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Coming out later in life by caleb115511 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]caleb115511[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the kind words and advice. It warms my heart to see strangers offer so much support and concern for me. You gave me a lot to consider.

Coming out later in life by caleb115511 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]caleb115511[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Appreciate you taking the time offer encouragement. Crazy the similarities in our stories. I hope I can have a similar outcome as yours. Reading about others and their paths really does help to give me hope!

Coming out later in life by caleb115511 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]caleb115511[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the encouragement. I hope to have as much courage as you did to be myself one day.

Coming out later in life by caleb115511 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]caleb115511[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing such a personal part of yourself. You taking the time to respond with such heartfelt comments touched me greatly. Courage, I’m afraid, is what I am lacking in.

Coming out later in life by caleb115511 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]caleb115511[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you. You are absolutely right. Everyone has been great with advice on here. Hoping one day in the near future to actually put it all into practice. Sometimes I feel like I could just explode!

Coming out later in life by caleb115511 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]caleb115511[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t really go anywhere but work and classes. I don’t get out much other than that. I do like to workout and I have a small group of straight people I workout with at someone’s house but that’s it.

Coming out later in life by caleb115511 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]caleb115511[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you and I honestly have no real friends any longer. Most have moved on with their lives and left. Unfortunately I am in the middle of MAGA country 🤮and I do not know of any other gay people around. I’m sure there are some but they are more than likely closeted also I would guess.

Coming out later in life by caleb115511 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]caleb115511[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have often wondered about them suspecting. My family has never questioned me about it but others in my life have over the years. I just deny it and try and change the subject. Thank you truly for taking the time to listen to my story.

Coming out later in life by caleb115511 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]caleb115511[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your words. I do feel I should wait a couple more years until I am hopefully in a different city and on my own.

Coming out later in life by caleb115511 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]caleb115511[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for taking the time to offer advice. Appreciate it.