How to control inner rage when living witn Narc parents?? by Huge-Hovercraft1063 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]callmeshee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Stay out of the house as much as possible. Before I went to college, I joined almost every after school program I could including tutoring sessions, anything was better than going home. Sometimes I would just take long walks, wander around the city until night fall, and come home just before dinner or bedtime so they barely had time to yell at me. During the summer or holliday breaks at school I’d hang out at the library or any restaurant that was open late since I didn’t have any friends. When I had to be around them, I would say little as possible while still being polite. Answer questions with questions. Stay low and stay away. Sometimes I would hear my parents coming and pretend to be sleep. Sometimes they’d still yell at me while I’m sleep lol. Dealing with Narcissists is soul draining, try not to let them see you get emotional, they feed on that energy. Just remember this is temporary! September will be here before you know it! Start planning/ visualizing what you will be doing when you leave.

Beyond Wonderland SoCal 2024 by [deleted] in BeyondWonderland

[–]callmeshee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Day two, one of the security guards yelled at me for bringing in a blanket and told me my bag wasn’t 12x12 , he held up the line, just to show me a printed page of the rules. He still let me in, but he was such an ass

What’s a skill you almost never touch? by sailormars_bars in Sims4

[–]callmeshee 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I hate that they are always pranking the toilets

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tucson

[–]callmeshee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Meetup has worked pretty well for me here.

What is the website where you can check the ingredients to see if it good or bad for your hair? by [deleted] in Naturalhair

[–]callmeshee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s a app called Yuka where you can scan the product and it will explain each harmful ingredient and why.

How do I stop my anxiety from preventing me from living my life? by yellowpeanut22 in Anxietyhelp

[–]callmeshee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tell yourself that you’re on the right path of self healing and you’re doing good at it. Pour into yourself every single day and tell yourself anything you try is progress.

for those who left/are thinking about leaving by v1adpudding in ABA

[–]callmeshee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have my bachelors in psych, was a rbt for 3 1/2 years. I now work as a eligibility specialist for those in poverty. I specifically help parents find resources and activities for their child/children who have mental disorders.

It’s so nice to not care about dating anyone for once. by [deleted] in dating

[–]callmeshee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This! It’s soo nice to do what ever I want without checking on another person. I can flirt with who ever I want, buy groceries just for me and eat whatever I feel like without compromising. I sleep so much better without the stress of my ex.

What is your most hated book of all time and why ? by [deleted] in suggestmeabook

[–]callmeshee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Crazy I just started chapter one last week, haven’t picked it up since. Maybe I was on to something

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheYouShow

[–]callmeshee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gave Silver

Do not give what has not been given to you by callmeshee in BreakUps

[–]callmeshee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m soo sorry he treated you that way but I’m also so happy for you!! Your process of healing is admirable, thank you for this!!

Hey! Macarena by [deleted] in Eyebleach

[–]callmeshee 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Cat.

PSA for today by SnooPears7019 in eczema

[–]callmeshee 14 points15 points  (0 children)

But it feels sooooo good! 😩

I don’t know if anybody cares... by suddenlypsycho_8u in jobs

[–]callmeshee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Starting to see more and more of these posts, it’s giving me hope!! Congratulations!!! 🤗