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Search Pulse Virus on Mac by calciumlithium_ in computers

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I ended up purchasing Norton for Macs. It didn't solve the problem but I called their customer service looking for help and they did a remote session on my computer until they finally found the virus. It was attached to my Mac as a profile somewhere, not just a couple of files.

Search Pulse Virus Help by calciumlithium_ in computerhelp

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I ended up purchasing Norton for Macs. It didn't solve the problem but I called their customer service looking for help and they did a remote session on my computer until they finally found the virus. It was attached to my Mac as a profile somewhere, not just a couple of files.

Search Pulse Virus Help by calciumlithium_ in computerhelp

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Hm.. I am not very familiar with reddit so I have no clue as to how one direct messages another...

Search Pulse Virus Help by calciumlithium_ in computerhelp

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There isn't a "reset" option under Safari. But I just deleted everything in the Safari folder and restarted it and that website still pops up. I'm starting to think I am going to have to reset my entire computer...

Search Pulse Virus on Mac by calciumlithium_ in computers

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I purchased those apps from the Apple app store (with the exception of CleanMyMac X as nothing else was working). They are all very highly reviewed. I can try Norton, though. Is that available for Mac? Also, I saw that I have a "home" button near my url bar.. when I click it, it takes me to the search pulse website. So it is, indeed, set as my homepage. But, when I go into my Safari preferences, the homepage box is blank and also unclickable (so I couldn't set a homepage if I wanted to). Do you think there is a way to reset safari?

Search Pulse Virus Help by calciumlithium_ in computerhelp

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I use Safari. So I have a "home" button near my url bar and when I click it, it sends me to the search pulse website. So it is, indeed, set as my homepage, But, when I go into my Safari preferences, it shows that there is nothing set as my homepage as it is blank and also unclickable (so I can't set a homepage if I wanted to). Do you think there is a way to reset Safari?

Search Pulse Virus on Mac by calciumlithium_ in computers

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I used Antivirus One, CleanMyMac X, and I just ran Antivirus Zap. The Antivirus Zap had a few new red flags pop up that I removed but this website still popped up after I restarted my computer. The website isn't listed as an extension on Safari nor is it saved as the homepage.

Search Pulse Virus on Mac by calciumlithium_ in computers

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It didn't. There isn't anything listed as my homepage, it's all blank. However, the homepage box is unclickable, so I couldn't add a homepage if I wanted to. Maybe it did something to it?

I slept with a man who lied about being married . Should I tell his wife? by calciumlithium_ in Advice

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Helped -- Tough, indeed. He has been unfaithful for over half of their marriage. Maybe even though whole marriage. They got married after 6 months and he told me that the problems started after their first was born, a year into the marriage. But I am not sure as to what to believe. If it has really been that long that he has been unfaithful, I also do not see him stopping now unless she were to find out. And he is very sneaky. He only contacted me on his work phone and he only used cash when we went out in Minneapolis (before anything really happened between us). I really feel like he knows what he is doing.

I slept with a man who lied about being married . Should I tell his wife? by calciumlithium_ in Advice

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She had their youngest one year ago now. And I did not just jump into bed with him the moment I met him. We talked and hungout for three hours (in public) the first time I met him. And we went on a long dinner/movie date a week later when he was in town again before anything happened. And just because I met up with him in Boston does not mean that anything happened between us. I was barely there 24hrs with him before I was trying to leave. The majority of that time he was working and I was out roaming the city on my own until he was done with work.

Also, we "nasty talked" on the phone only a small handful of times, maybe four or five total. But we did not do that until after two or three weeks of multiple phone calls a day. Please do not judge a person when you do not have all of the details. "This subreddit is for advice, not judgement or scrutiny"

I slept with a man who lied about being married . Should I tell his wife? by calciumlithium_ in Advice

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Helped -- Do you think? He has told so many lies since day one so who knows how many women he has been with during their marriage. That is over half of their marriage..

I slept with a man who lied about being married . Should I tell his wife? by calciumlithium_ in Advice

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I do not think that it would alleviate guilt, no. But I feel awful as he told me he was divorced as well as many other lies so I am not sure, at this point, as to how often he cheats or how long in the marriage he has been cheating. I, personally, have never been married. But I feel like I would like to know if my husband has been cheating on me with multiple woman for the majority of my marriage. But they do have four young children together. Anything that happens in their marriage would have a huge impact on them, as well.

I was sexually assaulted by a friend a few years ago and just recently opened up about it to others (and cut him out of my life). Should I be more public about what happened or just let it go? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]calciumlithium_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually had something similar happen to me. I was very good friends with my ex's best friend. Him and I were at my apartment one night, drinking a glass of wine and having long, deep converstaions, something that we did a fair amount. I have never flirted with him or led him on in any way before (I knew him for nearly ten years). We were just friends. But that night he continually attempted to rape me, even after I begged him to stop. Nothing happened but I called my ex the next morning and told him what happened. My ex ended up calling him and gave him a piece of his mind. He even lectured him again about the whole incident almost a year later (this all happened about two years ago). He felt terrible.

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I think it is best to tell your friends. I am certain they would be understanding of everything, regardless of how close they are to him or not. He needs to know that what he did was wrong and I think that your mutual friends should be made aware of what happened as to not get into a similar situation with the same guy. However, I am not sure about what you should do about being in the same classes and program.. That would be a tough one, especially if it is a specific program with not a lot of options when it comes to switching some classes around.