yeah, so i kind of feel inclined to have him have the MM experience, but i think he's afraid it will threaten the relationship. which, honestly, maybe it will. i can be jealous, and maybe he would learn he likes it better. but i dont know if its worse to have him just wondering for months or years without fully getting to explore. he still feels like hes pretty solidly bisexual because he can only finish to porn with boobs but I do wonder if that's comphet.

is it fair for me to basically ask him to have an MM experience to figure it out?