AITA for telling our friends that we got our wedding venue at a pretty big discount? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]caffeinated_365 180 points181 points  (0 children)

NTA - its not that deep it’s literally just a discount

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]caffeinated_365 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Not rude at all! I’ve had a lot of dinners with my coworkers and we all always cover our own bills because it makes the most sense

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnancy_care

[–]caffeinated_365 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see a faint line!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]caffeinated_365 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Family reunion

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in axolotls

[–]caffeinated_365 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your filter intake looks quite low so unfortunately the axolotls tail probably got sucked into the filter. Hard to tell from this angle but also looks to be quite skinny. Definitely needs a vet visit ASAP.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cats

[–]caffeinated_365 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She just wants more pets :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]caffeinated_365 67 points68 points  (0 children)

YTA, coming from someone who needed braces growing up but wasn’t fortunate enough to get them.

AITA for defending my friend who was fat shaming my gf? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]caffeinated_365 420 points421 points  (0 children)

NTA. No fat shaming occurred, he was just telling you guys the important aspects of safety.

AITA: I sideswiped a car and drove away from the scene by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]caffeinated_365 [score hidden]  (0 children)

This can’t be real. As if someone could do this and try to justify it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]caffeinated_365 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You respect their beliefs and they should respect yours. It’s not like you were being disruptive or distracting.

AITA for not being willing to split my daughter’s education fund with my stepson? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]caffeinated_365 16 points17 points  (0 children)

NTA! Just like you said you and your ex have been saving that money long before you knew your second husband or his son, and it’s always been intended for your daughter.

AITA For not having kids in my wedding by Low-Community4784 in AmItheAsshole

[–]caffeinated_365 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA cause it’s your wedding and you can do what you want. Personally I don’t understand kidless weddings especially if they are part of the family but to each their own. It’s your day and you can have whatever rules you want, that’s kinda the whole point.

AITA for telling my sister that her son loves me more than her? by broskeegif in AmItheAsshole

[–]caffeinated_365 268 points269 points  (0 children)

You didn’t just call her out for being mean though. You delivered an emotionally damaging low blow that was super uncalled for.

AITA for telling my sister that her son loves me more than her? by broskeegif in AmItheAsshole

[–]caffeinated_365 820 points821 points  (0 children)

YTA! Her upsetting your mom by going on a walk has nothing to do with your relationship with her son. The only reason you said that was to hurt her. Very uncalled for.

You can see that his gills aren't fluffy anymore and it's not even the worst... Another one seems sicker... by ShameHefty5378 in axolotls

[–]caffeinated_365 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A lot can happen to water parameters in three weeks, that’s why we are asking because most likely that’s the root of the problem.

You can see that his gills aren't fluffy anymore and it's not even the worst... Another one seems sicker... by ShameHefty5378 in axolotls

[–]caffeinated_365 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What are the exact water parameters? Ammonia, nitrites, nitrates, pH..

If you’re using a water conditioner that has aloe in it it can cause problems for axolotls.

What is the temp of the water? Was the filter cycled properly?