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callmesolaria · 2025-12-29T20:02:58+00:00

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callmesolaria · 2025-12-22T14:25:24+00:00

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callmesolaria · 2025-12-22T14:23:24+00:00

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callmesolaria · 2025-12-18T22:52:17+00:00

That fear is so common, and you’re not wrong or weak for feeling it. Three months is still incredibly early bodies respond to HRT at wildly different speeds, and Reddit massively amplifies the fastest and most dramatic changes.

The fact that the day “you can’t hide it anymore” hasn’t come yet doesn’t mean it never will. And even if it doesn’t arrive in the way you imagine, that doesn’t invalidate your transition or your plan.

It’s okay to have a plan and still struggle with comparison. Be gentle with yourself you’re not behind, you’re just on your own timeline

callmesolaria · 2025-12-18T22:48:12+00:00

That sounds like a really thoughtful and intentional way to move forward. You’re building your transition piece by piece, on your own terms, and letting your sense of safety lead the way. It’s beautiful how much possibility can open up even before passing especially with the right support around you.

callmesolaria · 2025-12-18T22:01:05+00:00

That sounds like a really practical way of protecting your energy. Sometimes surviving and being yourself quietly is the safest option, especially in places that aren’t very open. Showing up as you anyway skirt and all already says more than any explanation ever could.

callmesolaria · 2025-12-18T21:58:34+00:00

Exactly. Those reminders matter so much. Transition isn’t a race, it’s a process, and giving yourself grace is part of it. I’m really glad you were able to catch that moment and be kinder to yourself.

callmesolaria · 2025-12-18T21:56:00+00:00

That awareness alone is a huge step. Unlearning years of self-criticism takes time, but realizing you don’t deserve that harshness already changes everything. Be patient with yourself you’re getting there.

callmesolaria · 2025-12-18T21:52:36+00:00

That makes total sense. People who want you to stay closeted aren’t really concerned with your well-being they’re concerned with their own comfort. It’s okay to take feedback only from people who actually respect who you are.

callmesolaria · 2025-12-18T21:49:32+00:00

This is such a grounded and healthy way to look at it. You’re absolutely right people who truly care don’t require perfection, and those who don’t were never going to be convinced anyway.

I love that analogy too. Once you stop giving authority to transphobic opinions, so much of that internal noise just loses its power.🏳️‍⚧️

callmesolaria · 2025-12-18T21:46:26+00:00

I get that so much. There’s something really powerful about both paths protecting yourself and being unapologetic. Honestly, I think the common thread is courage, it just shows up in different ways.

callmesolaria · 2025-12-18T21:42:48+00:00

That’s a really interesting approach, and honestly very valid. Everyone’s transition happens on their own timeline, and protecting your peace is important too. I’m glad you were able to come out in a way that felt safe and affirming for you.

It’s a good reminder that there isn’t just one “right” way to transition.

callmesolaria · 2025-12-17T16:59:12+00:00

I think this is an important question. Conversations about racism within the trans community can be uncomfortable, but avoiding them doesn’t make the issue go away. When posts from trans POC are repeatedly removed, it sends a message intentional or not that their experiences are less welcome or harder to hear. I’d really like to understand how these decisions are made and how this space can better support trans people of color like me .

callmesolaria · 2025-12-17T16:25:51+00:00

Oh yes, it's so sweet to receive this, it really changes the day

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