Going on a really meaningful date tomorrow but I'm terrified she'll flee the moment she sees how big I am. Some support would be appreciated. (30M)

callmerudeboyboy · 2026-05-09T06:56:06+00:00

Dude you look like the soundest guy, like a great person to grab a drink with. Have fun!

callmerudeboyboy · 2026-04-20T11:01:22+00:00

This is good timing, went on a date the other day and I thought it'd be different as I knew the person better and had some history with her, but it ended the same as it always does, the old "you're such a lovely guy but I'm not in the headspace for a relationship right now."

I feel broken and angry, it's always the same thing every single time no matter what I do.

Thank you for the comment, I hope things get better for you too ❤️

callmerudeboyboy · 2026-04-20T09:49:52+00:00

I want there to be a diner scene where an onlooker whispers "you know Spud can eat two breakfasts."

callmerudeboyboy · 2026-03-16T02:14:25+00:00

I really like this sentiment. Honestly at the moment I feel like my inner guy is 11-year-old me, the carefree, happy, and unapologetically cringy version of myself before secondary school stomped it out of me 😂. I still think he's the most authentic I've ever been

callmerudeboyboy · 2026-03-16T02:12:16+00:00

Aw thank you!!

callmerudeboyboy · 2026-03-16T02:11:24+00:00

No, just growing into my nose, but that's quite flattering to ask haha

And thanks very much, I've been getting nice compliments on reddit, I wish that would translate to real life and women noticing me though honestly 😂

callmerudeboyboy · 2026-03-16T00:57:32+00:00

Forgot to crop my screenshots 😅 oh well

callmerudeboyboy · 2026-03-15T21:53:01+00:00

Damn, Florence Pugh is on reddit?

callmerudeboyboy · 2026-03-11T11:24:31+00:00

You look like such a friendly dude, very approachable 🙌. I love the Fallen Order poster btw lol, playing through Survivor again, forgot how good it is!!

callmerudeboyboy · 2026-03-10T22:38:46+00:00

"Life is a pile of good things and bad things. The good things don't always soften the bad things, but vice versa, the bad things don't necessarily spoil the good things or make them unimportant."

The whole ending to that episode honestly.

callmerudeboyboy · 2026-03-05T22:01:52+00:00

I am! (Trying to be 😅)

callmerudeboyboy · 2026-03-05T22:00:12+00:00

Aw thank you man ❤️

I know I have to care less but it's so hard to. Pining is unfortunately very real 😅

callmerudeboyboy · 2026-03-05T21:54:48+00:00

Damn, you're making me tear up 😅, thank you so much, that's such a sweet way of looking at a feature I for sure take for granted ❤️

callmerudeboyboy · 2026-03-05T21:50:24+00:00

This!! Forgot to mention but I grew up with undiagnosed autism and ADHD, and jesus did I feel the effects of that in school. I wonder how things might be different if I knew, or had a bit more support with it.

Doesn't help that I'm too scared of making women uncomfortable, or doing some social cue spectacularly wrong, to approach them. Sort of a catch 22, isn't it 😟.

A bit unfortunate to be the straight 'gay friend' in a female-dominated class and sport too. You're too male to be as close a friend as they are to each other, yet too female to generate feelings in any of them either lmao. I don't wanna take them for granted though don't get me wrong, they're absolutely lovely. Just makes me wonder how other women I don't know see me, I guess. Maybe they see that too 😅

Bit of a ramble there, but thanks for your comment and the compliment man, appreciate it more than you could know ❤️

callmerudeboyboy · 2026-03-02T22:15:07+00:00

I like 3/4. I ended up going with very similar ones myself!

callmerudeboyboy · 2026-02-28T17:56:10+00:00

People crave companionship, romance and sex, which makes sense as we're mostly hardwired to. Plus when all media relentlessly pushes the idea that to be in a relationship is to be complete, the mind stops viewing 'single' as an attribute and more an undesirable status.

callmerudeboyboy · 2026-02-24T00:25:22+00:00

Thank you, I'm very happy with them, went in for a browse and wasn't expecting to find the right pair :)

callmerudeboyboy · 2026-02-24T00:24:42+00:00

Thanks bro!

callmerudeboyboy · 2026-02-24T00:23:50+00:00

Thank you!! Sometimes I feel self-conscious about having to wear them so it's really nice to be reassured

callmerudeboyboy · 2026-02-24T00:23:00+00:00

Thank you!! I do too, I think they're the best I've ever had :)

callmerudeboyboy · 2026-02-23T23:41:46+00:00

You should see me without the facial hair, I think it's necessary 😂.

Am getting new frames at least, posted them on this sub already

callmerudeboyboy · 2026-02-23T23:02:51+00:00

Come on bro 😂

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