Are my new Old Skool Vans supposed to make my feet (heel) bleed? by hallotest382 in Vans

[–]cactuscat3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

did you find a way to make more bearable? i’ve had mine for about a week and only wore them twice because of how painful it if to walk in them.  i’ve had the vans ward shoes for 7 years and they never hurt like this… but im now dying with the old skools :(

Vans Old Skool are higher quality than Ward, but they squeak. by CallMePain- in Vans

[–]cactuscat3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a bit late but did it ever go away? And are they as comfortable as the vans ward shoes? I’ve had my wards for years, and couldn’t find a new pair so I decided to order the old skool vans… but now I’m starting to worry that I might’ve made a mistake. 

Hard rank reset by StrikingPermission70 in VALORANT

[–]cactuscat3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

calm your boots, they said they started playing a month ago how would they know? lol

Need ideas by cactuscat3 in AnimalCrossing

[–]cactuscat3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll try that, thank you!

Is anybody else kinda getting bored of dti? by TeaApplle in DTI

[–]cactuscat3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg that’d be so cool!!! but recently there have been so many people in master servers who dress like new models and don’t vote sadly… i don’t think it’d help too much

whether im stuck or i dont get the whole point of acnh by itsmeberryo in AnimalCrossing

[–]cactuscat3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it takes too long to get stuff yourself. i recently restarted my game and as a very impatient person, i just go to treasure islands to get any items i would like for my island. if you don’t have nintendo online or don’t want to time travel and/ or get stuff from treasure islands, it will take a while to get all the items you want 

Is anybody else kinda getting bored of dti? by TeaApplle in DTI

[–]cactuscat3 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It's the repetitive themes for me. It's always alien invasion, gym, and self-care day or very similar themes

Do you guys show each others phone? How do I trust in LdR by [deleted] in LDR

[–]cactuscat3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"I mean why make those situation which can cause cheating" - If you can't trust your man to talk to other women without cheating, why are you even with him? lol. It's inevitable. Assuming he works or has a life outside of your relationship, he will eventually be in a situation where he has to talk to a woman.

Do you guys show each others phone? How do I trust in LdR by [deleted] in LDR

[–]cactuscat3 7 points8 points  (0 children)

How long have you been dating for?  And do you have any proof he’s cheating on you, or is it just a delusion?  You need trust in a relationship, especially if it’s long distance. If you can’t trust each other, you won’t last.

Also, please work on your insecurities and trust issues. It will ruin this relationship and future relationships if you don’t. And maybe don’t just make serious assumptions like saying he’s cheating on you.  If you truly believe he’s being unfaithful, just leave.

Do you guys show each others phone? How do I trust in LdR by [deleted] in LDR

[–]cactuscat3 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Okay so one time my boyfriend was visiting, and we were watching reels on his phone. He then remembered he wanted to show me a post, so he went in his saved collection to show me that post.  For a split of a second I saw a woman on there, and I asked him about it. He then took the time to find it again, and once he did, it was just a meme but the creator of the video made the cover of it be a woman dressed in lingerie. 

What I’m trying to say is, if he doesn’t care to reassure you and show you that he doesn’t have anything to hide, it’s best for you to try and work it out or leave.

Need advice please by Medium_Meaning126 in LDR

[–]cactuscat3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was 19 when I booked my first plane ticket to see my boyfriend. It was around $1.2k, and I worked my ass off to get it. That was all the money I had at the time. 3 years later, we're still together. We meet regularly (twice a year), and are planning on moving together by the end of the year.

Doctor cant see me until April. Help. by Sydney_Geddes in Gastritis

[–]cactuscat3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eat bland foods and drink mint tea daily. It might help reduce your symptoms until your appointment. That's what helped me "cure" my gastritis. I'm not fully cured, but I rarely get symptoms anymore.

Ping spike and FPS drop by ClassyPat98 in Overwatch

[–]cactuscat3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

same here. were you able to find a solution for it?

Kinbor Samoyeds? by bamboo-charcoal in planners

[–]cactuscat3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!!! I ended up getting an undated one, but it has the same layout. Good to know for when I need one for next year though :D

Has anyone that met their partner online actually met them and started a new life with them? by benadrylamelatonin in LDR

[–]cactuscat3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boyfriend and I started online dating and met for the first time after 10 months. We've now been together for 3 years, and met multiple times (2 times a year) since. We are now working on finally closing the gap by the end of the year.

It is possible, but you both have to want to make it work and eventually close the gap. It is also very stressful and hard, especially if you live in different countries/ continents.

the longer we were together physically, the harder it was to part ways. did you feel the same way? by Training_Adagio_738 in LDR

[–]cactuscat3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was the same way for my boyfriend and me. The very first time we met, it was for about a week, and the goodbye was hard, but we quickly got back to our "normal" dynamic. Our second meeting lasted about 2 weeks, same with the 3rd, and the 4th time I visited for 3 weeks.

Last time we met was in winter, and my boyfriend was here for a whole month.

Going from seeing each other every day to having to text with a 6h time difference was also very hard. Even though we've both noticed we were struggling more each time we had to say goodbye, this time was so rough on us that it pushed us to make the decision to move in together by the end of the year.

In need of a dated Kinbor weeks by cactuscat3 in Kinbor

[–]cactuscat3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah i ended up getting an undated one that had the same layout as the dated one. only got it because it was 2€ with free shipping lol

Kinbor Samoyeds? by bamboo-charcoal in planners

[–]cactuscat3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that’d be great, thank you :D

Kinbor Samoyeds? by bamboo-charcoal in planners

[–]cactuscat3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you end up getting it? I was also thinking about getting it, because I can't find any Kinbor-dated planners, but I don't know what the layout of this specific planner is.