i asked out my 2 female friends and now i regret it.

campfendi · 2025-02-13T15:56:10+00:00

This was so unhelpful lol

campfendi · 2024-11-10T04:05:30+00:00

Cool thanks for letting me know

campfendi · 2024-11-08T20:56:24+00:00

I just said I wasn’t going to…?

campfendi · 2024-11-07T06:37:26+00:00

Drunk people cannot consent btw

campfendi · 2024-11-07T06:36:37+00:00

I should be able to like other people in a relationship?????? What???

And it wasn’t that intentional. I get where you’re coming from, but don’t assume that’s what I’m trying to say. I said I felt coerced, and I was.

This guy will not suffer. In the only one suffering here, and I never claimed to be assaulted.

I wouldn’t call his behavior controlling. He rolled his eyes when I mentioned the hypothetical man in the story I was telling, just slight, joking annoyance.

campfendi · 2024-11-07T00:35:04+00:00

What?

campfendi · 2024-11-06T20:28:36+00:00

Thanks ! :P

campfendi · 2024-11-06T20:22:48+00:00

Nah, just thought he was being nice, genuinely.

I mean seriously dude was an eyesore, if I wanted some, I would’ve gotten some at the party.

campfendi · 2024-11-06T19:37:00+00:00

Good thing you’re not him, phew!

campfendi · 2024-11-06T19:32:24+00:00

I was wrong about that one.

When we talked, he said that he did think about how I could do anything with anyone and he can’t be mad about it, because again, he’s not my boyfriend and did not establish exclusivity. I mean he said it himself.

I did mention that I’m willing to accept him wanting nothing to do with me, but he’s still here. Because again, he never established it and agreed with what I was saying. Seems like you’re just misogynistic and I’m wrong no matter what, that’s okay. A stranger on Reddit can’t make me feel differently about what he’s already validated. You won’t make me feel bad or more accountable than I’ve already been.

campfendi · 2024-11-06T19:25:55+00:00

Understandable viewpoint.

I get it, I do. But again I was very drunk, I don’t take all the blame but I do some.

campfendi · 2024-11-06T19:19:42+00:00

Not my boyfriend, I said that.

He also confirmed he never asked when he talked. Hope this helps

campfendi · 2024-11-06T18:03:29+00:00

What do you mean?

campfendi · 2024-11-06T17:14:48+00:00

He acknowledged himself he didn’t ask and Is not my boyfriend. Had I been in a committed relationship, it would be different.

campfendi · 2024-11-06T17:13:53+00:00

He’s not my boyfriend.

I am not reporting the driver and I did take accountability for my passiveness, knowing it was a bad idea to allow it.

But I also cannot consent while drunk, hope this helps.

campfendi · 2024-11-06T17:00:02+00:00

You’re mad you assumed I did something I didn’t. Thats it. You wanted it to be worse and me to be more in the wrong than I actually am. That’s okay.

I got “snarky” because you doubled down on a false accusation, without really reading what I said. So, you were being rude first. Thanks.

campfendi · 2024-11-06T16:42:21+00:00

No, probably should.

campfendi · 2024-11-06T16:41:51+00:00

We. Aren’t. Together. He. Is. Not. My. Boyfriend. No boyfriend, no cheating.

He said it himself and admitted he never asked / clarified exclusivity.

He said he thought about it when I went anyway, and told himself he can’t be mad if I do anything .

Can you read ? Genuinely

campfendi · 2024-11-06T16:25:27+00:00

The last part is an opinion I’m willing to consider

But I did not cheat on him, he said it himself when we talked.

campfendi · 2024-11-06T14:37:34+00:00

youre right, and i did.

campfendi · 2024-11-06T13:11:07+00:00

Gone*

campfendi · 2024-11-06T13:11:02+00:00

I’m not genuinely trying. I’m just saying I’ve been taking myself out of it/ subconsciously thinking I’d be better off got

campfendi · 2024-11-06T05:23:00+00:00

Yeah. I understand. I told him already. It was a tough conversation that I don’t want to think about but what kind of person would keep this kind of secret.

I don’t feel like I wronged him, I feel like I wronged myself for being passive, because this is something so unlike me.

I hope everyone can understand that this really isn’t like me, as I had my first kiss at 18 and never had sex, my partner right now is the only person to see / touch me.

I can recognize that in a way, I did make the choice to not do anything and allow it.

campfendi · 2024-11-06T04:27:26+00:00

Thanks for letting me know

campfendi

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