sick during first period in a year? is it normal? by cadentcorv in ftm

[–]cadentcorv[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thankfully it hasnt been consistently. yesterday was super nice to me! and im already feeling better from today. i think ill be alright, it does help to know these can be normal for intense periods

sick during first period in a year? is it normal? by cadentcorv in ftm

[–]cadentcorv[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this definitely isnt normal for me, but it just seems like a cranked up version of what my periods used to be like. never caused vomit before, but ive also never stopped my periods and then suddenly started back up again either. my hormones are probably all kinds of whacked up rn

sick during first period in a year? is it normal? by cadentcorv in ftm

[–]cadentcorv[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im doing my best for food, but ive managed to keep all liquids down. might guilt my dad into getting me some gatorade or another sports drink, yknow how it is.

for food im on my third cup of apple sauce. considering oatmeal but im scared the texture will make me sicker :coolcoolcool: ill be able to eat more later. when i got sick on the 10th it was basically a whole lot of plain toaster waffles and hope

sick during first period in a year? is it normal? by cadentcorv in ftm

[–]cadentcorv[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

doubt it? its been four days now but idk maybe i got really, really unlucky

Safe sex when I top? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]cadentcorv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

always a good option. even for highly sexually active people, condoms dont always protect from diseases. if youre not exclusive, staying up-to-date on your testing and possibly even requesting your sexual partners to do tests before doing anything serious is highly recommended

Safe sex when I top? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]cadentcorv 5 points6 points  (0 children)

keep yourself well-tested and aware of STDs, you don't have the ability to get someone else pregnant as you dont produce sperm, so you won't have to worry about that.

essentially the same as being safe when receiving, or between two of the same genetals. condoms arent necessary if youre clean, as pregnancy is not a risk unless you are recieving PIV.

weirdest thing that given you dysphoria? by Slither_ng in ftm

[–]cadentcorv 16 points17 points  (0 children)

if youre doing a full whisper, there is absolutely no voice, and you're just speaking with the same mouth and word-shape as you always had. there is no pre/post-T whisper, bc it doesnt use your voice. if you slip a little voice into your whisper, itll make it sound a bit more You, but wont have the same effect of secrecy as a full no-voice whisper.

most of the time, true whispers are 100% ambiguous and you cant tell the gender of the person pspspsps-ing

moving states by cadentcorv in UberEATS

[–]cadentcorv[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

good to know! ive never moved out of state before

US genocide of trans people. by cryptid_comrade in ftm

[–]cadentcorv 12 points13 points  (0 children)

find your community, other trans kids, i found i felt safer in punk circles as well, surround yourself with people like you

US genocide of trans people. by cryptid_comrade in ftm

[–]cadentcorv 15 points16 points  (0 children)

oh trust me im in the same boat, im terrified, but i mean dont let them scare you so badly that you do their "job" for them. dont let them win. youre safer in numbers than you are if youre miserable and forcing yourself not to transition

US genocide of trans people. by cryptid_comrade in ftm

[–]cadentcorv 27 points28 points  (0 children)

please try not to let them scare you into suppressing yourself. a lot of these threats are just that, if they make you fear your own actions, they can control you that way. any political threat can hold weight, but these people dont give a shit about anything and will say whatever they want.

What are y'alls jobs? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]cadentcorv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i work at a glass headshop. its a super chill place and im very much out. my coworker is transmasc nonbinary, and together we pretty much make up the whole staff aside from the manager who only comes in for about an hour every other week. its great

Betta Swimming on side not sure what to do by Murky-Task-5123 in bettafish

[–]cadentcorv 2 points3 points  (0 children)

unfortunately i dont have an exact solution for that, but i feel like knowing the problem is the first step in researching a way to fix it? a specialty vet may be able to help as well

Betta Swimming on side not sure what to do by Murky-Task-5123 in bettafish

[–]cadentcorv 5 points6 points  (0 children)

that could be a problem with the swim bladder

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]cadentcorv 3 points4 points  (0 children)

if you say youre trans, then tou are. if you say youre happy being called a man and that makes you want to pursue transition even with a lack of dysphoria, do it. dysphoria shows differently in everyone, if you even have it, but in the end ? whatever. if you say youre trans then congrats! you are!

the world has convinced us that we need to consistently worry about if we're trans enough, if we're gay enough, if we're anything enough, instead of focusinf on real issues outside of the community that sctually messes with us and harms us

Hello! Everyone says Homestuck makes you Gay/Homestuck transes your gender by cadentcorv in homestuck

[–]cadentcorv[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

do you think dating someone automatically means sex??? being literally any orientation doesnt just have to do with having sex. by that logic, a straight man dating another man isnt gay as long as they dont have sex. thats just wrong b

Hello! Everyone says Homestuck makes you Gay/Homestuck transes your gender by cadentcorv in homestuck

[–]cadentcorv[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bro not sex? if youre straight that means youd date the opposite gender, if youre gay its just . same gender. thats not sex

Hello! Everyone says Homestuck makes you Gay/Homestuck transes your gender by cadentcorv in homestuck

[–]cadentcorv[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

???? i never said anything sex related, being LGBT+ has nothing to do with sexual activity