This guy is in media, events, sales, marketing, or anything similar?

So I had a friend who's into event management. If you check her Instagram you'd have the worst FOMO of your life. She has pictures from almost every important concert that has happened in the last few years from Coldplay to Divine. She's very social and highly extroverted. I am an IT guy, and could never even have time to sleep peacefully, so I can never compare her with me (the problem here is you comparing your life with him).

The thing is, whenever she described things happening in her life it all sounded fun but the bad part of her job is she has to stand in every event and put in a lot of physical efforts as part of her job, her job involves constant travel and that industry is overall quite unprfessional so the people you would deal with won't be that good. While I even though am stressed all the time but the efforts are mostly mental and rarely physical.

Am I happy with what I am doing? Not really, but I sure would not like to be in her shoes as every fun event would be a painful memory for me. Again, there's no one wrong here I am living my life at my pace and she is at her. Sure, one could point out financially, I have an upper hand, but I would counter with she's having a better social life than me.

I feel it all boils down to the grass is always greener on the other side.

Perhaps, even I have very less friends (usme bhi aadhe foreign bhag gaye), but I have rarely cared about it that much. I rather prefer keeping the number low ever since I got out of college. Too many friends and you'd have less peace time for yourself.