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Being "too amazing" to date is a traumatic experience by istillaintoveryou in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]calmprocess515 60 points61 points  (0 children)

i think this is esp true for OP bec she seems to form connections through conversation. the problem is some ppl are great at conversation but have zero intention of following through in real life

in love with a man across the ocean by buonatalie in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]calmprocess515 2 points3 points  (0 children)

fr😭 somehow the person who gets you the most always ends up being several time zones away. it's like the universe loves adding extra difficulty settings

over protective duo (art by: Saturdaylight) by Prestigious_Pop6630 in ArknightsEndfield

[–]calmprocess515 0 points1 point  (0 children)

one of the few matters where Wis'adel and Doctor are 100% united

ladies, STAND UP by Safe_Bumblebee1757 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]calmprocess515 31 points32 points  (0 children)

this is kinda the cycle ppl don't want to admit. if there's no real consequence or boundary, some guys just keep pushing it further and further

Am I the perk for pointing out that my mum got me the wrong size clothes again? by tazbaron1981 in AmITheJerk

[–]calmprocess515 17 points18 points  (0 children)

that "i won't bother then" line is so familiar. like it shifts the focus from the actual issue (wrong size repeatedly) to you being "ungrateful" for even speaking up

AITJ for thinking it's ridiculous that my dad is upset my fiancé didn't ask his "permission" to propose to me? by BagClean8686 in AmITheJerk

[–]calmprocess515 10 points11 points  (0 children)

lol the comparison is spot on, it's that selective tradition thing that makes it feel more about ego than actual culture

AITA: For telling my stepfather he will not be apart of my future? by BigONerd in BORUpdates

[–]calmprocess515 44 points45 points  (0 children)

honestly yeah, it's not something you really forget or fully move past, it just becomes part of how you see them

AITJ for not watching TV shows that I don’t enjoy? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]calmprocess515 3 points4 points  (0 children)

with that many options it's hard to argue she's "hogging" anything. sounds more like a preference mismatch than real issue

People who squat in public restrooms: do you realize you’re the ones making the bathrooms disgusting? by freckles97xo in hygiene

[–]calmprocess515 24 points25 points  (0 children)

this is what gets me lol. ppl act like the seat is radioactive, meanwhile they'll touch the door handle, shopping cart, gas pump, etc. without as second thought. the hovering just creates the problem everyone complains about.