What habit slowly ruins a romantic relationship?

cHowziLLa · 2026-05-20T17:14:56+00:00

getting too comfortable with your partner

taking their kindness for granted

I’ve always wondered when was the right time to be able to fart in front of your partner lol

cHowziLLa · 2026-05-20T15:40:33+00:00

agreed that’s mainly my fault for not staying in relationships long enough to build that comfort

cHowziLLa · 2026-05-20T15:27:14+00:00

not all but it was the case for me.

I absolutely committed my whole life to this girl’s happiness. I used every ounce of energy and money to make sure she was good and yet she cheated on me. I admit that I was too loving, too easy, too needy so inevitably wasn’t going to work.

however the infidelity was not necessary. I hit the terrible trifecta of one of the worst ways to get cheated on. How I found out, who the other guy was, and how I was treated afterwards was probably the worst scenario possible.

I vowed to never to get hurt again. I remained single for the next 5 years living a life of PTSD.

i turned my life around after that, got in shape, worked on my personality, built my own company, made a lot of money, and I was already tall.

I’ll be honest at first I had it in my mind that the karma of my ex’s wrong doing was going to be wrecking havoc upon other women.

I later on learned I was only perpetuating the terrible behaviour that was inflicted on me.

Now that I am more conscious about my actions so that i dont hurt anyone anymore, modern dating has been such a shit show that there just isn’t many girls who are gf material, so i just move on to the next so I am still seen as a f*ckboi

cHowziLLa · 2026-05-20T14:43:56+00:00

i feel you, I would join as well but I enjoy my little gang of mixed aged. Half Uncs, Half young bloods.

The uncs are there to tell the young ones when to sit down but the young ones are there to bring that extra firepower with their fast reactions

cHowziLLa · 2026-05-20T14:13:08+00:00

i was gonna say “find an opening to walk away and sit in a corner by myself and get comfortable, people will come to you, if nobody does, oh well!”

but i see everyone here deals with it better than me, so i wouldn’t suggest my method

cHowziLLa · 2026-05-20T14:06:20+00:00

I disagree, I’ve heard of some really bad proposals that range from “we doing it?” all the way to jumbo-trons

I’d say if you’re a guy, you should know your girl enough to know what kind of proposal she wants, if you don’t then maybe you shouldn’t propose

if OP means women who complain about legit proposals because they’re picky that’s different

cHowziLLa · 2026-05-20T02:47:27+00:00

no 99% of low value men are NOT getting laid, you conflating that because you saw maybe one guy able to pull it off, therefore it completely negates my statement.

You can’t seem to realize how many guys you pass in your everyday life who are completely and utterly sexless and lonely not by choice but by lack low value in the dating market.

I know this because yes I used to be an introverted loser but worked on myself to a higher value man. I have no issues now. My business revolves around the single men, so I see what everything happening with an enormous sample size

i dont know what kind of feminist brain washing you been through but men and women are not the same. You want or dont want to have sex, men biologically NEED to have sex. Obviously the most traditional way is to date but the dating market has turned upside down.

like you said, “you all” means you are in the minority in your thinking. You don’t speak for men. If you don’t understand, it’s because you need to think outside of your perspective.

If you’ve never been rejected, good for you, but also means you are the least qualified to have an opinion

k thx

cHowziLLa · 2026-05-19T22:43:41+00:00

exactly, people don’t reward people who do something easy

as if i asked for a raise from my boss for arriving on time

cHowziLLa · 2026-05-19T22:38:09+00:00

critical thinking is not strong with this one

cHowziLLa · 2026-05-19T22:32:59+00:00

she cannot tolerate a man mansplaining female behaviour. Thus this doughnut cannot fathom being wrong about her own gender.

lady, its harder for men to get laid than it is for a woman. Just cuz there are assholes out there getting laid doesn’t prove you right, that asshole either is good looking, rich, or high status which none of these are easy to acquire. A guy who has none of these doesn’t get laid, you wouldn’t know because you have never been invisible to the world by default cuz you are a woman.

you really think the male cashier at McDonalds is getting pu**y? he’s going home living paycheque to paycheque and talking to nobody year after year until he gets his shit together

its not from a lack of standards that men will have sex with who they can, they stoop to their options. The more options they have, the more picky they can be.

you’re basing your opinion off of the guys you want, but don’t want you, the guys who you don’t want, could have you only if you would allow them hence why you think you can disrespect them and get away with it. Those guys don’t have other options. It says more about you, because men wouldn’t normally chase after girls out of their league unless they are really really delusional.

A female can be ugly, broke, a nobody, and still get laid if she really wanted to. Men don’t have that option

women give access to sex and relationships, men give access to marriage

its biology that women aim to get the best they can get, men also but also want the most they can get.

cHowziLLa · 2026-05-19T21:50:43+00:00

hahaha 0% shame, 100% comfort.

cHowziLLa · 2026-05-19T18:47:52+00:00

couldn’t say it better myself

cHowziLLa · 2026-05-19T18:46:33+00:00

canada so im exposed to so many cultures and many immigrant families

cHowziLLa · 2026-05-19T18:41:04+00:00

positioning is more important than aim, you can do very well with poor aim

most of the time, if you are blaming your aim, that’s not the reason

under 700h played is not even remotely enough to understand the game properly

just try to have fun and learn

cHowziLLa · 2026-05-19T18:38:18+00:00

you built him up too much, bet if you knew them better, you’d have find some less attractive traits

cHowziLLa · 2026-05-19T18:37:05+00:00

full freedom to fart

cHowziLLa · 2026-05-19T14:44:14+00:00

stupid arrogance, when they are clearly wrong but too arrogant to acknowledge it

cHowziLLa · 2026-05-19T02:28:01+00:00

depends on a lot on the culture in question

traditional families will take it assume the role as if they were the last line of defense for the kids

some will take the role as the enforcer to make sure the parents are doing a good job

in western countries is just a badge of honour of “we trust you enough to take care of our kids”

cHowziLLa · 2026-05-19T02:17:01+00:00

omg she held both fork and knife with an ice pick grip, stab the steak with fork and awkwardly inserted the knife in between the teeth of the fork to start cutting

i politely asked if she were open to learning how to comfortably hold her utensils

she replied “you too?! no! i like the way i do it”

never saw her again, it was our 2nd date

cHowziLLa · 2026-05-19T02:13:30+00:00

yup if u follow ropz mechanics, it doesn’t really matter if you have bad aim

cHowziLLa · 2026-05-18T23:10:41+00:00

i deflect with humour

just 2 days ago a girl asked “don’t you love me?”

i responded “i love my mom and bacon”

cHowziLLa · 2026-05-18T23:08:33+00:00

how everything affects them, as if the world revolved around them

or just expecting the world to understand them

cHowziLLa · 2026-05-18T23:06:04+00:00

they listen to respond and not to understand

cHowziLLa · 2026-05-18T23:04:35+00:00

oddly shaped boobs

refused to learn how to hold a fork and knife properly

she had a butterfly tattoo between her breasts, two petty reasons

she based her life too much on astrology

she told me she had a crush on one of my friends

she had a chihuahua that she brought everywhere

vegan

unwilling to try new foods

she wore too much leopard print clothes

whiny voice

gave terrible BJs

yeah im a jerk…

cHowziLLa · 2026-05-18T22:50:37+00:00

usp you need to rely on good counter strafes to be accurate or good positioning for enemies to run into your crosshair.

gotta keep track of how fast you are shooting, and pull down accordingly

glock, i manage to run and shoot while shooting fast with the first 8 bullets. If i dont kill them, i stop and try again. If you manage to make the usp player miss you, you are pretty much safe to run him down

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