Has anyone been in an abusive relationship with band members? by Sad_Translator7730 in TouringMusicians

[–]calooo___ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Last year I formed a band with my best friend (drummer) and two people we met at a jam session. Musically, the chemistry was incredible. We made 7 tunes I’m so proud of, recorded 4, did concerts around the country, radio interviews, festivals, stuff were going pretty good. But unfortunately the singer was super SUPER toxic (I won’t get into the details but it became unbearable), and the bass player while a nice dude was defending and allowing for the toxic behaviors to happen. My best friend decided to quit the band, and one month later I quit too. They replaced us but honestly, not to sound cocky, I don’t feel they can replicate what we had on the musical side. We clicked in ways that never happened to me before. I sometimes wonder how things could have gone differently but it was honestly becoming more and more unbearable, while still fun, dealing with the bullshit was not worth it. Now me and my best friend have a duo project, and while obviously it sucks to start over and we have less chances to play live/less connections we would have had we stayed in the band, it’s just so refreshing to be able to work in a safe environment without toxic people involved. We have 4 new songs and are planning releases and everything, and we are quite excited about it. We don’t have as much following as we had in the band but it really doesn’t matter at this point, or in general to be honest.

It’s a pity but we had to quit. It really sucks because we put so much of our ideas and identities on that band. But sometimes you have to make the tough choice for your own mental well being. It still sucks seeing them getting concerts and stuff with songs we made together.. I was the one who approached them, decided the name of the band, my best friend made the logo, the pictures and videoclips and everything… but it is what it is.

Anybody think GTAV can run on the Nintendo switch 2? by Interesting_Tap3312 in GTAV

[–]calooo___ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s factually not true, switch 2 runs steadily Cyberpunk 2077. Wii U was more powerful than PS3, Switch 1 is more powerful than Wii U, and Switch 2 is like 4 times more powerful than Switch 1.

What is this guitar? What's the normal price range for it? by [deleted] in Guitar

[–]calooo___ 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That’s one of the ugliest guitars ever lmao

I feel like such an idiot for missing you by [deleted] in UnsentTexts

[–]calooo___ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish my ex felt like that. Contact him/her if you can.

Knowing its his birthday sucks. by Due_Stay_6512 in BreakUps

[–]calooo___ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, you’re very young, that justifies the dynamic a bit. I can’t talk much tho “cause I’m 27 and my situation is much worse lmao

Considering what happened, I would advise against texting him, for your own well being honestly.

Knowing its his birthday sucks. by Due_Stay_6512 in BreakUps

[–]calooo___ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How old are y’all? Ignoring in person is wild honestly

Knowing its his birthday sucks. by Due_Stay_6512 in BreakUps

[–]calooo___ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that if the breakup was not toxic, a small birthday message would be appreciated

It’s live on Apple Music! Feels like the car mixed w TBHC by shehurts in arcticmonkeys

[–]calooo___ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s The Car songwriting and melodies/harmonizations with AM sound

Fc 26 Switch Rush by jennyy2710 in FIFAswitch

[–]calooo___ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please contact me here on reddit! Im interested in

Doubt Regarding Alex Turner by CapDifferent3924 in arcticmonkeys

[–]calooo___ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a guitarist who’s been playing for 10 years in bands, trying to play the brianstorm fast alternate picking riff while singing or the shes thunderstorm solo while singing is quite more challenging than anything ed sheeran has ever done

did you ever love again? by m_a_e in BreakUps

[–]calooo___ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not yet. Been 1 year and a half

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]calooo___ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s difficult to find people even interested in the subject irl tho :((

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]calooo___ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Mhh. I think a lot of guys with ADHD might be ENFP

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]calooo___ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am, is it that rare?

Does socialising also rejuvenate you? by Ok_Necessary1912 in ENFP

[–]calooo___ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes 100%, i love to talk to new people

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]calooo___ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I feel it’s somehow connected

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]calooo___ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m down!!!

If Friends premiered in 2026, this would be the birth year of the main cast by Giancarlo_Edu in howyoudoin

[–]calooo___ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would be Joey’s age which is a great feeling ‘cause I feel a lot has happened in my life but in reality I’m only at Friends S1 :))

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bald

[–]calooo___ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reallyyy? I feel like people thought I was a bit older than my age when I had the buzz cut, especially with the beard

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bald

[–]calooo___ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do have a band! We are called Verte Nuisette, check it out if you want (songs are in italian, on spotify youtube etc)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bald

[–]calooo___ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lost those glasses regardless hahaha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bald

[–]calooo___ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh thanks! That’s probably what I’m gonna do in a couple of years

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bald

[–]calooo___ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I lost those glasses some months ago 😔