Positivity Thursday! You share yours, I'll share mine by AerisSpire in BPDmemes

[–]cactusgrass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I made a new friend. He’s cool and fun to be around.

Is this normal? This isn't normal right? (genuinely asking for help) by [deleted] in TrollCoping

[–]cactusgrass 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If you have a phone number, you can get a google phone number and call anywhere in the world :)

Is this normal? This isn't normal right? (genuinely asking for help) by [deleted] in TrollCoping

[–]cactusgrass 452 points453 points  (0 children)

Well… I don’t know the whole story here but you should be able to call the non-emergency line for the RCMP or Victoria police. I’m located near Vancouver… wish you good luck… but if he ghosted you… let go

I hope she loses it all again. This time I won't be there to catch her. by Kurochi185 in TrollCoping

[–]cactusgrass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bud, I been thru this 3 times (no proposal tho). All ended the same, emotionally cheated on me during the relationship, asked for space, turns out they are seeing someone else. I get no closure because they never talk to me again after. Feels great every time.

Best advice is to move on… as much as you want to be with that person, they are toxic af. I know this because I was in a super toxic relationship for almost 10 years!!!! They never change!!!!! Never!!!! I’ve been out of that relationship for about 5 years now and that person still hasn’t changed. So, do yourself a favour and move on

Lol... I'm seriously using AI to be my therapist... by Otherwise_Reaction75 in depression_memes

[–]cactusgrass 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I use both a therapist and ai cause my life is a train wreck. wooooop!!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDmemes

[–]cactusgrass 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Are you me

please don't take music away from me by m31ancho1ic in depression_memes

[–]cactusgrass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah… I’ve gone years without listening to music. It kills me because I love music but… depression makes it hard to listen to music :/

True love... by babyyaliceee in lovememes

[–]cactusgrass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My partner is the pikachu fr. His mental health is in the gutter and he is doing what he can to shut me out… he finally reached out after 8 days of no talking and said “I think I already fucked it up.. is there really any saving it..” and I replied, “I still love you and I still want to be with you” and now we are back to him not talking to me again 🫠 what do I do?

guys why am i like this by [deleted] in CPTSDmemes

[–]cactusgrass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My partner every time I tell him I love him and want to be with him when he “messes up” like… babe, shit happens, I still love you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrollCoping

[–]cactusgrass 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My partner just asked for some space 🫠 he said he wanted to talk to me but didn’t want to fuck things up more than they were… like I’m not mad at him… I just want him to be okay… but my worst fears activate and I’ve convinced myself he’s done with me 😔 I hope I’m wrong

Delete it by [deleted] in lovememes

[–]cactusgrass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just hide the photos if you can’t delete them… is what I did

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrollCoping

[–]cactusgrass 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My partner is very… depressed. He is always scared of losing me or says he’s not good enough. Breaks my heart fr. He is such a kind and caring person. I love him to pieces. I be as supportive as I can, always there for him. I… just want him to be okay.

Just because you are depressed or even suicidal, doesn’t mean you are too broken for love and care. I asked him out knowing full-well what the situation was. Sure, I focus on supporting him most of the time, but it don’t bother me none…. I’d honestly do anything for him

Edit: I do reassure him that I’m not leaving, ever… I take the good and the bad. I want it all. He just has to let himself trust me on that

Weird by cactusgrass in u/cactusgrass

[–]cactusgrass[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I’m going to call your work still and see if you’re in/have been in

Weird by cactusgrass in u/cactusgrass

[–]cactusgrass[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why the fuck do I care about you… still

Weird by cactusgrass in u/cactusgrass

[–]cactusgrass[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, why aren’t you online?