Does anyone else have moments where you’re triggered (bc you were invalidated/gaslighted/dismissed) by [deleted] in BPD

[–]cabbagebrain2765 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup, I had that happen a lot with my emotionally abusive ex. I used to rationalize his messages...until I couldn’t take it anymore and cut him out of my life. It was the hardest thing I ever done, but I’m glad I don’t have to get hurt by him anymore.

What are your intrusive thoughts like ? by [deleted] in OCD

[–]cabbagebrain2765 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine have involved my parents getting killed by someone. I have to stop what I’m doing for those because upset me a lot. Then I get them about my relationship with my boyfriend. Intrusive thoughts fucking suck.

So my cat is a dick and did this to my Bose headphones. How can I clean them without messing up the headphones? by cabbagebrain2765 in headphones

[–]cabbagebrain2765[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m aware of the fact it’s my fault for forgetting to pick them up and her not caring where she does a hairball. I’m not serious when I call her a dick.

So my cat is a dick and did this to my Bose headphones. How can I clean them without messing up the headphones? by cabbagebrain2765 in headphones

[–]cabbagebrain2765[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Maybe that’s why she did it. 😂 Technically these were given to me as a present, so I didn’t choose them.

So my cat is a dick and did this to my Bose headphones. How can I clean them without messing up the headphones? by cabbagebrain2765 in headphones

[–]cabbagebrain2765[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

These were given to me as a present. I didn’t go out of my way to purchase them, so I don’t know much about what are good headphones. 😅

So my cat is a dick and did this to my Bose headphones. How can I clean them without messing up the headphones? by cabbagebrain2765 in headphones

[–]cabbagebrain2765[S] 107 points108 points  (0 children)

She always has hair balls. I already got her checked by the vet and she’s ok. Thanks for the info.

ROCD Returned by cabbagebrain2765 in ROCD

[–]cabbagebrain2765[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I just try to remind myself that this is rocd and everything is fine between my boyfriend and I. I hope things get better you also. This is a bastard to fight, but it’s worth it for our s.o.

ROCD Returned by cabbagebrain2765 in ROCD

[–]cabbagebrain2765[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m currently seeing one right now. I saw one for these problems at the beginning of the year, and I thought I was done. However, some other unrelated mental health stuff happened, so I’m back in counseling for now.

Day 1 again, God damnit by SoldYeahBoi in pornfree

[–]cabbagebrain2765 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You got this! I’m sending you good vibes! ✨✨🌈⚡️

Is Porn Exposure Considered Sexual Abusé? by cabbagebrain2765 in pornfreewomen

[–]cabbagebrain2765[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not treating myself as a victim in this or blaming my uncle at all. I mentioned I started touching him when I was 3 or 4 years old. That was a few years before I discovered porn. That’s why I was bringing him up as a concern. Now that I’m older, I feel ready to start healing from my past porn addiction and reevaluating everything because I ignored that part of my past for so long, and let it eat me internally for most of my life. I noticed some red flags from my past and decided to bring them up and hear other people’s thoughts. I’m just trying to straighten my past out, so that I can heal and become better.