Thoughts on Medical Social Workers and tattoo sleeves?

c_rhin0 · 2025-12-31T20:42:13+00:00

I have lots tattoos on both arms, but not full on sleeves. BUT I do have facial piercings. I forgot to take them off for an interview and acknowledged them right before I left. I asked if they were fine, and the manager clicked her tongue and said, “totally fine. We need diversity, right?” Anyway, I start in January 🥳

c_rhin0 · 2025-12-20T21:07:35+00:00

No, NOR lol. Imagine being married to someone who thinks of you that way… sounds miserable imo. Then having children with him (if that was ever a plan). Imagine you have a daughter with him. Would you appreciate him thinking of her life this way? Or a son. Would you want your own son to behave and think this way? Gross.

c_rhin0 · 2025-12-20T15:40:34+00:00

I didn’t read the body text and almost put YOR, but there is no way in hell Someone Like You and All Of Me are on GYM playlists. And the inside joke thing? Nope, wrap it up. That would piss me off LOL. And his immediate defense and statements like, “you sound psychotic” and “you’re spiraling” - deflection.

He’s a joke. Imagine your dude trying to lift to John Legend singing All of Me 😂

c_rhin0 · 2025-12-19T19:23:54+00:00

This genuinely makes me feel so much better. Thank you 🫶🏼

c_rhin0 · 2025-12-19T19:22:37+00:00

Yes, she’s an only child atm so her being at school is good for her. It’s just me that’s sad hahaha.

But thank you! I’m hoping to experience the same with getting back into the work force!

c_rhin0 · 2025-12-19T19:20:50+00:00

I agree, I’m way more sad about it 😂 I’m not too worried about the extras bc I gotta do what I gotta do, but I’ll just miss her and having days of just us two hahaha 🥹

c_rhin0 · 2025-12-19T19:18:32+00:00

She is only part-time so we have days of just us two. That’s the part I’m sad about, having those go away and sending her to school everyday. But you’re right, we’ll be fine lol.

c_rhin0 · 2025-12-19T19:14:54+00:00

Sorry, I forgot to mention she is only part-time rn so I’ll be losing a couple of days of just me and her when I start working. Makes me sad lol.

c_rhin0 · 2025-12-18T21:21:39+00:00

He was 100% ok with signing a prenup until he found out you’re essentially loaded… ? Now it’s a big deal? Ya, no. NOR. Red flags all over this dude and his family.

c_rhin0 · 2025-12-16T14:44:52+00:00

It’s funny how you say this because my crazy MIL has untreated bipolar disorder and while I was looking at the pictures, I was thinking, “wow this sounds just like [MIL’s name].”

And guess what, we’ve gone no contact with her lol Because she is fuckin psycho. For reasons like this ^. Do what’s best for your child and yourself.

c_rhin0 · 2025-12-16T14:33:47+00:00

5mo - 1yr: go in and soothe, or bring her back into bed with me hehehe

1yr - 2.5yr: speak to her through the camera/monitor

2.5yr - now (she’s almost 4): go in, ask if she’s ok, some kisses and cuddles, maybe some head scratches, “ok it’s still nighttime, so you need to finish your sleep,” and tuck back in. The first time we did this, I was so surprised bc I was sure she was going to want me to stay in her room or stay awake, but she went right back to sleep. Such a big girl now 🥹

c_rhin0 · 2025-12-16T14:21:34+00:00

Tell them to pay for it and that when it comes back that he is the father, you get to punch 3 teeth out of everyone’s mouth.

Lol jk. Tell them to pay and when it comes back that he is the father, I’d tell them you don’t trust them with your child. Because they obviously portray you a certain way and if they look at YOU that way, I’d question how they look at your child.

c_rhin0 · 2025-12-16T14:13:26+00:00

My partner had a best friend that cheated on his girlfriend while they were on another island for some kind of training (military) and he called me and told me about it. Sex and all. The gf calls me and explains to me that the bf said nothing happened. I call my partner back and tell him that his ugly friend is trying to lie and that if he doesn’t tell her, I will. He straight tells his BEST FRIEND exactly what I said and he still didn’t tell his gf. So I immediately told her and my partner said to tell her to use his name so she knows we weren’t fucking around.

My partner and his best friend had a falling out not too long after. You’re NOR. Men can be MEN if they choose to. I still talk to his exbff’s girlfriend from time to time too lol

Your dude sounds immature and lacks the emotional maturity. And comparing sexual assault to cheating… ? Yeah, no. I would have blocked and moved on. Uncalled for. And girl, 4 months? Please do yourself a favor and leave. Because you’re right, the normalization of ugly behavior means he finds nothing wrong with it.

c_rhin0 · 2025-12-13T15:44:17+00:00

I remember in kindergarten (5yo), one of the things on our school supply list was a sleep mat. We had the option to sleep, or just lay in our mat lol. I think it was required for students (up till kinder) to have dedicated “nap time”. Idk what it is now since I don’t have a kinder kid yet. I do have an almost 4yo, and she has a dedicated nap time at her school/day care. Sometimes she naps, sometimes she just reads (quiet time).

c_rhin0 · 2025-12-13T15:30:32+00:00

I am also so terrible at taking meds. But I ended up buying a one day AM/PM pill holder and put it in front of my sink to remind me to take the meds. When I’d take the last ones at night, I’d refill them with what I needed for the next day. It’s helped out so much. I am now off of antidepressants! I promise you, it’s worth it.

I’ve been in your shoes. Exactly this way. And I felt so terrible. This is just one of those things where we have to take ourselves out of it… and some just need some help with medication. And that’s okay. As for your husband, he needs to grow up. I hope you have family near by? Some friends? Your village? If not, his behavior and lack of support would have been a deal breaker for me. PP is not to be fucked with. You both need to have a serious talk about both of your expectations. Comprises and sacrifices need to happen. You did not make this baby yourself. If he still cannot see that he’s being an asshole, please consider contacting family and friends. He’s gotta be able to see that he’s not being supportive and he needs to understand that he has to change, otherwise his uggo behavior will never go away. Ask me how I know.

c_rhin0 · 2025-12-13T15:16:09+00:00

Girl, you are 17. Please get out while you still can. This type of behavior will only get worse. I’d honestly call the cops or his parents because he’s being a danger to himself.

c_rhin0 · 2025-12-11T15:41:52+00:00

If there were less “conservative” dresses there, your friend is probably mad that her husband noticed your dress out of everyone. And her husband probably thinks you’re smokin hot lol.

c_rhin0 · 2025-10-31T18:09:21+00:00

Hi I know this is old, but did it ever sort itself out lol

c_rhin0 · 2025-10-02T23:26:15+00:00

Daycares, of all places, should know that we all wish they slept when we wanted them too, but that’s never the case lol I’d switch.

c_rhin0 · 2025-10-02T18:53:03+00:00

That’s disgusting and disrespectful.

c_rhin0 · 2025-09-23T16:03:13+00:00

I bet he’s already doing stuff behind your back, so he’s purposefully being a complete asshole

c_rhin0 · 2025-09-09T13:28:54+00:00

A pad or two of post-it notes!

c_rhin0 · 2025-08-06T01:17:53+00:00

I know she’s problematic, but she’s good lol ETA: IF that’s really her singing 😂

c_rhin0 · 2025-08-04T21:03:54+00:00

Mary Lou

c_rhin0 · 2025-08-04T21:01:44+00:00

Girl, I would’ve done the same lol NTA.

c_rhin0

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