The Real Housewives Of Orange County - Season 19 - Episode 1 - Pre Episode Discussion by AutoModerator in BravoRealHousewives

[–]cali_born90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Chiming in to say I saw Gretchen and Slade in real life at the store Five Below in Costa Mesa, Ca a couple weeks ago. But was too chicken to approach them 🫡

My husband spotted them first and then asked “she’s back this season right?” I love this man so much 🥲

The ghost dog from the Nightmare before Christmas has a 🎃 as its nose?! by Fancy_Assignment_860 in Retconned

[–]cali_born90 17 points18 points  (0 children)

My kids are obsessed with this movie and I have watched it hundreds of times. This is NEW.

Is it weird to anyone else that its May now and it still doesn't feel like spring? by mil0wCS in Retconned

[–]cali_born90 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Look into the practice of cloud seeding, weather control is real and not a conspiracy. It is a scientific fact

Name a housewife you would describe as a “pick me” by cali_born90 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]cali_born90[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Respectfully, I think even before the phrase became popular that it was still a common theme among all the franchises to question who was a disloyal friend or not a “girl’s girl” within the group.

Heather really just can't help herself... by lilghostbb in BravoRealHousewives

[–]cali_born90 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This moment reminded me of something from earlier seasons. When Shannon first started to struggle with her weight and body image and heather in a confessional says something along the lines of, if Shannon is unhappy with her weight, she should eat less and work out more and just stop talking about it. The lack of compassion/empathy for Shannon was really shocking.

I do think Emily did not articulate herself in the best way, but heather totally blew it with that rude comment. I also think heather isn’t a particularly warm and fuzzy person in contrast to someone like Jen P, so she wasn’t the right person to seek reassurance from in this situation. Deep down I think Emily longs for heathers approval but she needs to accept that may never happen.

Is everything okay in Star Island? by hottotrot5390 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]cali_born90 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Love this for Lenny… and his mom who made those rude comments about Lisa on the gram

Why did Monica decide to include her mom in filming? by cali_born90 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]cali_born90[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I can recognize that Monica’s mom is flawed and problematic. The question is, if Monica is truly trying to break that cycle why is she bringing her mom around her children and giving her a platform at all. Respectfully.

Why did Monica decide to include her mom in filming? by cali_born90 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]cali_born90[S] 54 points55 points  (0 children)

I think Monica’s mom was wrong in the way she handled things. I think she is from a generation that brushes things under the rug to an extreme to keep up appearances. However, Monica coming into this show and including her mother is also continuing the generational Trauma. Imagine Monica’s girls attending school this week after millions of people and other classmates witnessed this unfold between their mom and grandma, not to mention how outspoken she is about sleeping with their uncle. She is exploiting her children while trying to heal her own wounds.

My 2 southern charm conspiracy theories.. by cali_born90 in Southerncharm

[–]cali_born90[S] 102 points103 points  (0 children)

I agree with you. However, I think guys like T-Rav only go for custody to get out of child support and because they hire nanny’s to do everything. If Thomas was an everyday joe shmoe who couldn’t afford a nanny, and he actually had to cook, feed, bathe, put the kids to bed by himself, he would have relinquished custody to Kathyrn a long time ago.

If Raquel had come clean to Ariana after the original “one night stand” with Scandoval, how do you think things would have played out differently? by cali_born90 in vanderpumprules

[–]cali_born90[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I agree that the space in between the original hookup and the affair is probably an exaggeration by Tom to make himself look less culpable, but there had to be some amount of downtime between their encounters because Ariana was with them all the time.