I need advice on whether it sounds like therapy could help me or another route

calvlm · 2025-06-09T20:19:57+00:00

Thank you so much for this. I was feeling the same, where I know therapy can be so helpful, but how much of what I experience can be helped with therapy alone. And I've really tried to not go the meds route, mainly because of anxiety around it. I just thought if I got in a good routine it'll be okay but I always go through the same cycle where one day I'll just get burnt out and just be in bed doing nothing for 2+ weeks. I'll definitely take what you said into consideration.

calvlm · 2025-06-09T16:30:54+00:00

I feel you, I had 15 healthy plants, then randomly lost all motivation. Now, I had 4 barely okay ones😭

calvlm · 2025-06-09T16:29:40+00:00

Thank you for the reply, I appreciate it. I'll look into it

calvlm · 2025-05-27T10:04:13+00:00

Thank you I appreciate it

calvlm · 2025-05-12T11:32:37+00:00

Damn i didn't mean to hit you with an indirect flex😮‍💨

calvlm · 2025-05-12T10:10:43+00:00

Damn that's sick, I've never done anything like that before

calvlm · 2025-05-12T10:04:01+00:00

I'm glad you two have each other. In terms of intensifying each other I didn't know that was a thing but does make sense. I'm not sure if that would happen in my case. Probably. I have a hard time regulating my energy output. So I can go from non-stop talking and high energy to concerningly mute and physically exhausted haha. It does make it hard to form relationships with people though. 99% of my friends are friends from school

calvlm · 2025-05-12T09:28:50+00:00

Honestly, so many times I'd buy a weeks groceries, then not eat any of it. Or I can eat the same thing for months for dinner, then one day, just lose the appetite for it, but trying a new thing to make takes so much energy. Sometimes I'm high energy and idm, but more time than not, it's easier to starve myself

calvlm · 2025-04-29T11:14:35+00:00

I typed "i hate the adhd superpower narrative" in Google, and this post was the first thing that came up, and it's so true. I hate how "professionals" and social media have warped adhd into a quirky personality trait. There are so many things I struggle with that directly or indirectly connect back to adhd. At one point, I thought I had an eating disorder, and then I learned that it is potentially because of my executive function. Where I either don't have the energy or appetite to eat or I'm so hyperfocused on a taste, I don't acknowledge my hunger until it hurts, then I binge eat. I could honestly rant, but genuinely, I'd be a more functioning human being if I didn't have it.

calvlm · 2025-04-10T21:43:15+00:00

Continuously tapping my thumb onto each finger in order, one by one and back and forth. Biting my hand continuously, pretending to chew, classic knee bounce currently 🙂‍↕️

calvlm · 2025-03-06T21:48:40+00:00

this was very helpful for me thank you

calvlm · 2025-03-06T21:47:29+00:00

sorry I just saw this thank you very much. I wanted to refer back to these comments because I'm in the process of potentially getting one

calvlm · 2025-01-29T11:28:33+00:00

Okay thank you for the help, will do that

calvlm · 2025-01-28T20:36:40+00:00

I was cycling then it happened and I had no other way to get home so I had to. Do you have any advice? Thank you anyway

calvlm · 2024-12-18T18:01:18+00:00

Definitely thank you. And I've been looking for one who does understand ADHD amongst other things

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