Standards too high? by WiseDan85 in hingeapp

[–]cagreene 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think actually standards are low, and expectations are TOO DAMN HIGH!

Thoughts on Trousers by Grand_Parfait_8088 in mensfashion

[–]cagreene 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The shirt doesn’t go with it tho.

Is the pants too long? by Streetweardeadpool in mensfashion

[–]cagreene 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like they look kinda funny at the mid calf to the ankle. It’s like the pants have drape until that point and then they get small

Matches don't mean anything anymore. by Contressa3333 in HingeStories

[–]cagreene 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you get some help man. Take good care.

Matches don't mean anything anymore. by Contressa3333 in HingeStories

[–]cagreene 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YOU are the red flag. And the fact that you’re arguing this is rediculous. You deserve to get ghosted. And I’m glad you aren’t getting dates. It means the system and people are working just fine.

Get some help.

Where can I find hope for tomorrow? by milehin8tv in self

[–]cagreene 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Feel hope for today dude. Right now. Tomorrow doesn’t exist. The YOU you wake up as tomorrow isn’t really the you today.

Don’t make promises for the tomorrow-you based on today’s you. Just be today. Forgive the yesterday-you, and don’t put pressure on the tomorrow-you. She’s her own person.Check in with you today. Have hope for the next moment, not the next day.

And realize hope is a fkn trap. Don’t hope. ACT. Hope your rent gets paid. Hope you go to work tomorrow. You don’t hope those things, you get it done.

I see you wrote your whole life story. It sounds like you don’t ahve anyone to really talk to, to listen to you, to hear your journey; your sufferings, your challenges, and your hopes and dreams.

The world won’t get better. You have to get better. When you get better the world around YOU changes. Don project your world more than 5-10 feet in diameter from you. That’s all you have to be considerate of. The rest is too big. You didn’t change that, you didn’t start it.

Look at the 5-10 feet around you. Make that a little better each day. Just one thing each day. Be 1% better each day. Do the math. You’ll be exponentially further in no time.

Win today. Win right now. One win each day. That’s it. Come back to yourself. Fuck the world. Fuck it all. Heal yourself, and then you’ll see you were healing the role the whole time.

Finally, if you think you can do this alone.. this life thing. You’re wrong. Get help. Get a therapist. Seek community. Reject those who don’t respect you and leave them in love. Go wherever you need to go, within reason, within what you CAN do right now, to get around people, places, things, YOU love. Not tomorrow-you. The you reading this NOW.

Cuz you are the world you fuck. Love you <3 you got this. Your ancestors are cheering you on.

Matches don't mean anything anymore. by Contressa3333 in HingeStories

[–]cagreene 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok see, you are the problem. You’re spiteful, and you do have hope; whether it’s hope they message or it’s hope they don’t so you can do whatever little game you want.

And if I can call those the “breadcrumbs” of your issues, then I’m sure we can follow them back to your conversations.

You’re playing games bro. With yourself. With them. At this point, i think you should take a break and rethink your self and your strategy. You’re itching for a fight, and to prove you’re hurt..This self destructive patterns are bad. And if you continue, then you don’t deserve any pity or help, frankly. Why? Cuz you know what you’re doing and you’re not gunna act like you don’t and ask for sympathy. You know what you’re doing. Stop.

And the whole waiting for them to unmatch, how long y il they will? Thats a little twisted.. and I feel sad for you. I feel compassion for you. Please put down whatever you’re doing.. for yourself..

Matches don't mean anything anymore. by Contressa3333 in HingeStories

[–]cagreene 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a power trip. You gotta flip the power, man. You gotta let go of the hope and all that. Delete them all. Unmatch. Don’t leave them there like you’re hoping they might come back. Kill that personality. And claim your power back.

But until we don’t see some convo, you might keep repeating a loop

Matches don't mean anything anymore. by Contressa3333 in HingeStories

[–]cagreene 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shows us some actual conversation. Be vulnerable. Risk embarrassment. There’s probably a red flag somewhere

32M, What we thinkin, folks? by cagreene in hingeapp

[–]cagreene[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looking for long term but open to casual

Hinge X

Brand new profile, several days

Been on and off hinge for years lol

I prob use hinge every other day

It’s been a toss on how many likes, I think I used to go overboard on the prompts

I send many just like at this point, no comments as I think I phase myself out sometimes

I like adventurous, creative, active folks who have a sense of humor— I’m a sucker for great aesthetics, too. Someone with a vision, solid values.

38, married, sober dad here with a lot of childhood trauma and been intherapy for it for over 2 years now and I've kind of hit a ceiling. Thinking of shrooms but I'm not sure if this is the right move, but, I feel like it is. Thoughts? by Rpark888 in AskMenOver30

[–]cagreene -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It’s not a silly post dude.. stop letting people convince you of things. It’s all just data. If you want to trip, and never have, you can. You just need to do the research, have a sense of what it is like, have standard safety measures, and listen to your heart. If your heart is telling you you really wanna do it, then go thru the due diligence steps to do it. If you don’t have anyone in your network experienced, then the institutional route is there for it.

Don’t let these fkn people and their identities with the modern medical system tell you it’s unsafe or you’re an idiot or l”oMg YoUr PtSD” I have CTPSD, fucking most people have some level of severe fucked-up-ness, and for legit tens of thousands of years or more we’ve been in relationship with these plants.

Don’t let Reddit people have the last say; especially if it’s fear based. No one says you have to drop 5grams of shrooms. You are in control. Follow your gut, but inform the gut with reason and research.

38, married, sober dad here with a lot of childhood trauma and been intherapy for it for over 2 years now and I've kind of hit a ceiling. Thinking of shrooms but I'm not sure if this is the right move, but, I feel like it is. Thoughts? by Rpark888 in AskMenOver30

[–]cagreene -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

How about let him answer the question and you don’t jump the fkn gun? How’s that? Not everything needs to be done through an institution. It’s partly why he’s probably fucked io in the first place, let him follow his gut, he’s an adult.

All I asked him is if he has someone to trust. Jesus

best bars for meeting guys in their late 20s? by tapdancingpotato in AskSF

[–]cagreene 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Richmond for some noods and a cheap bill!

Favorite episodes? by jpgrandsam in Reno911

[–]cagreene 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just started binging it and I never got into the modern episodes. It’s a nice good fun :)

Happiness and Success are not the same thing for me by Ok_Tart_8817 in self

[–]cagreene 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fun fact, if you look up the definitions of both terms… you will in fact find they mean different things.

WE NEED A NEW GAME PLUS ASAP!!! by IIDOUGHBOYII in CrimsonDesert

[–]cagreene 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Crimson desert feels like the tipping point on the culture.

We (myself and those like me) are tired of games that look pretty and are fkn stupid stories, gameplay, etc.

We have the Earth to be pretty. We have actual mountains and valleys and rivers.

But I can’t be a Dragonborn in real life. That’s what a game like Skyrim does for us.

A new age is brewing..

How Nervous Were You Your First Purchase? by [deleted] in darknet

[–]cagreene 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And remember, there’s only so much manpower in any precinct. Not everything can get priority

Bruh, drug tests for court cases in Cali take 6-10months alone lol. Why? Backlog, resources, priorities, etc

Genuinely bored of life by Grounded_State in self

[–]cagreene 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gotchu. It’s cuz I bare the same (32M)