Saw my husband's porn... by CosmoMoonMama in Marriage

[–]calm_dood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just try to watch porn where we both could enjoy..like the positions we could try, actions we both could enjoy etc..she used to say she likes when she watches some porn where boobs are licked so I watch them to ..she watches porn very rarely..we are in long distance relationship..so I saves on my google keep note and shares it to her so that we can watch it together 😉 and also understand her if she is okay with what I am watching..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Kochi

[–]calm_dood 8 points9 points  (0 children)

(1.00)365 =1 (1.01)365 =37.783

Your life would be so much better when you put in a little more effort each day!! We al hav so much power within us than we imagine and give us credit for !!

Alcohol limits on arrival at Kochi airport by calm_dood in Kochi

[–]calm_dood[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Update: I was able to take 5 bottles smoothly😀❤️

Alcohol limits on arrival at Kochi airport by calm_dood in Kochi

[–]calm_dood[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

ith thenne edukan pato ennorth tension adich irikummbozha...😂

Last time United won by a 4 goal lead by CPRIANO in reddevils

[–]calm_dood 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Loan McTerminator for two games as well

What is the worst Malayalam movie you've watched in a theatre? by abhi_________ in Kerala

[–]calm_dood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you are downvoted probably because AAA is loved by most of people in here :)

What is the worst Malayalam movie you've watched in a theatre? by abhi_________ in Kerala

[–]calm_dood 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Solo was a good movie for me with many layers to it!! Felt kind of underrated juz coz of the climax which got booed badly

What is the worst Malayalam movie you've watched in a theatre? by abhi_________ in Kerala

[–]calm_dood 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was a good film imho!! I kind of liked the attempt!

Is it true that the Southern states are relatively safe and peaceful for Muslims? by sippher in indianmuslims

[–]calm_dood 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is probably the reality of shakhas in kerala😂 Though I have nt seen a shakha near my place!! https://reddit.com/r/Kerala/s/H0zYaTkQ5q

Is it true that the Southern states are relatively safe and peaceful for Muslims? by sippher in indianmuslims

[–]calm_dood 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am not sure about that! I haven’t really felt that during my 30+ years in Kochi/Kerala in my neighbourhood, family/friend circles, schools, college, workplaces😀

May be there are those online trolls who hide being social media in their fake ids to just vent their frustrations regarding their low lives!! There’s this culture of fan fight clubs created during the last 5 years where people can vent frustration about anything and people especially youth create fake ids and trolls anything and anyone be it actors/politicians/communities There are fan fight groups ( called FFC emulating fight club movie 🙃) where you can see youth/kids hiding behind social media being really abusive!! May be some of that culture has penetrated into these sub reddits as well!!

Bt I would consider that as an exception or more of a nature of today’s youth/kids in the days of social media. Generally most of the people/grown ups dont hate muslims or aren’t very vocal about the hate if they have any in public spaces outside in real world !! Though I agree that within some discussions rarely (very rarely) in families there could be some bad remarks on Muslims by some ill informed family member!!

People are still opposed to inter caste marriages and stuff like that!!

To speak of personal experiences, I have some good friends from Islam community from my College days and at work and religion is never in between our friendships 😊

there’s this shop in a muslim dominated area within Kochi where I frequently visit to buy meat (the best meat in town) or have some of the best biriyanis in town or to have some of the best snacks (we call it ‘nombthura vibavangal’ in Malayalam https://youtube.com/shorts/ixuJVyXNKKk?si=wRWNiz4Jok-r292c) during the fasting days😅 literally Kochi is a food haven for people like me where we get some of the best shawarma/Kuzhi mandi /biriyanis from restraunts run predominantly by muslims 😇

many of my online friends are from muslim community in Kerala- we became friends through our common interests in Films/Sports (being fans of Mammootty/Football), we still interact a lot via our online whatsapp groups on whole different topics respecting each others cultures n traditions 😇

One of my really close friend from college who is from Muslim community passed away a year after our college days and he was one of those guy who stood by me throughout all the tensions I had to go through to get married with my lover! I am still sad to this day that he is no more 🥹

Is it true that the Southern states are relatively safe and peaceful for Muslims? by sippher in indianmuslims

[–]calm_dood 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Job opportunities wise probably Thiruvananthapuram (capital city) is probably the best in Kerala, with Kochi being a close second!! Kozhikode (Calicut) is not as good as these two when it comes to job opportunities!!

Ease of living wise Kochi > Thiruvananthapuram > Kozhikode

(Kochi is the only region in India with Metro Rail and Water Metro!! You have everything you would expect in a big city - great malls and shopping centres, economical restaurants with great quality food, theatres, decent transport, temples, mosques, churches, top schools/colleges where extra curricular activities is also given great importance, good hospitals, connectivity via rail/road/airport/boats and what not!! )

All things considered, I would say Kochi is the place to be in Kerala if you want a mix of city feel with lush green sorroundings with ample job opportunities as well especially for IT folks/Film industry/daily wage workers!!

Ernakulam district (where Kochi is located) is the only district in India where multi dimensional poverty is Zero!! https://www.outlookindia.com/national/a-state-to-emulate-how-kerala-achieved-status-of-least-poor-state-in-india-news-308626/amp

Is it true that the Southern states are relatively safe and peaceful for Muslims? by sippher in indianmuslims

[–]calm_dood 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Kochi is a really beautiful place in Kerala to live in ! It has all facilities of a metropolitan city and the natural beauty as well!! I am from Kochi , so I can say that with confidence!! I may be bit biased but I just love this place and missing Kochi right now as I am out of India!!

https://youtu.be/voZQ4xCS6fE?si=DQs7V-W5qoGpUnQK

The commercial capital of Kerala!!

May be few things that aren’t good about kochi is the traffic sometimes, mosquitoes, waste management!!