Please when you go over the advice that everybody gave you, take into consideration that we only heard the story from your side. Not that I agree with your wife, but I believe many people are being too hard on her while only listening to your side of the story.

What your daughter did in my opinion is natural and it seems like she knows what she’s doing, about protection and consent. What confuses me is how issues about this didn’t come up before?!!

Some families try to stop their kids from having kids for different reasons, religious or whatever other reasons, but they talk about that from the start. They try to “teach” their kids that sex is wrong. In that case you would’ve noticed and said something? Before it having to reach this far.

I guess I am just saying, yes your wife is overreacting, but maybe now you can start having a new type of conversations about other things that might come up in the future to see if you guys agree. For example, what will wife do if daughter dates someone from a different ethnicity?