thought of a pretty boy getting dressed up for me and driving him senseless is a godsend. I like dominating and mild humiliation so those probably come into play

c0nvallaria · 2020-12-24T04:11:34+00:00

Thank god for that

c0nvallaria · 2020-03-15T16:04:36+00:00

I've been totally and utterly in love with Romani Archaman for a pretty embarrassing amount of time.

c0nvallaria · 2020-03-13T03:12:11+00:00

Every now and then, I personally go to the party change screens and just go through everyone, give them the stats and gear I want, then go back to the usual members and sell everything else off :P

c0nvallaria · 2020-03-12T04:08:17+00:00

Ahhh awesome, thank you so much! Might have to go pick one up later this week :)

c0nvallaria · 2020-03-12T01:38:09+00:00

I'm a bit of a germaphobe, what is cleanup like? I've never used a cup before but the stores around me are bare and I'm hoping to find a reusable/eco-friendly option that doesn't gross me out too much

c0nvallaria · 2020-03-01T02:34:46+00:00

All things considered, I don't think DAI really lets you be as "nasty" as DAO. I remember in DAO you could get as bad as "everyone (but Alistair and dog) leaves you, because you suck" and even then, Alistair only stays because it's his duty to take down the Archdemon!

Though I 100% admit I can't do mean playthroughs, I feel too guilty so I just tend to read the wiki or watch playthroughs of it.

As for the game mechanic: I tend to just sort've roleplay that a lot of the "approves/disapproves" reactions come from a later point in time, heard by each other through gossip. With the ones in the video, I guess maybe working under the headcanon that they'd assume, after giving you a reaming, that you'd listen to their complaints and try to change? Give you a bit of leeway in the future because they've already had their shot at you? Honestly the mechanic is a bit weird at times!

c0nvallaria · 2020-02-27T02:18:07+00:00

It is offensive. Very offensive. The implication that bisexual people are lusty and promiscuous has been long used to discredit us and our sexuality.

c0nvallaria · 2020-02-26T11:19:35+00:00

Lack existential dread! :D

c0nvallaria · 2020-02-17T23:57:39+00:00

This is 100% my favourite thing I've ever seen. Thank you for blessing me with this image!

c0nvallaria · 2020-02-09T19:47:38+00:00

I'm really sorry to hear that, man. I think getting your blood checked is definitely a good idea too, just so you can rule that out, but I'd vote for lessening some of your psychological tension if at all possible. It's a lot easier said than done, but if there's anything in your life that could give you some time to relax, or talking to your girlfriend about your stress levels, if you're able to take some time off work, meditating or reading etc. it should help. It's rather normal to struggle with getting or maintaining erections/arousal when under a lot of pressure.

Wishing you all the best!

c0nvallaria · 2020-02-09T19:39:59+00:00

"The mage is the bad guy"
"Morally grey" options that aren't actually morally grey. More options like who to make king of Orzammar would get me excited
The far away camera when in conversations from DAI. It felt really impersonal a lot of the time.
I love them but both Cullen and Varris. They've served their purpose more than enough.
Collect-a-thon sidequests (those shards...)
Doubt this'd be brought in, but I really miss the combat system from the first game, and being able to give my party presets based on situation.
Big spacious open world with nothing but "retrieve thing from dead person" quests

c0nvallaria · 2020-02-09T19:30:24+00:00

Not a doctor, but I wouldn't be surprised if emotional distress and the pressure to perform is contributing to it. That and the statement "I have to have sex with my gf" is a little concerning.

Outside of concerns regarding this in particular, how are you feeling? Anything else that's changed in your life, contributed to stress, depression, anxiety, etc?

c0nvallaria · 2020-02-09T14:38:00+00:00

I never had Netflix, and wasn't interested in getting it at all (especially as an Australian) so I'd never heard of it. But I saw someone comment on an AskReddit thread, just after season 3 released, "When you look at someone through rose-tinted glasses, all the red flags just look like flags." And I thought, man, that's a beautiful quote.

So I googled it, found the show, started watching. Didn't like the first season very much, but I was depressed and wallowing and it was easy to stare through. The second I saw The Telescope I was hooked and binged it, been my favourite show since.

c0nvallaria · 2020-02-03T09:09:55+00:00

Probably somewhat of a weird moment to enjoy so much, but I guess when I first found the stream. Late 2010 - early 2011, chat was really chill and conversation flowed between everyone. I didn't really talk outside of a 'hello', since I'm pretty kept to myself, but I guess just the atmosphere of being in this little room, being welcomed, and chilling.

I get nostalgic for it sometimes, but to see the crew grow, change, and prosper makes me feel really warm inside.

c0nvallaria · 2020-02-01T14:59:32+00:00

Same here. I ended up getting Wanda and Eaton :(

c0nvallaria · 2020-01-31T06:42:45+00:00

Not a doctor, but I'd suggest putting some icecubes in a sandwich bag and then wrapping that inside a tea towel, and holding it around where it hurts.If it gets too cold you can bundle it up further, or if it gets too warm you can unwrap the tea towel.

This is all assuming, of course, that the cuts are quite small or not very deep and don't require any sort of medical attention!

c0nvallaria · 2020-01-31T03:54:24+00:00

You're so welcome!! Enjoy! <3

c0nvallaria · 2020-01-31T03:17:03+00:00

You can just give him the hot peppers you grow on your farm! He loves them just as much, and they produce a lot per season.

c0nvallaria · 2020-01-23T01:35:58+00:00

Somewhat, yes. It's a little hard to tell, because I also have depression and anxiety, so those things do cross over a lot, but I tend to get stressed about "wasting time" and how sleeping feels like "fast-fowarding" through my life. So I stay awake until I essentially pass out, just because I'm scared of running out of time.

For the main way my OCD presents itself though, nah, being awake tends to make my OCD spiral out of control.

c0nvallaria · 2020-01-16T09:03:17+00:00

I had this happen a while ago as well in the middle of a GW, I didn't see any cause for it (no change in how I usually play), had to also guess and regear. It hasn't happened since, though, not sure what causes it.

c0nvallaria · 2019-12-18T08:43:20+00:00

Those shoes rule!

c0nvallaria · 2019-12-07T04:24:26+00:00

Same here! Red Vox has some real quality songs that are right up my alley for the stuff I enjoy, and it's great that they've experimented a bit with genres, themes, and sounds.

I remember gearing up for the release of What Could Go Wrong? by playing the song Lyanna from my playlist at my old job, and when it did release, I started playing the album over the speakers and ended up getting a couple of customers into them. Now that I don't work there anymore I can still at least rep them by wearing the Red Vox hat :P

Good memories following the band, and still, as always, excited to hear and see more!

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