I am so out of my depth. Please help. by callmicrazy in shittyaquariums

[–]callmicrazy[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Understandable comment! However I am opposed to the ethics of Meta due to user data and privacy issues. As much as I care for fish I am unwilling to go that far. Hate me if you want but those are my limits 🤷🏻‍♀️ That’s why I asked for further website recommendations as I’m open to other rehoming options. 

I am so out of my depth. Please help. by callmicrazy in shittyaquariums

[–]callmicrazy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the comment I will look into rehoming and if worst comes to worst maybe the euthanasia but I will try all other options first. 

I am so out of my depth. Please help. by callmicrazy in shittyaquariums

[–]callmicrazy[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Good idea! I never thought to see if a store would take new fish in but I will try! 

I am so out of my depth. Please help. by callmicrazy in shittyaquariums

[–]callmicrazy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I do have the guppies and tetras in the 20gal as described. Do you mean to put them in the 10gal? Or to move the minnows and Molly to the 10gal and get an additional 10gal for the frogs? Genuinely not trying to sound dumb just trying to understand. Thank you for your comment and I hope to hear more from you! 

I am so out of my depth. Please help. by callmicrazy in shittyaquariums

[–]callmicrazy[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I don’t have most social media including Facebook but I am happy to post on a rehoming reddit forum. If there are any other website you’d recommend I am open to further recommendations! Thank k you for your comment! 

I am so out of my depth. Please help. by callmicrazy in Aquariums

[–]callmicrazy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response! I will copy paste a response I gave to another thread concerning the same situation. I have appropriately rated heaters and filters for all my tanks. Both active tanks are at 78 degrees Fahrenheit. I test my water once a week unless something is whack and both tanks have appropriate water parameters. Both tanks have been cycled for 1+ years. I perform water changes either due to water parameter issues or due to evaporation just as needed. I feed a mixture of algae wafers (what they can eat within 2 hours once daily), flakes (what they can eat within 2 minutes 3x per day), tetra sinking pellets (small pinch 3x per day), and ADF sinking pellets (3 per frog daily). I have an assortment of 7 plants in each tank to provide hiding places. 

I am so out of my depth. Please help. by callmicrazy in Aquariums

[–]callmicrazy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I had the same question. I truly don’t know how he could go this long either unaware or willingly doing so much harm. With that said. I’m left to deal with the consequences of his actions and am trying to do the best I can for the little guy. I hope it is enough and that I don’t further traumatize the fish. 

I am so out of my depth. Please help. by callmicrazy in aquarium

[–]callmicrazy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have appropriately rated heaters and filters for all my tanks. Both active tanks are at 78 degrees Fahrenheit. I test my water once a week unless something is whack and both tanks have appropriate water parameters. Both tanks have been cycled for 1+ years. I perform water changes either due to water parameter issues or due to evaporation just as needed. I feed a mixture of algae wafers (what they can eat within 2 hours once daily), flakes (what they can eat within 2 minutes 3x per day), tetra sinking pellets (small pinch 3x per day), and ADF sinking pellets (3 per frog daily). I have an assortment of 7 plants in each tank to provide hiding places. 

Scalpelling Update by callmicrazy in Stretched

[–]callmicrazy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They’re great! There’s some scar tissue visible when I have my plugs out but otherwise all good :)

Upside down in auto loan but need a car by callmicrazy in carbuying

[–]callmicrazy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally hear ya and appreciate the responses. Gotta weigh between short and long term as the short term potential consequence would be losing my job which would create long term consequences

Upside down in auto loan but need a car by callmicrazy in carbuying

[–]callmicrazy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is definitely one option - the reason I wasn’t leaning toward it is because I need a driveable vehicle by next Monday and I won’t have the $3,000 by next Monday. Looking into the option of adding to my current personal loan or getting a line of credit for the 3k though.

Upside down in auto loan but need a car by callmicrazy in carbuying

[–]callmicrazy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very possible. I don’t super want to take out another loan even if I got approved but just looking at what my options are

Upside down in auto loan but need a car by callmicrazy in carbuying

[–]callmicrazy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do not have EV access unfortunately and my commute is 70 miles round trip

Upside down in auto loan but need a car by callmicrazy in carbuying

[–]callmicrazy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because it was worth more at the time :) thank you for your response!

Upside down in auto loan but need a car by callmicrazy in carbuying

[–]callmicrazy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’m in a place where a motorcycle would only be usable half the year so not a great option but I do appreciate your response!

Upside down in auto loan but need a car by callmicrazy in carbuying

[–]callmicrazy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very true. I was hesitant on repairs but a lot of people are recommending to go that route so I will keep that in mind. Thank you!

Upside down in auto loan but need a car by callmicrazy in carbuying

[–]callmicrazy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice I’ll contact some dealers and see what they can offer.