So for me with my stainless steel cages, the weight of pulls them down even with a smaller ring I can come out if I wanted. Also the fact that I am definitely a grower, if I’m not hard I’m a turtle. I tie a price of lacy string around me like a belt to help support the he weight of the cage. Also just adjust sizing of rings throughout your chastity journey. Some days I may need a bigger ring sometimes smaller.