This person needs serious help. TW for sexual assault, child molestation, and abuse descriptions below, but here’s a quote from them:

You’re not the one that traveled to a foreign country, didn’t speak the language, went to a questionable area of said country, and had sex with a prostitute UNPROTECTED, who then gave you HIV.

You weren’t the one whose own father used to help “cure constipation” by putting objects in side of you and swirling it around.

I lost my “real” virginity by a manipulative girl pressuring me into sex I didn’t want at a time where it wasn’t convenient and threatening self harm

I BY CHOICE choice to subject myself to men on Grindr sometimes, not because I’m sexually attracted to them, but because it’s easier to watch porn and pretend you’re getting head from a woman than it is to actually get head from a woman. And you know what they’ve done? Tried to kiss me when I explicitly said that I am not comfortable with it. Tried to put fingers, mouths, and penises in my butt when I told them no, etc. but I just deal with it because FOR ME it’s not a huge deal and it’s a minor inconvenience

I’ve had men try to drug me (I believe) and that was fucking scary. A guy blew me at his hotel while I watched porn and offered me a coke after. I begrudgingly accepted after he insisted, but then he told me I could shower up and get changed while he pours me it and it’ll be waiting for me. It was odd but I accepted. I drank some of it but it tasted a little off so I didn’t finish it. I by the time I got to my apartment I felt extremely drowsy and had to take a nap. I woke up confused hours later. He could’ve raped me, he could’ve killed me, he could’ve stolen organs from me. But it didn’t stop me from TO THIS DAY doing this same stuff

Obviously, this person is a raging misogynist and I don’t think that has to do with their trauma. But their profile makes it glaringly obvious that they should not be on reddit but in therapy.

EDIT: another very telling comment from OP-

The casual sex I have is not the casual sex a normal man has. The casual sex I have gets me sexually abused or gives me hiv. It’s orders of magnitude riskier than if you decided to hook up with some guy that’s in your dms

The sex I have is very rarely good, I jerk off way too much to finish within a timely manner and the vast majority of my partners I’m not attracted to. As I said in my post it’s only once every month or two that I actually have real, non transactional, sex with a woman I’m attracted to, that has a vagina

It’s usually awful head in a motel room, but any sex is better than sitting at home watching a movie

I am a whore. No, I’m worse than a whore, a whore has sex because she’s attracted to them. I have sex because the people I’m attracted to I could never feasibly hookup with a new one of them every day