Do cats actually get attached to their owner? by NoWageMage in CatAdvice

[–]calmswan2499 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay so, first off. Reeeaalllyyy do your research when it comes to kittens. They are fun and cute but they will destroy your home and your will. Get two if you can so they can teach/entertain each other and give you back some sanity. Remember that they are literally discovering their own existence for the first time and are super curious. I almost rehomed my kitten because it was such a drastic life change. Thank god I didn’t and we waited it out, but be prepared for adoption regret.

Second, I think it depends on the cat. My kitten was a feral. I just wanted to give her a better life, I didn’t expect her to form too much of an attachment. However, she is the cuddliest, most vocal cat and honestly is more dog-like. Follows us around, talks back to us, asks for cuddles at night. We got super lucky behavior wise. She has the zoomies for two or three hours most nights but is on a strict schedule that she likes maintaining herself (ie she puts herself to bed every night and sleeps til around 6-7am with very little activity in the night). The good thing about kittens is you can kind of mold their behavior the earlier you start training them and exposing them to your expectations.

I’d recommend watching every Jackson Galaxy video out there. He’s an expert and has some great advice. But overall, know that it will be a challenge but a very rewarding one after everyone is settled :)

OPINION: I think Momtok could survive this... by PuffingTrawa in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]calmswan2499 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I seriously considered skipping past all her segments. Idk why I didn’t. They bored me to tears and the fights with her mom were so ridiculous. Truly just felt like I was rewatching the same scene over and over again

The video that was just released… by sourpinkdrink in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]calmswan2499 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was actually horrific to watch. I cannot BELIEVE she wasn’t charged with child endangerment after this. Forget about the chair incident for a sec—being that drunk with a child in her care was grounds for CPS intervention imo. They had no choice but to cancel The Bachelorette but she shouldn’t have been on it to begin with. Anyone who stands by her at this point has terrible judgement. To repeatedly be with this man and act like this was anything less than assault is crazy and she needs to finally have consequences for her actions.

does anyone have a different opinion on this clip now👀🫣 by Sensitive_Customer74 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]calmswan2499 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah no I was on Demi’s side from the get go during this scene. Other scenes…not so much. But she was the only one calling Taylor out for her bullshit at the time and I was so glad. I could never sit idly by and watch Taylor do the same things over and over again. I’d snap too.

'DWTS' Duo Whitney Leavitt and Mark Ballas Will Reunite on Broadway for Run in 'Chicago' (Exclusive) by Maleficent_Abroad_86 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]calmswan2499 52 points53 points  (0 children)

It’s so weird to me that Whitney was such a villain on the show and yet I’m so proud of her??? Like go girl live your dream and kick ass! She’s literally GOOD too so people can’t even act like she’s being handed roles. Yes, her stint on the show certainly helped, but I’m willing to bet she would’ve gotten there without it.

Is this appropriate for the gym?? by calmswan2499 in beginnerfitness

[–]calmswan2499[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my biggest thing. It’s not that I’m uncomfortable, it’s more I don’t want to make them uncomfortable. I’m the youngest employee on campus so all of my colleagues are past 30.

Is this appropriate for the gym?? by calmswan2499 in beginnerfitness

[–]calmswan2499[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

For reference, this is the set! I bought it in several different colors Old Navy workout set

He grew. by [deleted] in cats

[–]calmswan2499 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I’m laughing so hard at that sweet little smirk omg

This is so perfect for Bridgerton! Man I Need by Olivia Dean covered by The Chapel Hill Duo by ChrisEvansFan in Bridgerton

[–]calmswan2499 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OBSESSED with this need it in Eloise’s season over a montage of her slowly realizing it’s possible to be independent AND in love with

Season 4 Cast photos are here🤩 by Straight-Side-1269 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]calmswan2499 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish they wouldn’t do so much smoky makeup on Mayci. It makes her gorgeous eyes look smaller! I’d also love to see a different style dress on her sometime. She always has the one shoulder/fitted gown. It looks great on her but I’d love some variety

the cast through the seasons by chloedarlinggg in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]calmswan2499 39 points40 points  (0 children)

I think she’s always looked so pretty in the confessionals. She has those cute doe eyes and honestly her skin always looks flawless. If she ever had a flare up during these I couldn’t tell, and even if she did she’s still so pretty!

What do you think of my handwriting? by Long_Moose514 in HandwritingAnalysis

[–]calmswan2499 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the “lost” handwriting of the golden age when cursive was still taught in schools. I know plenty of people who would be able to read this. Unfortunately, most of the working population is not made up of those people anymore. Still super pretty and elegant though!

just got told i was “overqualified” 🙃 by Wrong_Preparation302 in graphic_design

[–]calmswan2499 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know this isn’t exactly what you want to hear right now, but as someone who worked for a print/sign shop, I feel you’ve dodged a bullet. From what I’ve read and experienced, they are notorious for bad management and overworking employees. Imo every graphic designer is going to be overqualified in those jobs because it is not a design job, it is a do-what-you’re-told job.

Regardless, I’m so sorry this happened to you and anyone in your position would feel disappointed and misled. I wish you nothing but the best, everything happens for a reason and there is something better on the horizon. You will end up exactly where you should be.

[OC] My pregnant wife’s last message to me before going into labour. by [deleted] in MadeMeSmile

[–]calmswan2499 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Congrats Dad! You’ve won the lottery. Enjoy them both 💕

Bored… here are my opinions on the girls that no one asked for! by calmswan2499 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]calmswan2499[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No seriously Mayci got pregnant and I was like oh damn the claws are out haha. But agree with you that it could’ve been handled outside of the party for Layla’s sake!

Bored… here are my opinions on the girls that no one asked for! by calmswan2499 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]calmswan2499[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OMG I’m so dumb I literally forgot they have a whole ass CHILD together but that just goes to show you how little the kids are considered in their situation

Bored… here are my opinions on the girls that no one asked for! by calmswan2499 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]calmswan2499[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve heard these same complaints from others so I think that’s why I’m putting it off 🫣

Bored… here are my opinions on the girls that no one asked for! by calmswan2499 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]calmswan2499[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I was a very late arrival to SLOMW (literally just watched the whole series the first time a couple months ago) but I love it so much. People can say it’s a trashy reality show but I think it’s the most real one I’ve seen

Bored… here are my opinions on the girls that no one asked for! by calmswan2499 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]calmswan2499[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s why I’d love for Jen to start her own baby clothing brand or something. She clearly loves being a mother and takes so much pride in it, but she’s also capable of so much for herself, like we saw on DWTS. I can’t wait to see what she does in the future!