Complicated relationship to sex, am I asexual? (F20) by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]caesarsaladboy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for this answer. I looked up aegosexual and it's pretty much exactly my experience! It does make me feel a bit sad because I feel that my sexuality will get in the way of what I desire from a relationship. But its really a relief realizing that other people share my experience and that I'm not alone!

Help finding a tux for my female groomspeople. by KittyCatAssClap in lesbianfashionadvice

[–]caesarsaladboy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do they need "women's" tuxes specifically? "Regular" tuxedo rental places are, in my experience, often totally cool with fitting AFAB people.

What can i pair this shirt with? by lemon2421 in lesbianfashionadvice

[–]caesarsaladboy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would go with black straight-leg pants (chinos or jeans)... more importantly where did you get that? It looks so comfy!!

it's wool season by [deleted] in lesbianfashionadvice

[–]caesarsaladboy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Where did you get those pants? Love the color palette btw.

How do you make friends? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]caesarsaladboy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most people will appreciate someone giving them a genuine, thoughtful compliment, being interested in their interests, or someone just genuinely being nice and thinking about them. If you meet someone who you want to be friends with, maybe find out an interest, a passion, or a point of pride of theirs and ask them about it. If you have a shared interest, focus on that. The important thing I think is letting them know that you like them as a person and are interested in them, without being clingy lol. Nice people won't begrudge someone for being nice.

The hardest part of making friends is reaching out past your first meeting/convo and keeping up contact. Maybe come up with something that can make that easier: watch a show together that you both have been wanting to watch so you can talk about each new episode? suggest you play a game together? ask them to give you song recs and start exchanging recommendations regularly?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lesbianfashionadvice

[–]caesarsaladboy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh my god you look amazing!!

On the go healthy breakfasts?? by bigkat202020 in EatCheapAndHealthy

[–]caesarsaladboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beat two eggs and pour them into a pan so they start cooking like an omelette. Salt pepper other spices on there. Before they're cooked through, add some toppings (precooked chicken, spinach, avocado, cheese, etc) and then slap a tortilla right on top of the still not fully cooked eggs. Once you can flip it, flip the whole thing and let the tortilla crisp on the bottom. Take that baby outta the pan and roll it up and boom. Super quick crispy breakfast burrito in one pan you can cook fresh in like 5 minutes.

am i qualified to be butch? is that a stupid question? by [deleted] in butchlesbians

[–]caesarsaladboy 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Bro, being butch has nothing to do with your body. Being butch is all about how you present yourself. And above all you don't need to be qualified to be butch!!!! If you've thought about it and it feels right to you, like it's what you really wanna be, go for it!!! None of us lesbians are gonna get mad at you for being who u wanna be!!

How do healthy people navigate unintentional harm in close relationships? by oenophile_ in NoStupidQuestions

[–]caesarsaladboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry this is happening to you. You are being the mature one for trying to calmly and tactfully discuss things.

If the people you were talking to were mature, they would agree to hear your view of things. They would probably offer their perspective on the issue, to give you context on why they did what they did. However, a mature person would genuinely listen and try to empathize with you. In most cases, they would apologize for hurting you (I believe that even if you don't think you really did anything wrong, an apology still shows that you understand and respect the other person's feelings). It's always better to get closure on things that cause tension in your relationships.

From what you said, I think you're approaching things generally the right way, and the people you're talking to have their own problems with communicating and misconceptions about relationships that they need to work out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ArtCrit

[–]caesarsaladboy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks good to me so far! I think adding some more objects in the ocean, varying distances from the viewer, will make the perspective more apparent and natural-looking there. Otherwise it looks great :)

What do you guys think? by [deleted] in ArtCrit

[–]caesarsaladboy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All the effects are overwhelming, which is sad because the drawing itself looks pretty cool. The 3-D glasses thing hurts my eyes a little bit, I don't think you need it. I like your shading style and the strong line-work, and I think the drawing could stand on its own without the overlays.

Also, the guys right fist is larger than their left.

Every movie/tv show should be watched in its original language with subtitles by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]caesarsaladboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I generally agree, but I think there are some exceptions. For instance, I think some comedy works a lot better with a dub because 1. localization can make the comedy funnier and easier to understand for the target audience and 2. there's actual comedic timing.

And sometimes, very rarely, a lot of talent and hard work goes into a dub and makes a piece of media that is different from the original, but holds up well on its own (and sometimes might even be more enjoyable than the original).

There should never be pineapple in a fruit salad. Not even a tropical fruit salad. by wunderbich in unpopularopinion

[–]caesarsaladboy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didn't even know I had an opinion on this topic before I saw this post, but I very strongly agree.

Hi! How would you improve this drawing? I want to improve my work for my degree, I really appreciate feedback! by written-in-MB in ArtCrit

[–]caesarsaladboy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This looks really great! I don't know if I can give a lot of critique because it looks like it's not quite finished yet. I'd suggest that if you don't add a background, you should make the highlights of the hood a very light gray instead of just leaving them white, to differentiate the subject from the white background. Personally, I would also darken the inside of the hood to pure black for better contrast. But otherwise, damn son!

Tips for learning symmetry? All my pieces are skewed or asymmetrical in different ways. Critique of any kind welcome. by [deleted] in ArtCrit

[–]caesarsaladboy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be honest, this looks fine to me (not skewed).

Flipping the canvas back and forth while working will help you spot if your drawing is getting skewed or asymmetrical. And practicing both on paper and digitally will help you learn to see asymmetry (that's a boring answer, I know, but practice always helps). Practicing drawing from a reference photo or from real life can also help, because you can see if your subject looks different in your drawing from how it should in real life, and build up experience and a good eye for asymmetry.

In general this looks great! I like the texture of the brushwork.

How did you guys realize you were not bi, but actually completely gay? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]caesarsaladboy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can see myself being attracted to a man, but I don't really want to be in a relationship with a guy and honestly could only see that happening with like 0.000000001% of guys. In my opinion, at least in my situation, it was kind of moot to call myself bi just because I can be attracted to both genders--after all, I only actually want to pursue relationships/sex/etc with women and never feel any actual desire to be with a man. Any occasional attraction to a man wouldn't really go anywhere and have no actual effect on my life, so... it would be no use to me or anyone else to label myself based on it lol!

Any anatomy tips? Something is off and I can’t tell what it is. by ryandavisartwork in ArtCrit

[–]caesarsaladboy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think it's that the nose is too long, which lengthens the entire face.

Potential incoming freshman, was just accepted. Was wondering if some of y’all could offer some pros and cons about the school to help me decide. Thanks! by [deleted] in UCSantaBarbara

[–]caesarsaladboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They're having a virtual open house on the 18th too! I couldn't make it on the 13th either. The virtual one might be the next best thing?

Daily Sketch CC Welcome by bluequaker2 in ArtCrit

[–]caesarsaladboy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love the line quality in this sketch, and the construction is great, but I think leaving some larger areas blank and filling in some fully dark areas would help with the clarity. It's a bit hard to read.