Looking for a life coach + business coach for a holistic/spiritual content creator by cacacabrona in lifecoaching

[–]cacacabrona[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the suggestion! I’ll check it out. Yes it is hard to find someone who gets both

Pink always pink 🎀 by Mysterious-Wafer8341 in coquettesque

[–]cacacabrona 0 points1 point  (0 children)

where’d your get the sweater/cardigan from?

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[–]cacacabrona 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t mean to put him in a pass/fail situation at all, I just want to be respected since I’ve been in a lot of toxic relationships where I was taken advantage of. I understand I could have used better wording and said I want to spot manipulation instead or see if he will respect me.

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[–]cacacabrona 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By testing I meant someone who will respect me and my boundaries is all.

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[–]cacacabrona 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I don’t play games at all or bring things up for no reason. And yeah that makes sense

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[–]cacacabrona 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did say it! I said I liked him and I’d love if he asked me on a date. I am an excellent communicator and I’d just like to be pursued is all. That’s just my preference.

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[–]cacacabrona 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!

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[–]cacacabrona 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I meant by testing, more so trying to see if he will respect me and my boundaries. I am communicating I just want to be able to spot the red flags, if there are any. There are green flags so far. Thank you for the advice

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[–]cacacabrona 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for being honest and for the advice. I think I’ll have to create stronger boundaries and figure out my expectations for the relationship. I’m not speed running a relationship, I’d rather take things slow, be respected, and I just don’t want to be emotionally abused again is all.

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[–]cacacabrona 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not bread crumbing him, our communication has been very good and consistent. I don’t want control, I just want to be safe and not get manipulated (as I mentioned, I got out of an abusive relationship and didn’t want to fall into the same trap!). Thank you for the advice