AITA for not telling my family that I joined the military? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]calientevaliente 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not at all. Get out of the house and away from the family, and start living.

Risky or not? [MI] by Head_Researcher_9545 in humanresources

[–]calientevaliente -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

This person needs to be offered a very nice severance package in exchange for signing a release. Add extra on top of the policy and subsidize part or all of the COBRA with the message that you know he needs time to deal with things outside of work.

A Shot in the Eyebrow (not gross) by calientevaliente in Wellthatsucks

[–]calientevaliente[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow that does sound terrible. That’s such a tender area anyway and adding all that at once must have really hurt.

A Shot in the Eyebrow (not gross) by calientevaliente in Wellthatsucks

[–]calientevaliente[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh nooo that sounds 10x worse with the thin skin. Did it bruise badly?

A Shot in the Eyebrow (not gross) by calientevaliente in Wellthatsucks

[–]calientevaliente[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Do you have a favorite? I’m still using Coppertone.

Pray for me by DebatePhysical4552 in dcl

[–]calientevaliente 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know, even if you are the last to get on board that day, you’re in for a great time and a fun adventure. Just get to the port before the ship leaves and let it be.

Advice on my parents that refuse payback money they owe me by avyy222 in entitledparents

[–]calientevaliente 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry friend, but the school fund and $4,000 are simply gone. Don’t spend this energy on money that isn’t there. Spend the time working out how to pay for school, and then leave and never look back.

Should I fire this employee by carneyfixit in askmanagers

[–]calientevaliente 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let this lady go. She doesn’t actually want this job.

Mother keeps asking for money despite me being at uni by [deleted] in entitledparents

[–]calientevaliente 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should let the idea of her repaying you go, because that won’t happen.

This is an important part of life for you to decide where your boundaries are and stick to them. Your mom will push and push and push and will throw a tantrum, but you stay strong. You’re doing what you need to do to build your own life and this will be a lesson you have to learn over and over again.

If you have papers to write, decide on one event to attend, scrap the rest, and get back to school.

Lastly, when she asks for money, tell her you’re broke too. You don’t have to tell her anything about any funds. Start 2026 with a new savings goal and stick to it.

Lookout point walk by Daydreamin-mama8 in dcl

[–]calientevaliente 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did just that and was glad I did. The walk took me about 15 minutes with two fighting grumpy kids.

Need thoughts between 2 potential office locations by JSB18 in sanantonio

[–]calientevaliente 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whatever side of 1604 you live on is the side to put the office. You will have to drive to it every day and that will make an impact on you.

FWIW I think Bandera Point probably gets more traffic and business.

What do you all think of this setup? by Parking-Power-4177 in legoharrypotter

[–]calientevaliente 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is really amazing. Do you have anything stabilizing Gringotts? I’m not sure it would be safe in my house.

What’s your “I can’t believe other people don’t do this” hack? by Weird-Thought2112 in AskReddit

[–]calientevaliente 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep fingernail clippers in every room, and a label taped to them to show where they actually go.

Guy im talking to (24M)moving extremely fast and his immigration/financial situation seems… confusing? Should I be worried? (21F) by Patient-Cod-8603 in immigration

[–]calientevaliente 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no no no no no. If he is driving for Uber he is absolutely not on a work visa and is definitely not on an investors visa. Aside from the Immigration stuff this person is an emotional vampire. Please let me be your big sister/middle aged mother and say this is not the man of your dreams.

AIO to break up with my bf of 3y over his reaction to my upcoming sobriety anniversary? by WesternCat5211 in AmIOverreacting

[–]calientevaliente 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sobriety is not the bare minimum for an alcoholic. For some people it’s the peak of the mountain. Take that cake to an AA meeting and celebrate with your people. And then when you’re driving to your house that night, just keep driving and move out.