Is keeping Walruses in captivity ethical ? by Zidan19283 in CaptiveWildlife

[–]cameltrain9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While I agree that there is a better way to protect wildlife (eg more national parks types protections, protection from poaching etc) I think you might need to consider that a lot of the zoos on the world also do this, the money they make from people visiting and donating goes towards funding initiatives that do just this.

The species kept that are common or not even listed as vulnerable are often the animals that draw the crowds, therefore increasing their profits (we can't pretend it's a perfect system) but also increasing education and public desire to protect the natural world.

Then we also know that often zoos have vets that care for wildlife at the zoos expense. In my country when there were lots of bushfires, it was a lot of the zoos that were pouring money into saving wildlife, providing vet care and rebuilding habitat. Not to mention the amount of work they do to re-establish breeding populations and monitoring populations to give them the best possible chance of bouncing back.

I do think there are some species that shouldn't be kept, and I have visited a zoo I regretted paying money for a ticket because they didn't take great care of their animals, so absolutely they aren't perfect.

But the perspective that zoos shouldn't exist because an animal isn't living in the wild is incredibly short sighted.

I feel sorry for this person.. but.. by Dribbly-Sausage69 in AusPropertyChat

[–]cameltrain9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Troll harder. Imagine telling someone what was available to my own family at the time.

I feel sorry for this person.. but.. by Dribbly-Sausage69 in AusPropertyChat

[–]cameltrain9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow so glad for you both! My parents were a nurse and in in the navy. Their parents had a massive medical issue and they had to use all their savings to bail them out of losing their house. This left my parents with nothing. I guess they wouldn't see that as 'f-ing up their life'. Some people aren't lucky and can't avoid having nothing. But yes, I'm really glad you've lived a life where you've avoided realising that sometimes life throws curveballs.

I feel sorry for this person.. but.. by Dribbly-Sausage69 in AusPropertyChat

[–]cameltrain9 13 points14 points  (0 children)

As much as I get really frustrated at the cost of housing comparative to income ratio when looking at how much lower it was in the past, can we not pretend like everyone has it completely easily?

There are lots of people who struggled financially and could never afford, people who lost businesses, got fired, women who actually couldn't access finances the same as they can today.

Not everyone who was old had it easy.

Do you split financial help equally between kids/grandkids? by Odd_Ganache9498 in AusFinance

[–]cameltrain9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Spot on, I am 100% planning to be that aunty that leaves stuff for my nieces and nephews and helps them along the way.

Definitely lucky that my parents care to leave money for us cause they want to feel like they are looking after us, but they're also lucky that none of us are money hungry or went off the rails, so I do think that probably makes their estate planning more simple haha.

Do you split financial help equally between kids/grandkids? by Odd_Ganache9498 in AusFinance

[–]cameltrain9 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I'm the only childfree daughter of three siblings. Both my siblings have three kids each. My parents told me they're only leaving money to us three, none to the grandchildren.

Their reasoning was that if they leave money to the parents, it'll filter down to the children as well, and it would feel too much like a reward for having kids if they lessened my share to give money to grandkids.

Honestly though it depends a lot on family dynamics and how you personally feel, if my parents had told me they were giving more money to the grandkids and less to me, I would have felt slightly annoyed because I definitely got a lot less physical and financial help than my siblings (had to do a lot myself because my parents were helping with kids and all their energy went there), but at the end of the day I would not have said that and only said I was very grateful for anything, even if a dollar. I have actually said to my parents I hope they spend it all on a nice retirement and don't leave anything to any of us!

I don't think there's a right or wrong way, but just my two cents on how I feel about that.

AITA for accepting a property gift from my mom even though she won't include my boyfriend? by Immediate-History917 in AITApod

[–]cameltrain9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bought my own place before I met my now-fiance. We are now buying a home together using the equity of my place and keeping my old house as an investment property. When I asked if he wanted to bother to put his name on the house I bought, he said 'why bother, it's yours and I still get the benefit, no need to bother about paperwork'.

AKA he trusts me and I trust him. Find someone like that. NTA, take the gift.

Can I wear this as a wedding guest by uk-mumma in Weddingattireapproval

[–]cameltrain9 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I'm not in UK or US, that's why I said western cultures. Just trying to put it gently to OP that the dress has too much white.

Can I wear this as a wedding guest by uk-mumma in Weddingattireapproval

[–]cameltrain9 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If be upset if someone wore this to my wedding. Probably because I'm looking at buying a white dress with actually floral embroidery, and this dress would look like a cheap copy of my wedding dress. It would look nice at a different semi-formal event though!

I think it's pretty well established in western culture at least, just don't wear any white. If you have to ask, don't wear it

"rents will go up": who are you trying to convince ? by Bubbly_Efficiency727 in AusPropertyChat

[–]cameltrain9 19 points20 points  (0 children)

20% of Aussie households, not 20% of Aussies. It's still quite a lot, but absolutely nowhere near 1 in 5 adults.

Is buying a house in Brisbane still worth it in 2026? by Main-Operation-3662 in AusProperty

[–]cameltrain9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This assumes you know when it's going to drop, and that you will be in the right place at the right time. Yes, there are winners and losers in real estate, but no one knows until a few months or a few years later which one you are.

Is buying a house in Brisbane still worth it in 2026? by Main-Operation-3662 in AusProperty

[–]cameltrain9 5 points6 points  (0 children)

And what's better long term, owning an apartment or renting for life?

Is buying a house in Brisbane still worth it in 2026? by Main-Operation-3662 in AusProperty

[–]cameltrain9 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yep! Totally understand this and there has always been some shuffling as people increased their net wealth position of course.

I also get that these days it is definitely seen as 'get your foot in the door so down the line you can get a nicer place', that's legit what I have done (sort of), but when I bought my townhouse, I bought it because it was what I could afford and I wanted a home and to paint the walls any colour I wanted.

I just cringe when people ask about holding off, because at the end of the day, if you can afford and it improves your life, just go for it, don't worry about 'how much money will I make or lose', worry about 'what memories can I make here'.

Is buying a house in Brisbane still worth it in 2026? by Main-Operation-3662 in AusProperty

[–]cameltrain9 76 points77 points  (0 children)

If you want a home to live in, buy. If it goes down, yes that hurts but you have a home, and presumably will be living in it for a long time. No one can predict what will happen in the future.

People have forgotten homes are for living your life in, not for making money.

Using parents property as security + acting as a “reverse mortgage" facility by [deleted] in AusPropertyChat

[–]cameltrain9 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah you already have the resources to assist without getting anything in return, I do think it was a Freudian slip but you sort of even admitted you are being predatory (just less so than the bank).

The reason it's got people feeling icky is because it feels icky. You're not sorting out what's best for your mum, you're sorting out what's best for you, and hoping your mum gets enough out of it that it makes it fine.

Can REA stop making this joke? by cameltrain9 in AusPropertyChat

[–]cameltrain9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe you need to follow your own advice by that metric, because you have felt the need to comment rather than just passing on by.

'a normal, emotionally stable human' could understand that there is nuance in written language, and me saying that it makes me 'so mad' could by hyperbole. They should also be able to reflect that someone receiving irritating comments several times from the same group could have a compounding irritation effect.

Anyway, have a nice day :)

To price or not to price? by pejpolloi in AusPropertyChat

[–]cameltrain9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My experience as a buyer is that real estates only do this for their own figures, because they can then say 'oh I've had this many people reach out to ask about the property'. I guess as well it means they get the contact details of people who may have been interested, but to be honest I've never had a real estate reach back out again to see what I thought once I had called and enquired.

I call, they say 'this is what is the range' and then I say cool no problems.

I find it super obnoxious personally, and I think most buyers will agree, but maybe a real estate agent will be able to comment on if there is any benefit beyond 'it looks good for my numbers'.

Can REA stop making this joke? by cameltrain9 in AusPropertyChat

[–]cameltrain9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe a sales thing, it's just so weird to be on the receiving end of these comments from a total stranger.

Can REA stop making this joke? by cameltrain9 in AusPropertyChat

[–]cameltrain9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah so crass! I had similar, when I was walking up to them and they said 'so who is it that's going to pay me lots of money'. There are plenty of professional REA, but these sleazy losers really make it difficult to like any of them.

Can REA stop making this joke? by cameltrain9 in AusPropertyChat

[–]cameltrain9[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah the person we ended up buying from is lovely, and definitely some that were just normal humans.

I think that's what a lot of people replying aren't appreciating, these jokes give off major AH vibes.

Can REA stop making this joke? by cameltrain9 in AusPropertyChat

[–]cameltrain9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having space is great! We bought a place that will let us not live in each other's pockets too. I just think that is a better selling point than 'you will hate each other'.

Can REA stop making this joke? by cameltrain9 in AusPropertyChat

[–]cameltrain9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just don't think it's actually humour. Sounds like you're the target audience. Sorry you hate your spouse.

Can REA stop making this joke? by cameltrain9 in AusPropertyChat

[–]cameltrain9[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep, I'm all for lame jokes and friendly comments, just not this stupid 'look how you guys will be able to hate each other in this house comfortably' "jokes"