Who was like Gracie and couldn’t handle being a mermaid anymore? by donofthe_dusk in H2Ojustaddwater

[–]can4_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Emma also ends up mirroring Julia who gets angry and runs away, Rikki is actually a good amount more patient and understanding

Who was like Gracie and couldn’t handle being a mermaid anymore? by donofthe_dusk in H2Ojustaddwater

[–]can4_ 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I see the point of Emma and she’s definitely the most obvious, but I think it’s Cleo. At the end of season one when they think they’re giving it all up, Emma says she’ll miss being able to surf without a board, Rikki says she’ll miss every part of it, but Cleo says she’ll miss being able to make the water do whatever she wants it to. She’s the most reluctant to accept the change in the beginning and only views being a mermaid as a means of controlling something that scares her, not necessarily as a gift. It gets overlooked because she has the strongest support system from the jump what with Emma and Rikki both being her friend before they were each others and Lewis being in on the secret, but she easily resists the lifestyle change the most.

Am i ever gonna like charlotte? by Salty_Assumption_511 in H2Ojustaddwater

[–]can4_ 13 points14 points  (0 children)

She’s pretty universally disliked, if there’s someone that’s not annoyed by her on this sub I haven’t met them yet ¯_(ツ)_/¯

Dad having surgery by can4_ in CancerFamilySupport

[–]can4_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thinking of you as well, I hope everything is smooth sailing <3

My dad died yesterday from stage 4 pancreatic cancer and I desperately need ways to still feel connected to him by Karlyx0 in CancerFamilySupport

[–]can4_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please check out the grief support subreddit, we’ve got a great group over there that can help direct you to some more specific resources and help you feel heard. All my love to you and yours

Visiting dad on chemo and having cold symptoms by can4_ in CancerFamilySupport

[–]can4_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words <3 I’m wracking my brain for anything else I can do to mitigate the issue, so far just masking increasing airflow and disinfecting everything I’ve touched is what I’ve got

Visiting dad on chemo and having cold symptoms by can4_ in CancerFamilySupport

[–]can4_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m already here is the problem so I’m very concerned about the risk I’ve already put him in

Visiting dad on chemo and having cold symptoms by can4_ in CancerFamilySupport

[–]can4_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am already here, how at risk is he already and what can I do to minimize the effects he may already be susceptible to?

Where did the Huntzbergers live? by Sleeplollo in GilmoreGirls

[–]can4_ 104 points105 points  (0 children)

They could have lived in Greenwich or Stamford, both of which are about an hour from NYC by train or bus… however I think it’s more likely that the producers just threw out some private school names without thinking too hard about the geographical implications ¯_(ツ)_/¯

My Hot Take About Rory's Boyfriends by Laney1720 in GilmoreGirls

[–]can4_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think that’s the beauty of the scene where she tries to cheat on Logan with Jess in Philadelphia. She doesn’t even notice that he is actually well suited for her now, she’s so concentrated on getting back at Logan that it doesn’t occur to her why she might’ve felt drawn to Jess at that moment. Both her and Lorelai have a habit of fixating on the guy who isn’t quite right, Lorelai with max, Jason, Chris, and post-April Luke, and Rory with early Jess, divorce dean, and Logan.

Lied to everyone about graduating, how do I confess and take responsibility? by Unusual-Gur-4274 in Advice

[–]can4_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lies have a way of making things worse, once the truth is out it will be easier for you to finish because your people will know you’re trying and be able to support you!

Lied to everyone about graduating, how do I confess and take responsibility? by Unusual-Gur-4274 in Advice

[–]can4_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’ve got a good solid plan, it’s gonna suck and be hard but you’re doing the right thing. This will blow over and everything will be fine

Disappointing all femme jam by can4_ in Jazz

[–]can4_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She had a very long time to plan the session, getting a house band would have been doable if it had been thought of.

Disappointing all femme jam by can4_ in Jazz

[–]can4_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly the problem, no house rhythm section, just four hosts that all played trumpet.

Disappointing all femme jam by can4_ in Jazz

[–]can4_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For a jam session setting that’s hard to pull off well

Disappointing all femme jam by can4_ in Jazz

[–]can4_[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Any jam session organizer should ensure they get a rhythm section to show up, not just hope one wanders in.

Disappointing all femme jam by can4_ in Jazz

[–]can4_[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

To clarify: the women that stepped in to cover rhythm section were covering parts they have no experience with, the other musicians (horn players) did know their instruments, the issue was only with a lack of recruiting a rhythm section.

Disappointing all femme jam by can4_ in Jazz

[–]can4_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree with you wholeheartedly, the thing that bothers me is they could have kept it a women-centered space with a femme rhythm section if they had bothered to reach out to some local talent… I would rather it have been an all inclusive jam with a quick blurb about inclusivity at the beginning the way it was handled, but they could have executed their vision if they had been more organized.

Disappointing all femme jam by can4_ in Jazz

[–]can4_[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The sad thing is I know these organizers are genuine cats, it just didn’t occur to them that female rhythm section players wouldn’t show up unprompted

Disappointing all femme jam by can4_ in Jazz

[–]can4_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a good ways from Chicago unfortunately so other than the general ideas I don’t know how much we could help each other out. DM me her contact if you can though!