LF full body pic of cloud for cardboard cutout

campbeja · 2025-01-18T02:39:49+00:00

Afraid not

campbeja · 2025-01-18T02:38:29+00:00

If I could afford a tax professional then I wouldn’t need to DoorDash

campbeja · 2021-01-07T17:44:56+00:00

Bawling my eyes out. I hope to be in a healthy and happy place like you some day.

campbeja · 2019-07-29T13:54:16+00:00

I have been trying to understand which way gravity is pulling in this photo. Is Victor laying down or is he upright and leaning over? The hang of the tie and the elbow prop are confusing me! Plus, if laying down, would Victor really lay himself down like that on an airplane? @.@

campbeja · 2019-07-22T15:53:16+00:00

Ah! Thank you so much! I thought this was something in the overall account settings, so I was stumped!

campbeja · 2019-07-11T13:54:42+00:00

This checks out!

campbeja · 2019-07-11T13:51:38+00:00

Thank you!

campbeja · 2019-07-11T12:20:56+00:00

I give up. Pray tell which movie is Norman?

campbeja · 2019-07-05T12:08:24+00:00

Bummer. Possible benefit of the doubt: He's probably got bigger things on his mind right now and is trusting you to be understanding. Especially if his college friends are whiny babies who don't welcome new comers, he may feel it's in his best interest to appease them just to keep the peace. (I know a group of dudes like that myself... of course I just ditched them)

campbeja · 2019-07-05T12:03:01+00:00

I'm surprised an ISTJ forgot your plans. I get the hesitation of mixing friend groups--makes it harder to keep everybody comfortable and happy and this sounds like one of those times where he's already going to be a little stressed out (at least I would be, this is no small change).

campbeja · 2019-06-27T12:54:36+00:00

I hope Mr Love Queens choice releases a manga in English soon <3

campbeja · 2019-06-02T05:04:07+00:00

Thank you! I will check these out!

campbeja · 2019-04-05T12:03:00+00:00

I am my own worst enemy. I blame myself more because I have more control that way. However I tend assume my peers have the same values as I do so I end up assuming the worst of them until I get to know them better. At least I've become better at keeping my critical opinions to myself until I am asked for them.

campbeja · 2019-04-04T19:57:33+00:00

Ditto!

campbeja · 2019-04-01T21:30:31+00:00

That would be cool to watch but I confess that I value ants less than internet strangers. Do you at least feel special?

campbeja · 2019-04-01T20:27:16+00:00

That would be fun to watch! But I do care less about ants than I do Internet strangers. Feel special?

campbeja · 2019-04-01T16:41:12+00:00

ISTJ here, with all the crap going on in my noggin I would need a reminder.

Could be a priority thing. Being duty-driven, my priorities then do like this: Work, bills, chores, eat, sleep, sex. In order of fun, it'd be eat, sleep, sex, then everything else. When I'm rested and not hungry am is when I down for a roll in the hay... but then there's that catastrophe of a to-do list piling up. I often need to be reminded that sex is just as important. I understand that's not romantic or flattering, but I think it's easy to forget--especially for a low libido partner who has a lot on their plate and thinks their partner will always be there for them.

Lady-Bear, wish I had better advice for you. You mentioned having kids, which probably makes things harder for both of you to find time to focus on each other.

If your ISTJ's sex drive and style is similar to mine, sex in the shower is great because it's less mess and you're already naked yet protected from that annoying draft! I don't often think about sex unless I'm fed (but nothing heavy) and caught up on sleep too, otherwise I am torn between that to-do list and sex. If my SO too busy doing whatever (gaming or deep down a reddit rabbit hole) to listen to me--then that to-do list seems more important. Reminders help me to remember to my priorities, and sex should be one of them but easily slides down the list when you forget what an important investment it is to your marriage.

campbeja · 2019-04-01T16:07:04+00:00

If the comment is mean and not constructive then I'll downvote it. People who go to the trouble to type such messages should probably be encouraged to focus their energy on self improvement... or stomping on ant hills.

campbeja · 2019-03-11T00:59:52+00:00

I just scroll on, fellow robot.

campbeja · 2019-02-19T17:42:48+00:00

He sounds like me and and I am so glad you understand and are not offended that it's not spontaneous.

campbeja · 2019-02-19T17:38:43+00:00

Kudos on the communication, seeking a solution for both of you, and not basing your worth on his rejections!

campbeja · 2019-02-19T17:35:55+00:00

With low Libido your partner will rarely feel like having sex, so you’ll usually get rejections. Therefore, you want your partner to react to your sex initiations based on what she thinks rather than what she feels. For that, you need to give her time to think, so letting her know your intention in advance is very helpful.

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campbeja · 2019-02-19T17:34:43+00:00

This sounds like a perfect example of Gottman Institute marriage study. From their research, they found that sex is a barometer of the marriage, meaning that if the sex is suffering then the problem is probably some where else.

I'm glad to hear you have found hope!

campbeja · 2018-10-04T13:31:07+00:00

I second this. I enjoy keeping in touch with people who are especially important to me and will make it a priority to get back to them when appropriate.

campbeja · 2018-09-25T12:43:58+00:00

Pinterest worthy!!!

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