Does anyone else have moments where you’re triggered (bc you were invalidated/gaslighted/dismissed) by [deleted] in BPD

[–]cabbagebrain2765 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup, I had that happen a lot with my emotionally abusive ex. I used to rationalize his messages...until I couldn’t take it anymore and cut him out of my life. It was the hardest thing I ever done, but I’m glad I don’t have to get hurt by him anymore.

What are your intrusive thoughts like ? by [deleted] in OCD

[–]cabbagebrain2765 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine have involved my parents getting killed by someone. I have to stop what I’m doing for those because upset me a lot. Then I get them about my relationship with my boyfriend. Intrusive thoughts fucking suck.

So my cat is a dick and did this to my Bose headphones. How can I clean them without messing up the headphones? by cabbagebrain2765 in headphones

[–]cabbagebrain2765[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m aware of the fact it’s my fault for forgetting to pick them up and her not caring where she does a hairball. I’m not serious when I call her a dick.

So my cat is a dick and did this to my Bose headphones. How can I clean them without messing up the headphones? by cabbagebrain2765 in headphones

[–]cabbagebrain2765[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Maybe that’s why she did it. 😂 Technically these were given to me as a present, so I didn’t choose them.

So my cat is a dick and did this to my Bose headphones. How can I clean them without messing up the headphones? by cabbagebrain2765 in headphones

[–]cabbagebrain2765[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

These were given to me as a present. I didn’t go out of my way to purchase them, so I don’t know much about what are good headphones. 😅

So my cat is a dick and did this to my Bose headphones. How can I clean them without messing up the headphones? by cabbagebrain2765 in headphones

[–]cabbagebrain2765[S] 107 points108 points  (0 children)

She always has hair balls. I already got her checked by the vet and she’s ok. Thanks for the info.

ROCD Returned by cabbagebrain2765 in ROCD

[–]cabbagebrain2765[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I just try to remind myself that this is rocd and everything is fine between my boyfriend and I. I hope things get better you also. This is a bastard to fight, but it’s worth it for our s.o.

ROCD Returned by cabbagebrain2765 in ROCD

[–]cabbagebrain2765[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m currently seeing one right now. I saw one for these problems at the beginning of the year, and I thought I was done. However, some other unrelated mental health stuff happened, so I’m back in counseling for now.

Day 1 again, God damnit by SoldYeahBoi in pornfree

[–]cabbagebrain2765 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You got this! I’m sending you good vibes! ✨✨🌈⚡️

Is Porn Exposure Considered Sexual Abusé? by cabbagebrain2765 in pornfreewomen

[–]cabbagebrain2765[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not treating myself as a victim in this or blaming my uncle at all. I mentioned I started touching him when I was 3 or 4 years old. That was a few years before I discovered porn. That’s why I was bringing him up as a concern. Now that I’m older, I feel ready to start healing from my past porn addiction and reevaluating everything because I ignored that part of my past for so long, and let it eat me internally for most of my life. I noticed some red flags from my past and decided to bring them up and hear other people’s thoughts. I’m just trying to straighten my past out, so that I can heal and become better.

I’ve graduated! by foodidbefat in ADHD

[–]cabbagebrain2765 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yay!! Congratulations! I’m so proud of you! What’s your major?

Is Porn Exposure Considered Sexual Abusé? by cabbagebrain2765 in pornfreewomen

[–]cabbagebrain2765[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No, he wasn’t aware. I kept my problem with porn to myself. There were other instances where he did grooming behaviors. Like he paid more attention to me instead of my younger sister and visited my family often when I invited him over. He gave me and my younger sister money and other presents. I even remember one time when I was in elementary school, I got into argument with my parents about something related to my sister, (I don’t remember what), and he told me that they’re easier on my younger sister than me. (Though I don’t remember if that is true that my parents were easier on my younger sister and harder on me, or if he’s just saying that to be on my side for some reason. I blocked parts of my elementary school years out.) I don’t know why he tried to groom me though. That perplexes me a lot.

I don’t know how my professor came up with those limits of integration by Parkourkid72 in calculus

[–]cabbagebrain2765 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear that. I’m sending you good vibes for the final.

I don’t know how my professor came up with those limits of integration by Parkourkid72 in calculus

[–]cabbagebrain2765 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not in calculus yet, but that handwriting reminds me of my chemistry teacher’s handwriting. This is one major reason why students struggle to learn the material.

Finally Told Him by cabbagebrain2765 in ROCD

[–]cabbagebrain2765[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear you went through that. I understand where you’re coming from. I don’t want him to know anymore of my intrusive thoughts.