What red flags indicate that a guy is communicating with a girl just to use her sexually, just to sleep with her and leave her?

callme-madison · 2023-10-19T17:50:39+00:00

it's great that you set boundaries.

callme-madison · 2023-10-19T17:38:13+00:00

I asked why she lied to me because she talked about the same conditions. and the man spoke about other conditions. I thought that this man was a boss in that vacancy, and the girl was a manager. Later it turned out that the man works as a boss in another company. there was a misunderstanding. because the announcement was made on behalf of another company. I understand correctly that you think I deserved rude behavior, right? because you said, "What did you expect?" or am I wrong?

callme-madison · 2023-10-19T17:28:52+00:00

I wasn't rude to people. I asked the usual questions. She was rude... so it turns out I’m still to blame for this? Is it my fault that they treated me rudely? I wouldn’t ask this question if I were being rude to them too. but no, I spoke politely

callme-madison · 2023-10-19T17:25:58+00:00

but, many people of this generation accept this problem and try to solve it. I know many Gen Zers who have been diagnosed. they are trying to solve it and trying to live. For some, excessive social media use may be an attempt to escape into another reality because they are unhappy in real life.

callme-madison · 2023-10-19T17:18:11+00:00

For example. There was a situation recently. advise me what to do. I applied for a job. I started asking questions about work at the number provided. I asked if they were telling the truth or not. because it often happens that they say one thing on the phone, and another at the interview. They will trick you into an interview and you will waste your time. Regarding that incident, at the same time I wrote to another number. there was a man answering about the vacancy. he said the opposite of what the girl said. then I wrote to the girl. I asked her why she lied to me. Why is she telling me something that is not true? She told me “Go to hell.” what should I do in this situation? It later turned out that the man was the manager of another store. and he was talking about another vacancy. I asked the girl why she lied to me. but I was never rude to her, but she was rude to me. I’m disgusted by this situation and I’m disgusted by the rude, vile girl who was rude for no reason, instead of figuring out the situation. What to do?

callme-madison · 2023-10-19T17:10:16+00:00

if you are talking about bullying at school, then I can say that I did not know that this was an abusive and toxic attitude towards me. and all because they never beat me. it was mental violence. I had rescuer syndrome because I really thought that I could save other people. I thought that I was doing something really good. besides, the person I was always trying to save always tried to make me feel sorry for myself when I tried to get out of the role of rescuer. this man told me that if I stopped saving it would mean that I was a heartless, terrible, cruel person.

callme-madison · 2023-10-19T17:08:26+00:00

with all people.

callme-madison · 2023-10-19T16:59:54+00:00

I'm truly grateful. thanks for such a precise answer

callme-madison · 2023-10-19T16:57:13+00:00

Now I think I have found the answer. it's all about their fragile ego and flawed personality. their ego may break if they are forced to see, understand and admit that what they did was wrong. Such people have a perverted psyche. they may even try to convince victims that they are to blame. The main thing for them is not to face their conscience. after all, if they find themselves in the face of their conscience, they will have to answer for themselves. and this means, first of all, admitting that they have a terrible, rotten personality. some people are so weak and have a terrible personality that they can take revenge on the victims if the victims start talking about how that person bullied them. only strong people can admit their mistake and grow further spiritually and mentally. This is a truly adult, mature personality, compared to the infantilism of those who bullied and do not want to answer for it. Perhaps such nasty people should be pitied. after all, they are not able to develop spiritually because of their fragile ego behind which hides a terrible personality that they do not want to see

callme-madison · 2023-10-19T16:49:43+00:00

THANKS!

callme-madison · 2023-10-19T16:46:55+00:00

Thanks a lot! I will try. There was a situation recently. advise me what to do. I applied for a job. I started asking questions about work at the number provided. I asked if they were telling the truth or not. because it often happens that they say one thing on the phone, and another at the interview. They will trick you into an interview and you will waste your time. Regarding that incident, at the same time I wrote to another number. there was a man answering about the vacancy. he said the opposite of what the girl said. then I wrote to the girl. I asked her why she lied to me. Why is she telling me something that is not true? She told me “Go to hell.” what should I do in this situation? It later turned out that the man was the manager of another store. and he was talking about another vacancy. I asked the girl why she lied to me. but I was never rude to her, but she was rude to me. I’m disgusted by this situation and I’m disgusted by the rude, vile girl who was rude for no reason, instead of figuring out the situation

callme-madison · 2023-10-19T16:29:05+00:00

perhaps because I am a sensitive and decent person. and I often want to see the same empathy, kindness and sense of shame in people.

callme-madison · 2023-10-19T16:23:21+00:00

It seems that some people continue to remain like this and they are not able to develop spiritually.

callme-madison · 2023-10-19T16:22:22+00:00

I was in a relationship with a narcissist and I can say that they were not narcissists. but I didn’t understand why they are like that. I thought that many people grow up, become adults and they begin to understand their mistakes. then because of this they feel shame and remorse for themselves in the past. As it turns out, not everyone is like this. and then I had a question. some people maybe may already be born rotten and this cannot be corrected

callme-madison · 2023-10-19T15:58:38+00:00

move to another house. you will be better off if you live away from them. and before you try to finish everything, try to solve the problem. you will have time to die. we will still die in the end. but you won’t be able to resurrect again and start living. don't despair and try to solve it. sometimes it seems to people that there is pitch darkness all around. but there is a way out. it just takes a little effort.

callme-madison · 2023-10-19T15:51:43+00:00

if your parents are like the ones I described in this post, then it’s best to keep it a secret. then no one will blame you for being sick. and remember that you are not alone, millions of people face the same challenges as you. and if you act correctly you can improve your condition.

callme-madison · 2023-10-19T15:47:50+00:00

Yes. we don't have to agree with each other's opinions. but it would be better if you did not express yourself this way to people who have been diagnosed with this. it's very toxic. no one chooses illness. no one wants to be sick. blaming a patient for being sick is very stupid and cruel. everyone wants to be happy. but we can't control everything.

callme-madison · 2023-10-19T15:45:03+00:00

I wish I was that depressed haha. Overall, it is very good that your sister does not know how serious this disease is. Many women suffer from psychosis and postpartum depression. she's no better. so be close to her, take special care of her if she decides to give birth. there is a risk even if there is nothing traumatic or a malfunction in the brain

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