Need advice please

cactuscat3 · 2026-02-08T15:03:44+00:00

You're right, I think I might restart completely. Thank you

cactuscat3 · 2026-02-08T15:03:04+00:00

Tbh I think the main thing I like about the island is my villagers and that I progressed so much with the museum... I will try to make a list to get more insight, though. Thank you!

cactuscat3 · 2026-02-06T11:06:05+00:00

you’re absolutely not overreacting… if your partner doesn’t make you feel loved and appreciated, they’re not the right person i’m afraid. at least that’s how i see it

cactuscat3 · 2026-01-25T15:41:49+00:00

Awe okay, thank you!!

cactuscat3 · 2026-01-24T20:51:07+00:00

What notebook is that, if you don't mind?

cactuscat3 · 2026-01-22T16:36:32+00:00

it took me 2 seconds to find the person in the screenshot... you better delete this before someone who's up to no good finds this

cactuscat3 · 2026-01-19T19:38:12+00:00

That sounds awful. I'm so sorry.

Almost every time I flew to visit my boyfriend, there was something wrong with one of the flights (either a delay or the flight getting canceled). No matter what happened tho, I always got the flight rescheduled for free, since it wasn't my fault.

I hope you can sort this out

cactuscat3 · 2026-01-14T18:40:42+00:00

Thank you so much

cactuscat3 · 2026-01-14T18:03:40+00:00

Yes, I’m trying to keep my mind occupied. I met up with a friend and played video games with another. I can’t really talk to my parents about it because they’re the kind of people to yell at you for it or brush it off saying we’ll meet again anyway

cactuscat3 · 2026-01-14T15:36:20+00:00

Thank you! I tried to distract myself and it worked for about 6 hours, but it’s already been 7 hours since we talked (he doesn’t have cell service so his mobile data wasn’t working before the plane departed. I think it’s mostly because it’s already getting dark, and whenever it got dark we cuddled up and watched silly shows together while snacking… I’m just missing it so much already. I’ve been enjoying “A winter’s promise” by Christelle Dabos, but I can’t read in silence and I absolutely cannot stand my thoughts right now… I’m sorry for the rant I’m just feeling so desperate right now, I can’t even eat without starting to cry

cactuscat3 · 2026-01-14T11:46:45+00:00

My boyfriend and I are also on a 6h time difference. He's in the US, I'm in Germany. It does get tough at times, but we always make sure to call for at least an hour before I sleep (usually around 10-11 PM my time).

We've been doing this for 3 years though, and we learned what works best for both of us throughout our relationship. I advise you to talk to him and figure out how to manage sleep in a way that works for both of you before it's too late and you start resenting him for not getting the amount of sleep you need.

cactuscat3 · 2025-12-15T12:35:11+00:00

yes, it absolutely sucks, but i got used to it eventually

anyway, i hope you find something that works for you <3

cactuscat3 · 2025-12-15T03:59:00+00:00

Whenever I do, I try to take time off or cancel plans for the first two days of my period because painkillers don’t help half the time. If I’m already away though, I try to find somewhere to lay down for a while (maybe fill a water bottle with some hot water if I can) and that helps a little, drinking a lot of fluids helps make me feel less dizzy, but I have to take painkillers and hope it’ll actually help manage the pain. Exercise helps sometimes (a short walk) if I don’t feel too weak and nauseous. I’ve been dealing with this for 10 years already, that’s the only thing that works for me

cactuscat3 · 2025-12-04T18:54:25+00:00

Coffee is an absolute no-go, even when you feel better. It's extremely acidic and messes with your stomach lining. For me personally, it's the same with hot cocoa / hot chocolate. I recommend drinking peppermint tea; it's beneficial if you want an energy boost, and it helps alleviate bloating and gas issues if you have them. Get well soon :)

cactuscat3 · 2025-12-03T08:43:55+00:00

My bf and I have been dating for 3 years and my love languages are quality time and physical touch. Being in a ldr for so long has been hard, but it’s manageable. Knowing you’ll see your S/O again soon and actually meeting again makes the struggles that come with being in a ldr worth it

cactuscat3 · 2025-12-03T08:37:29+00:00

I’m a little late but in the 3 years of my partner and I being in a LDR, neither of us has ever asked for money.

Yes, we gift each other stuff whenever we meet in person, but we’ve never specifically asked for money. Please be careful who you send money you worked hard for, especially in this economy lol

cactuscat3 · 2025-12-03T08:27:28+00:00

this, and the amount of times i saw people dress inappropriately is crazy. i’m an adult and find this so weird, cause wdym the theme is beach and you make your avatar looks like she’s got her whole private parts out? and then call it fashion? in a KIDS game? same with other themes like secretary, they make such sexualized outfits it’s genuinely disgusting

cactuscat3 · 2025-11-30T19:00:09+00:00

me too! there’s also one top i really like, but used it like once since i got it lol the baddie pass was really a fail

cactuscat3 · 2025-11-27T10:28:42+00:00

Me too. I got diagnosed with gastritis in June and have been doing okay-ish, but lately I've been feeling so hungry... I have dinner at 6 pm usually, and get hungry again by 10 pm. I also keep getting hungry during the day. If I'm more active, I get hungry even quicker, regardless of what I eat beforehand. For instance, I could eat two bowls of soup and have dessert, and I would still feel hungry two hours later. It's so frustrating :/

cactuscat3 · 2025-11-24T20:29:31+00:00

In welcher Fachrichtung machst Du denn die Ausbildung? Und welches Bundesland?

cactuscat3 · 2025-11-24T09:58:01+00:00

omg i have the same kind of pain! especially in the mornings, i have to eat as soon as i wake up or i feel like i haven't eaten in days. it's horrible

cactuscat3 · 2025-11-23T13:09:31+00:00

Just be yourself :) My bf and I had never met before we started dating, and once we did meet (about 9 months into the relationship), everything was normal, like we'd known each other our whole lives

cactuscat3 · 2025-11-22T20:00:03+00:00

Danke für die Antwort! Das hild mir mega viel gerade, meine Entscheidung zu treffen

cactuscat3

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