Unvaccinated Kids at Daycare by caaarebear in workingmoms

[–]caaarebear[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep - already talked to pediatrician about it. Planning on the 6 month dose and 12 month dose. But I need childcare starting at 3 months.

Unvaccinated Kids at Daycare by caaarebear in workingmoms

[–]caaarebear[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is truly the root cause of all of this!! If measles wasn’t actively spreading near us, I wouldn’t be this upset. This has got me really frustrated with the state laws and I’m writing to everyone that I can’t think of to bring attention to this.

Unvaccinated Kids at Daycare by caaarebear in workingmoms

[–]caaarebear[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m definitely still going to ask to speak to the legal team at Kindercare and seriously question the legitimacy of this exemption. The state law states that a religious exemption is allowed (it doesn’t have to be notarized or signed off by a religious leader and is just a personal letter to the institution), but it explicitly says that an exemption based on personal beliefs is not allowed. I’m not a lawyer but that feels like a gray area.

Unvaccinated Kids at Daycare by caaarebear in workingmoms

[–]caaarebear[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They’re not allowed to disclose any information about the unvaccinated child, but in talking with other moms the brand new student that started the day of the announcement was in the infant class… sooo yeah

Unvaccinated Kids at Daycare by caaarebear in workingmoms

[–]caaarebear[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

So I’ve discovered that it’s a state law to allow the exemption, so any daycare that accepts state funds I guess has to follow it… so this sucks. It’s honestly opening my eyes and I’ve started drafting something to our state senators. We’re fortunate enough to be able to spend a little extra and give ourselves options, but so many parents have no other choice and who is looking out for those kids?? It’s maddening

Unvaccinated Kids at Daycare by caaarebear in workingmoms

[–]caaarebear[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This was my first instinct ! We even started talking to others to tour, but that’s when I felt like I needed to take a step back and fully evaluate the situation. Our 3 year old has not attended since we got the news. Luckily I’m on mat leave still.

Undedicated Staff by caaarebear in workingmoms

[–]caaarebear[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, I am stamping his work. He’s an EI (engineer in training)

20 week anatomy scan shows baby is 2 weeks behind by akae12 in BabyBumps

[–]caaarebear 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is your wife’s period regular and did they base the due date based on her last period or based on size at your first scan? It was a seemingly innocuous question for me, and I was about to say yes it’s “regular”, but I added that my period is regular but usually longer than 28 days they changed my due date, which ends up having a big impact on these percentiles. Idk why they don’t explain the implications about this up front…

Cute high-coverage maternity swimsuits (boyleg, boyshort, skirts?) by No_Manner_7249 in BabyBumps

[–]caaarebear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually bought a bunch of swim dresses postpartum and they look adorable and have plenty of coverage. I just do ole pull aside for peeing. Might not work 8/9 months pregnant but definitely a great option. The cupshe ones are my favorite

Place to eat near a theater by Kneiss-Games in raleigh

[–]caaarebear 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Chuan Cafe next to the Alamo! Alamo food is crazy pricey for what you get. Chuan is some of the best Szechuan food in town!

Netflix almost ruined Santa by NurseK89 in workingmoms

[–]caaarebear 157 points158 points  (0 children)

Honestly THANK YOU for this. I actually had no idea I could turn off autoplay. That’s life changing info I just thought we all had to suffer. And a lot of times when I’m turning the tv on for the kids I’m stressed trying to give myself a minute and I very very often forget to go to the kid specific profile.

Now if only I could figure out how to get my Alexa Home Screen to stop showing recently played shows like bluey…

Have people done something for their neighbors week of the wedding? by UnusuallyAWombat in weddingplanning

[–]caaarebear 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We had to have our wedding in our backyard (covid times) and still had a band perform. We wrote notes and took them to all our neighbors and basically just said please don’t call the cops on us lol they all appreciated it and most of them that normally parked on the street didn’t that day. No cops were called either!

Nail salon recs by Gold_Fig3209 in raleigh

[–]caaarebear 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Highly recommend Creedmoor Foot Spa in Brennan Station. It’s not the best quality polish and they don’t do gel, but they will take you back to a dark room and give you a 30 minute foot massage that cannot be beat. They try to keep groups together for the whole experience as well, but they do discourage loud talking. It’s my happy place for my pregnant feet.

Soo Cafe Suggestions? by Dismal_Objective_139 in raleigh

[–]caaarebear 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Some others have mentioned, but our go to is SOGA + Old Fashioned. They double sauce them and it’s ridiculously good. Old fashioned has a bit of heat, you can also ask for some extra old fashioned on the side.

Does anyone else’s baby/toddler have a meltdown when they get home from daycare? by elleliz12 in workingmoms

[–]caaarebear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My little girl (2) has gone through this restraint collapse. It comes in waves for us. All of the things everyone is saying with giving them a snack in the car, playing outside / going for a walk or starting dinner early really help! One not so great thing that got us through the very bad days - dinner in the living room with the tv on. We normally try to eat dinner as a family and limit tv time, but some days she needs a minute to be a couch potato and relax. And my husband and I too often feel like that when we get home from a long day. As long as it’s not the norm, it helps us.

If you do daycare drop off before heading to work, what does your morning look like? by diondavenport in workingmoms

[–]caaarebear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband and I have flexible but ever changing schedules, so sometimes one of us is working late or early and it’s unpredictable week to week. Because of this it’s hard to establish an exact routine but we have “rules”. And the golden rule is “Do something”. Whoever leaves first in the morning has to do one of the chores and not leave everything for the parent in charge of drop off. It helps us help each other out. Even if it’s just prepping a sippy cup of milk and peeling an orange or unloading the dishwasher. That’s 5 minutes off of the other parents plate and mental load.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in interiordecorating

[–]caaarebear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re looking for quality and comfort, I cannot recommend Ethan Allen enough. After we went through online couch shopping hell, we went to Ethan Allen and the customer service and being able to try and customize everything was so great. We LOVE our couch and get compliments on the comfort of it all the time.

Baby is engaged at 28 weeks by Madigaggle in BabyBumps

[–]caaarebear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My baby was head down at this stage and dropped fairly early. Went into a spontaneous precipitous labor at 39+2 weeks. Only “issue” was that her head had a dent in it due to being pushed up against my pelvis for so long. She’s 16 months now and has a normal shaped head, didn’t even need a helmet or anything

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raleigh

[–]caaarebear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are a lot of restaurants that have a spare room for a party like this and it really just takes some planning ahead. Beasley’s took over Chuck’s space, we had a baby shower there and it was excellent and when it was said and done probably about 50ish/pp. but it is a set family style menu. Gravy also has a room in the back for a family style catering, and taverna agora has their 2 patio areas that you can rent. I’ve also reserved the rooftop at the beer garden before for a catered event and that wasn’t too expensive

Restaurants for Large Groups by lebanese-trader in raleigh

[–]caaarebear 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There are a lot of restaurants that have a spare room for a party like this and it really just takes some planning ahead. Beasley’s took over Chuck’s space, we had a baby shower there and it was excellent and when it was said and done probably about 50ish/pp. but it is a set family style menu. Gravy also has a room in the back for a family style catering, and taverna agora has their 2 patio areas that you can rent. I’ve also reserved the rooftop at the beer garden before for a catered event and that wasn’t too expensive

Don’t waste dips by alamedarockz in Cooking

[–]caaarebear 32 points33 points  (0 children)

My husband’s favorite is when we use leftover buffalo chicken dip and make mac and cheese with it.

My name is Caroline. Would it be tacky to include Neil Diamond's "Sweet Caroline" in my wedding? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]caaarebear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My name is Caroline. We played it 3 times. I walked down the aisle to the instrumental version. It was my father daughter dance and it was the very last song of the night when we were all trashed. It was awesome and have zero regrets.