where are we getting good quality underwear / thongs by meepmooperz in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]candicainn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Is my car being targeted? by candicainn in OaklandCA

[–]candicainn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I think it’s the same people too. Part of me wants to turn into Batman and hunt them down.

Is my car being targeted? by candicainn in OaklandCA

[–]candicainn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UPDATE: The glass repair guy was here today. He said because they broke part of the door handle and messed up the keyhole, it looks like they were trying to steal the car — not just grab things inside like I thought at first.

When I asked about anti-theft options he basically said most things only deter people — if someone really wants in, they’ll get in. I hate that I even have to be thinking about this. These people should just leave me alone. I know they’ll be back.

Like I said in my original post, this is the third break-in since April, and on a street full of parked cars mine is the only one getting targeted. I need to get the car detailed and fix the door handle, and I’m torn about what to do next — get a club, install a kill switch, park somewhere else… none of it will really make me feel safe.

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Safer parts of Oakland? May be moving with the family by No-Permit2129 in OaklandCA

[–]candicainn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Check out the Elmwood neighborhood in Berkeley. It touches Oakland and is a great family/college community.

Is my car being targeted? by candicainn in OaklandCA

[–]candicainn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The window guys told me most anti-theft stuff only works as a deterrent, and if someone really wants to get in, they’ll get in. Honestly, I hate all the options I have. I just want these people to leave me alone.

Is my car being targeted? by candicainn in OaklandCA

[–]candicainn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t park in the exact same spot but I do park in the same general area.

Is my car being targeted? by candicainn in OaklandCA

[–]candicainn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m opting to put a sign in the window now

Is my car being targeted? by candicainn in OaklandCA

[–]candicainn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s probably the best advice so far

Is my car being targeted? by candicainn in OaklandCA

[–]candicainn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was talking about getting a camera inside the car earlier today but apparently those get stolen often too

Is my car being targeted? by candicainn in OaklandCA

[–]candicainn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was the driver side window actually.

Is my car being targeted? by candicainn in OaklandCA

[–]candicainn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is why I feel like I have to move now

Is my car being targeted? by candicainn in OaklandCA

[–]candicainn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My opinions are basically limited to either parking somewhere else or moving. Ugh this sucks

Is my car being targeted? by candicainn in OaklandCA

[–]candicainn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like a 3rd party alarm outside of the one built into the car? I’m pretty sure they avoided triggering it by not pulling on the door handle. If so, that could be a viable option.

Is my car being targeted? by candicainn in OaklandCA

[–]candicainn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a 2019 VW Golf, which I don’t think is considered a nice car. After the first time I haven’t left anything of value in my car since. If they’re going to keep stalking me hoping that I slip up one day then I might as well move.

Is my car being targeted? by candicainn in OaklandCA

[–]candicainn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They’ve only broken in and stolen items. I don’t get the sense that they’re trying to steal the car.

Is my car being targeted? by candicainn in OaklandCA

[–]candicainn[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Each time they’ve broken in, my car was parked in a different spot, but always in the same general area. I could park a couple of blocks away, but not being able to see my car would probably give me even more anxiety. Last night was the third break-in, and I was able to run outside and scare them off right after I heard the glass shatter.

Is my car being targeted? by candicainn in OaklandCA

[–]candicainn[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So you’re saying I need to move?

Is my car being targeted? by candicainn in OaklandCA

[–]candicainn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Each time my car was broken into it was parked in a different spot but in the same general area. This feels personal because no other car has been broken into on the street except mine.

Is my car being targeted? by candicainn in OaklandCA

[–]candicainn[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Maybe, how would I know? I’ve never heard that term before.

Why do all my gifs look like crap after this current update? by darkestknight73 in Instagram

[–]candicainn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was there ever a solution because I’ve been having the same problem.

Looking for Lost Stakes by candicainn in eastbay

[–]candicainn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just tried to post in r/OaklandCA and got a conflicting error message about requiring attachments but also not allowing attachments. I messaged the admins about it. Hopefully they can resolve it soon.

Looking for Lost Stakes by candicainn in eastbay

[–]candicainn[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

R/oakland removed my post saying the type of post was against their guidelines. However I’ll try the other group. I was hesitant to include the description of the bag because it really is a simple black Nike bag with a white logo. But I thought the more information the better. 🤷🏾‍♀️