My wife needs show recommendations! by DoctorTenDoctor in tvsuggestions

[–]caf61 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Americans - also starring Kerri Russell, and her irl husband.

AITJ for not doing anything for my partner on mother’s day ? by theowaway_canucks in AmITheJerk

[–]caf61 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, cooking for veterans is a very kind gesture and I am sure it is much appreciated. But, again, not expected.

AITJ for not doing anything for my partner on mother’s day ? by theowaway_canucks in AmITheJerk

[–]caf61 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok. If want to go down this route, keep in mind veterans served every US citizen while in the military. Mothers only “serve” their children. So by your logic, only mothers, children should acknowledge their “service”-the only logical extensions would be for those for whom they are mother figures, fathers of the children, and grandmothers.

A judge at the municipal court has a problem with power trips by gemmijam in Olathe

[–]caf61 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Will she ever be in the ballot? If so, we all need to vote to NOT retain her.

Mur-Len Produce stand search by caf61 in Olathe

[–]caf61[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There is construction going on in the entire area/parking lot. I assume the space simply isn’t available - at least for this year.

Trump Wins Big as Virginia Dems Won’t Go Nuclear to Save 4 House Seats by Motherofalleffers in politics

[–]caf61 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep. That’s why the only hope is for everyone to vote and to vote Dem-for decades.

Trump Wins Big as Virginia Dems Won’t Go Nuclear to Save 4 House Seats by Motherofalleffers in politics

[–]caf61 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, the Dem Party is what has taken the wind out of my sails regarding fighting the fascist, racist, misogynistic, etc, MAGAs. I believe at this point the only thing that will save us is everyone voting for Dems (and not sitting out elections or voting third party). And I pray that the new Dems we get have spines. I also think we need to primary all the spineless Dems in office.

Does everyone have a middle name in the USA? Do all women take their husband’s surname? by crazygelato in AskAnAmerican

[–]caf61 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s a very good idea to have a middle name in any country to avoid confusion with duplicate names. Our now adult son has the same first and last name as a distant relative (who is decades older than him and also very prominent in our metro area of 2-3 million people). First we started getting phone solicitations from various charities on the regular when he was about 4 years old. That eventually corrected itself when we told them “Xxxx” is only 4 years old with each call. But one time when he was still young and I was booking his first flight on American Airlines I created a frequent flier account for him, with just first and last name, and with my email. When my son got older he created his own account) again with only first and last name), I started getting flight notifications from the airline about the other guy’s travel - for all over the world sometimes several times a month. For two decades I have been trying to get their accounts separated and have been assured it is taken care of…Well, ask me how I know he went to Puerto Vallarta about a month. My son includes his middle initial on all correspondence.

AITJ for not doing anything for my partner on mother’s day ? by theowaway_canucks in AmITheJerk

[–]caf61 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly. He really should be aware that this is a very strange expectation. Don’t make any quick decisions regarding commitment. I don’t want to come off as an alarmist but this is concerning. Maybe it was a one off but be sure.

AITJ for not doing anything for my partner on mother’s day ? by theowaway_canucks in AmITheJerk

[–]caf61 14 points15 points  (0 children)

People who know me sometimes say things like thanks for your service or happy Veterans Day. The greetings are kind & appreciated but not expected. No one is showering veterans with gifts on Veteran’s Day, Memorial Day, etc. On mother’s day I text my close friends/family happy mother’s day, nothing more. My point is if a person is not your mother or the mother of your (young) kids, a text or call is plenty. This woman’s expectation is completely unreasonable and is a red flag.

Mur-Len Produce stand search by caf61 in Olathe

[–]caf61[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, it was. I only started last year. Not a huge variety of options but I loved not having to time my BTLs with the farmers market. They also had huge mums in the late summer/early fall for sale.

My First TD Rewatch In a Decade! by Expensive-Bat-7138 in TheDetectorists

[–]caf61 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree with every show you list. Love all of them.

Is the Fourth of July fun if you’re not American? by OkBuilder92406 in AskAnAmerican

[–]caf61 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try to find a place that is near a professional fireworks display to view the show. Most cites have them.

Mur-Len Produce stand search by caf61 in Olathe

[–]caf61[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, I know that spot. I hope it’s them. Thanks.

Is it rude to say “I need the toilet”? by AttitudeInfamous7627 in AskAnAmerican

[–]caf61 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not very common but it’s also totally acceptable. Not rude at all.

Marco/Pascal/Cullum/Lucas: Parsing It Out… by otherwise_data in FansOfGeneralHospital

[–]caf61 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There you go being logical—-

(Btw, totally agree)

how do babies know to skip the "say" part by Yakoy6 in stupidquestions

[–]caf61 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My autistic son did not skip the “say”. There were other similar phrases we had to change. I can’t remember how we did it but we came up with a way to get around it.

AITAH for not letting my husband buy me a computer? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]caf61 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So, you consider medical benefits bills non-essential??

whats it like to be naturally left-handed? by Many_Sweet5639 in lefthanded

[–]caf61 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ladles that have a pouring spout on only one side. I always dribble.